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 Posted: Sat Aug 11, 2007 2:52 am
I don't want to be starting anything that has already began somewhere else. if I could get a link to that thread that would be wonderful smile
If not then... well that's for later.
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Posted: Sat Aug 11, 2007 8:09 am
no, I don't believe Sex has been discussed yet. What were you wanting to discuss?
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Posted: Sat Aug 11, 2007 10:24 am
Sex before marriage= Bad
I'll have to face the wrath of God on this one crying I just couldn't save myself sad But I do plan on tying the knot with the guy, though I still wish I had left all that till after the big day.
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Posted: Sat Aug 11, 2007 12:18 pm
Se Ga Takai no, I don't believe Sex has been discussed yet. What were you wanting to discuss?
So I began to think... what about those that need something more sexual to live a happier life. Does that leave them to just figure it out themselves. (i.e. masterbation) and is masterbation a sin? It's sexual isn't it.... I mean it uses the same body parts. If yes then that just leads me to the conclusion that everyone needs to start getting married at 16 before our "drives" take over. Then of course there's the complicated subject of oral sex which is right in the middle of everything and people seems to have very differnt opinions about whether it is considered sex or not. I would say yes aswell as most people, but there's still a debate over it.
Tell me if I'm saying too much I wouldn't want to damage any young minds. Although this is about the time for them to know ninja
Oh and if there are any happy couples in this guild I would love to hear your opinions and how both of you deal with the topic. Thanks heart
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Posted: Sat Aug 11, 2007 9:54 pm
from personal experience, it is usually best for a couple to save their first 'pleasure' for each other. Be it Oral or full physical, the emotions are still there, and sharing it with anyone other than your Spouse can leave a wound. I know this because I didn't wait for Marriage, and slept with a Woman that I had *thought* would one day be my Wife, only to have teh engagement broken off a month later. I felt guilty for a long time that my now Wife kept her Virginity for me until our own Wedding night, and I did not reserve the same for her. She refuses to give me any ill Will about it, but teh wound remains.
As for Oral being considered Sex, I would imagine so. It's still a personal act between two people. I wouldn't think so on Masturbation, as there's no emotion there splitting you from your spouse or taking away from anything, but I can guarantee there will be other opinions on it.
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Posted: Mon Aug 13, 2007 8:27 am
Well.
Isn't this just interesting.
I didn't wait. Just thought I'd get that out. But also keep in mind that sometime soon I will be tying the knot with the woman of my dreams. When we did it, it was both our first time, and I won't have it any other way. We're marrying each other, so that's all good on that point.
Some people are addicted to sex. I'm not kidding. It's an actual, doctor-diagnosed medical condition. Sucks for them, but hey. They get laid a lot. Whatever.
Not everyone needs sex to be happy. I'm perfectly happy without sex. I enjoy it, but I don't need it to be happy.
Masterbation. Sex for one. A date with Palmella Handerson. Whatever you want to call it. Milking the monk. Gripping the grail. Someone stop me... please...
Anyway. I've heard studies that it's good for you... while I know the slang condition known as 'blue balls' doesn't actually happen, that's the general gist of what they were talking about. Relieving pressure and all.
Whatever.
Moving on.
Oral sex.
Is it sex?
Define sex.
Let's let dictionary.com do it for us...dictionary.com sex /sɛks/ Pronunciation Key - Show Spelled Pronunciation[seks] Pronunciation Key - Show IPA Pronunciation –noun 1. either the male or female division of a species, esp. as differentiated with reference to the reproductive functions. 2. the sum of the structural and functional differences by which the male and female are distinguished, or the phenomena or behavior dependent on these differences. 3. the instinct or attraction drawing one sex toward another, or its manifestation in life and conduct. 4. coitus. 5. genitalia. –verb (used with object) 6. to ascertain the sex of, esp. of newly-hatched chicks. —Verb phrase 7. sex up, Informal. a. to arouse sexually: The only intent of that show was to sex up the audience. b. to increase the appeal of; to make more interesting, attractive, or exciting: We've decided to sex up the movie with some battle scenes. —Idiom 8. to have sex, to engage in sexual intercourse.
Is oral sex considered sex?
Well...
considering the name of it...
Kinda.
is it really?
No. Not really. No penetration.
Ergo, not really sex.
Sexual?
Definitely.
But that's the end of this particular rant.
And not once did I bash religion... I'm so proud of myself...
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Posted: Tue Aug 14, 2007 11:54 am
There's not a whole lot I can do about sex before marriage in my position. Hm.
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Posted: Tue Aug 14, 2007 7:14 pm
Superior Jazz
Masterbation. Sex for one. A date with Palmella Handerson. Whatever you want to call it. Milking the monk. Gripping the grail.I'm sorry, but this must be said. ROFLMAO! Mmk, I'm done, everyone move along now...
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Posted: Tue Aug 14, 2007 9:37 pm
GOOD HEAVENS, MY GOOD SENSIBILITIES HAVE BEEN OFFENDED
I SAY, IS THIS TOPIC APPROPRIATE FOR CHRISTIANS TO DISCUSS?
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Posted: Wed Aug 15, 2007 5:28 am
i like burnination GOOD HEAVENS, MY GOOD SENSIBILITIES HAVE BEEN OFFENDED I SAY, IS THIS TOPIC APPROPRIATE FOR CHRISTIANS TO DISCUSS? URGHEYLOL
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Posted: Wed Aug 15, 2007 8:28 am
i like burnination GOOD HEAVENS, MY GOOD SENSIBILITIES HAVE BEEN OFFENDED I SAY, IS THIS TOPIC APPROPRIATE FOR CHRISTIANS TO DISCUSS? We may be Christians, but we're still part of the human population. Or are we... We're really little green men from the planet HESHKTAR and we have come to take over your world, starting with the strongest government. ninja And as long as we're discussing sex, I have a question of my own. Is it alright to have fantasies with no one in particular?
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Posted: Wed Aug 15, 2007 11:14 am
Se Ga Takai i like burnination GOOD HEAVENS, MY GOOD SENSIBILITIES HAVE BEEN OFFENDED I SAY, IS THIS TOPIC APPROPRIATE FOR CHRISTIANS TO DISCUSS? URGHEYLOL touche.
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Posted: Wed Aug 15, 2007 11:17 am
i like burnination GOOD HEAVENS, MY GOOD SENSIBILITIES HAVE BEEN OFFENDED I SAY, IS THIS TOPIC APPROPRIATE FOR CHRISTIANS TO DISCUSS? If it's not... I'm sure I can find someone to apologize to... Say... if you have sexual thoughts about someone, you're supposed to pray to a virgin, right? or is that just priests? If so, do ex-virgin's count? biggrin
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Posted: Wed Aug 15, 2007 2:50 pm
Superior Jazz i like burnination GOOD HEAVENS, MY GOOD SENSIBILITIES HAVE BEEN OFFENDED I SAY, IS THIS TOPIC APPROPRIATE FOR CHRISTIANS TO DISCUSS? If it's not... I'm sure I can find someone to apologize to... Say... if you have sexual thoughts about someone, you're supposed to pray to a virgin, right? or is that just priests? If so, do ex-virgin's count? biggrin I'm not sure what your thinking about....um...maybe that's catholicism? As far as sex goes...it's hard to wait. And I, personally, do struggle with that some--have since I was, oh I don't know....13? But I really do know it's going to be worth it. Even if it's hard. As far as the question about fantasizing about "no one in particular" I'm not really sure how I'd answer that...I can't think of a reason that would be particularly wrong, but I can't say it's right either, by any means. I mean, you are fanasizing about someone that is not your spouse....
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Posted: Thu Aug 16, 2007 12:06 am
Superior Jazz i like burnination GOOD HEAVENS, MY GOOD SENSIBILITIES HAVE BEEN OFFENDED I SAY, IS THIS TOPIC APPROPRIATE FOR CHRISTIANS TO DISCUSS? If it's not... I'm sure I can find someone to apologize to... Say... if you have sexual thoughts about someone, you're supposed to pray to a virgin, right? or is that just priests? If so, do ex-virgin's count? biggrin that's only in Catholicism. only the truly pious pray to God alone.
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