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 Posted: Sun Jul 31, 2005 2:02 pm
hey guys...im back once again to ask for some advie and opinions....
well i have another gf problem for all of you...
ok well see my gf has a great life...she is the most beautiful girl in the world...she has a good head on her shoulders...she has a loving family and boyfriend...and she has many people who care about her....in the midst of all that she is always unhappy...i see it...she pastes a fake simle on her face veryday...hopeing to convince people shes happy...yea it may work on some people but i mysellf would like to say i am blessed with the ability to see...lol...well my point being i can no doubt see shes unhappy...yet i dont knwo why she is when she is so fortunate compaired to many
is there anything that could possibky be causing this?? i need some help resolving this please....opinions and advice are warmly welcomed!
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Posted: Sun Jul 31, 2005 2:14 pm
Could just be hormone changes or something, who knows? Alot of teens feel depressed alot for little to no reason. There is a slight chance it could be an actual problem. Maby you should try talking to her about it sometime, if you ever think somone is suicidal or depressed its not going to hurt to ask about it. Maby its just a phase, ill even admit theres lots of days that for no reason I just feel like crap. Then they go away, and come back later. It could be a problem, or it could be natural, just try talking to her. Hope this helped sweatdrop
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Posted: Sun Jul 31, 2005 2:17 pm
There is a disease called depression that can affect people, causing them not to see the joys in their life but finding continual fault with themselves. I have minor depression, but having her talk to a school psychologist or clinical psychologist/doctor might not be bad.
I doubt it is anything you have done, but my bf always can help lift me out of my depressive states by just letting me know how much I mean to him and that despite the rough time I am having, there is some good in my life.
Hope this helps and feel free to PM me if you want to talk.
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Posted: Sun Jul 31, 2005 6:21 pm
Well, this is just a long shot, but.. does she have something in her life that she's really passionate about? Music, art, sports, anything like that? Maybe she's just very bored, or has nothing to be motivated about, and nothing to inspire her. *_* I know that's when I start to get depressy. ^^;; (When I get artists' block, or I feel too much pressure and not enough motivation to draw/paint/whatever..) Maybe if she gets way into something that she feels means a lot to her, she'll be happier.
I dunno, I hope that doesn't sound all shallow or something. *_* "get a hobby" ^^;;; It really does work for a lot of people..
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Posted: Sun Jul 31, 2005 6:40 pm
o.o....um welll...I hate to give my diagnosis mainly because not too many people are thrilled about it.... but in my opinion it's possible she's going through depression or maybe it's not a phsyical illness but a spiritual illness....now before I get my butt chewed out for getting all spirtiual and what not, if you want to know more? just pm me. It's better for me to talk that in a pm than in an open post. Trust me I get alot arguements and put doesn because of it.....But that's my opinion...<.<
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Posted: Sun Jul 31, 2005 10:30 pm
You could try talking to her about it, and if she feels like talking, then maybe she'll open up a bit. Or you could just let her know you're there for her if she ever needs you.
Or you could try talking to her parents about it, so they can get her help if she needs it. If she's depressed, she should probably look into counselling or therapy of some sort, or consider going on medication.
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Posted: Mon Aug 01, 2005 3:11 am
i think depression is a mild diagnosis and someitmes can be wrongly treated....
well what i mean everyone goes throught depressed issues, and i have had itme when people are faking depression for attention...
now this girl i know she has been dioagnosed wiht depression jst this weeked, and the drugs are ******** wiht her mind... now i don't think depressed people would admit that they are depressed.....soemthing in the back of my mind says soemthing is not right....
but today when she was being funny at school... i was woried, coz there was an inuition she was depressed...
i want to help her.... but the fact is i have no i dea what im doing....
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Posted: Mon Aug 01, 2005 8:25 am
Honestly, she sounds like me, and I don't have an answer. I'm hoping it's just hormones... I do hate my job, though no one there knows even close to how much. Maybe there is something she has to do regularily she doesn't like? My only other guess is she might be feeling un-fulfilled (need a hobby, honestly) or be worried about too much.
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Posted: Thu Nov 03, 2005 12:42 pm
Mwuaha hey guys...im back once again to ask for some advie and opinions.... well i have another gf problem for all of you... ok well see my gf has a great life...she is the most beautiful girl in the world...she has a good head on her shoulders...she has a loving family and boyfriend...and she has many people who care about her....in the midst of all that she is always unhappy...i see it...she pastes a fake simle on her face veryday...hopeing to convince people shes happy...yea it may work on some people but i mysellf would like to say i am blessed with the ability to see...lol...well my point being i can no doubt see shes unhappy...yet i dont knwo why she is when she is so fortunate compaired to many is there anything that could possibky be causing this?? i need some help resolving this please....opinions and advice are warmly welcomed! euhm, i'm thinking, have you actually met her parents? maybe they're not as great as it seems... i know someone that she always seems happy and stuff and everyone thinks her parents are cool and all but her mom is a raging b***h! if not, the others said anything i can think of right now.. hope it can help a litlle even if this post is old...
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Posted: Sun Nov 27, 2005 5:57 am
Well, It could be depression, It could be that shes just having hormonal changes. Or it could possibly be... that shes just angry at something. You should talk to her about it, I talked to my (now ex) girlfriend about everything. It always made me, as well as her, alot more happier than we were to start with, try it see what she says.
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Posted: Fri Dec 09, 2005 4:33 pm
Get in her head. It's got to be some reason why she's being this way. I wouldn't just dismiss it as a horomonal thing because you don't want to take chances. Just let her talk to you (you have to really listen to her though 3nodding )
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