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Posted: Tue Nov 04, 2008 11:26 pm
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Posted: Fri Nov 14, 2008 1:06 am
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Posted: Fri Nov 14, 2008 9:01 am
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Posted: Thu Apr 30, 2009 5:17 pm
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Posted: Sun May 24, 2009 3:09 pm
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I thought i should throw in my 2 cents here cause this is something I feel strongly about since it effects me (almost) directly.
everyone is different so i dont think anyone can or has the right to say that nobody should do something or that its bad full stop. we live in modern society where the vast majority of people NEED to go out and work to pay for bills, rent/mortgage, groceries...etc. most women complain of period pain, and that is an entirely normal thing to go through. the majority of women can go out throughout the week on a fairly normal schedule albeit with more toilet breaks. there are some women who ARE drama queens and act up and it has negative effects on all women and i'm sure every girl/women here has heard theiri PE teacher or someone argue that periods are not an illness and shouldnt prohibit you from any activity (with the exception of a few things like swimming although you CAN swim with a tampon)
but theres the rest of the women who SUFFER. and while most others can go out for dinner, and go to school or work and do what they like there are women that CANT do these things. I am one such person who has suffered from such period and I speak on behalf of everyone that does suffer in such a great deal. for a week of every month I am almost paralyzed, the pain is EXCRUCIATING (and i have a pretty high pain threshold for a girl). to expect to be able to lead a normal schedule or even just to attend a shift at work is completely unreasonable for anyone who's been in this position. but employers aren't going to have sympathy (after all, its not an illness right? so it cant be THAT bad - wrong, it CAN be), and taking a week off work every month is a sure way to get you fired. no job = no money = no house/flat and no food.
once about a year ago. last january if i remember correctly. the pain was so bad i was litrally screaming. i ran a hot (and i mean HOTTT) bath which usually helps ease the pain for a while but that didnt work so i ran another hot bath and it still didnt work. the pain was so bad i was acctually worried i was in labour or something (sounds silly now, but ive never had a baby and apparently it hurts alot so yeah i was scared) not only was i practically paralyzed, screaming in pain that wouldnt go away (even with pain killers) i was also panicing, worried sick that i was in labor or something and what i should do about that. (turns out no baby - whew but u get the idea...) even before that my periods had been bad but that was just the tip of the iceberg, i was genuinely scared for the following month.
honestly, if you've never experienced this pain before, in my opinion you're in no position to talk in opposition cause words just cannot describe.
first thing i done was get the contraceptive implant. okay so its not perfect but it suits me. im not up at the same time everyday to take a pill and even if i could be up at the same time everyday i wouldnt remember. its in your arm. lasts three years. u can get it out any time and within a week ur fertile again (and similarly, takes a week to come into effect)
there are cons though cause it can cause irregular periods which in my case it caused constant bleeding for 5 months then i went back to the clinic and they gave me some pills to take for 8 weeks, 1 at the same time every day. the pills have worked somewhat however i still have irregular periods and seem to be more prone to cystitis after sex (BIG pain in the a**, and that hurts too) but that said i DIDNT take them every day because i failed to remember. cause of the cystitis im kinda scared to have sex again but I plan to go back to the clinic and get it sorted.
so where the cons are concerned, irregular periods, yeah but that can be sorted. it can take up to 6 months to settle in. but i ******** up in getting it sorted.
BUT. despite the constant or irregular periods ive had no pain (sometimes a little twinge ever so often but nothing bothering really).
my point is to most women birth control is exactly that... but to a minority of other women its a godsend. it's a way to survive cause without it they'd get fired from work from taking too much time off because they CANNOT POSSIBLY get to work to earn money to live on.
everyone has their own choice. some girls think they have it bad (and some indeed do) but if it's THAT bad you wouldn't bear it. you couldn't.
sorry its a bit long.
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Posted: Wed Jun 24, 2009 1:18 am
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Posted: Thu Jul 02, 2009 3:47 pm
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Posted: Sun Jul 05, 2009 2:20 pm
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Posted: Fri Sep 11, 2009 9:54 am
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Posted: Sun Jun 13, 2010 8:40 am
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Posted: Sun Jun 20, 2010 12:14 am
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Posted: Sat Sep 10, 2011 11:18 pm
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