(I apologize in advance because this will be long)
I met this guy in school last year and we became really close. After some time I found myself head-over-heels for him. He was really nice to me and would always make time for me. That was short lived however and soon he stopped talking to me (both in person and text). The school year ended and he had a small party so I went. (that was in June) He seemed more interested in my friend than me, which really did upset me. I told myself to get over him, so I did. I saw him the first day of school (because we have a class together)(its now August) and it was nothing special, it was almost as if we were strangers yet again. The second day we had that class (today) he came up and talked to my friend and myself before and during class. I figured he was still interested in my friend. After class he said to me "Oh! I have your jacket you left at my house!" So the three of us went to buy some lunch and afterwards I thought he was going to go get the jacket from his locker, give it to me, and go with other friends...however...he stayed...I told him not to forget about the jacket and he said, "Don't worry I won't, because if I do then you'll be cold in class. I wouldn't want that." Lunch soon came to an end and I said "OH MY JACKET!" he responded with "oh yes yes I didn't forget don't worry." So the three of us (my friend is still with us) went to his locker and on the way he says "Alex (thats me), can you hold my book please?" and I didn't hear so my friend grabbed it. As soon as she grabbed it though he said "I was talking to Alex not you.."
friend: "oh well it doesn't matter"
him: "Well...I was talking to Alex..."
me: "Ah sorry I didn't hear you"
him: "oh...well....thats okay...I guess..."
He seemed really upset because I didn't carry his book o_O. Why did it matter? It's just a book...
So anyways.
To conclude:
Why is he acting like this ALL OF A SUDDEN. Like...he was willing to go ANYWHERE with me. I don't understand. I had already told myself to get over him and now this. Am I over-thinking this and he's just being nice?
I feel like my heart is being pulled out of my chest...I guess I never got over him completely.....but some advice on why he's suddenly being flirty/really nice/clingy with me all of a sudden would be nice....
Thanks guys~
and again, sorry it's so long...
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