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 Posted: Sun Jun 03, 2012 9:23 pm
Pros:
she's cute
it'll be secret
she'll go all the way with me
i won't have to stick around or be that serious, because i'm going away for the summer in a month
Cons:
she might be secretly dating my best friend (who is actually kind of my EX best friend right now, because this very girl came between us)
she's kind of a pathological liar, and she would definitely cheat on me
she's not even my type
we don't have much in common
i could probably never fall in love with her
i love my ex, who broke my heart and whom i will never speak to (much less be with again
i'm supposed to call her tonight and tell her my answer
help? O.O it'll probably be a quick fling, but is it worth it? i'm not too emotionally invested and neither is she, so nobody will get hurt. i'm not too happy with the idea that she thinks she's playing me, but i think i can deal with it for a month, especially if it won't require too much commitment and i get to makeout with her and it'll help me get over my ex (and back at my best friend). I sound totally skeevy, but hey, no regrets! I've always been the sweetie, and I want to be the played for a change! And i don't have to worry about hurting her, because obvs she thinks she's using me anyway.
Opinions/advice? Much appreciated heart
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Posted: Mon Jun 04, 2012 11:13 am
To be honest, I don't think it's such a good move.
1. We all want to get back at someone that has hurt us, but then it brings us down to their level and we look just as bad as they do.
2. A good fling is never hurtful, especially if you're set on what you want, but who's to say that life doesn't tumble you around and you suddenly get feelings for them? I tend to think way too far ahead, so maybe this chunk of advice is useless, but I'm still submitting this anyways.
3. If you know that she's out to be a terrible person and that's why she asked you, why give her the satisfaction?
Will it really be secret if she's playing you? She's bound to tell someone about it at some point.
And would you really want a fling with someone who'd cheat on you anyways?
I mean, it comes down to being your decision, but I'd have to say no. She might have other things on her agenda than just a quick fling.
Like said, it's just my opinion so you don't have to consider it for anything, but I hope what I said at least helps in some way or another.
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Posted: Wed Jun 06, 2012 10:08 am
Soranae To be honest, I don't think it's such a good move. 1. We all want to get back at someone that has hurt us, but then it brings us down to their level and we look just as bad as they do. 2. A good fling is never hurtful, especially if you're set on what you want, but who's to say that life doesn't tumble you around and you suddenly get feelings for them? I tend to think way too far ahead, so maybe this chunk of advice is useless, but I'm still submitting this anyways. 3. If you know that she's out to be a terrible person and that's why she asked you, why give her the satisfaction? Will it really be secret if she's playing you? She's bound to tell someone about it at some point. And would you really want a fling with someone who'd cheat on you anyways? I mean, it comes down to being your decision, but I'd have to say no. She might have other things on her agenda than just a quick fling. Like said, it's just my opinion so you don't have to consider it for anything, but I hope what I said at least helps in some way or another. thanks for the advice! it was very helpful and thoughtful
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Posted: Wed Jun 06, 2012 10:29 am
I Go Through Worlds Soranae To be honest, I don't think it's such a good move. 1. We all want to get back at someone that has hurt us, but then it brings us down to their level and we look just as bad as they do. 2. A good fling is never hurtful, especially if you're set on what you want, but who's to say that life doesn't tumble you around and you suddenly get feelings for them? I tend to think way too far ahead, so maybe this chunk of advice is useless, but I'm still submitting this anyways. 3. If you know that she's out to be a terrible person and that's why she asked you, why give her the satisfaction? Will it really be secret if she's playing you? She's bound to tell someone about it at some point. And would you really want a fling with someone who'd cheat on you anyways? I mean, it comes down to being your decision, but I'd have to say no. She might have other things on her agenda than just a quick fling. Like said, it's just my opinion so you don't have to consider it for anything, but I hope what I said at least helps in some way or another. thanks for the advice! it was very helpful and thoughtful Anytime 3nodding I hope this goes well for you. And if you ever need to talk, send me a PM. I'm all ears.
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Posted: Wed Jun 06, 2012 11:31 am
follow your heart and it will lead you unot the path u need to be on.
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Posted: Fri Jun 15, 2012 9:03 pm
Its good to make a list of pros and cons and although this is late, you should never go out with someone if there are more cons than pros and especially considering how serious the cons are. If its not going to be love, then why build on it at all?
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