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 Posted: Thu Jun 30, 2011 12:23 am
and i need to talk to other Empaths. i have no one to talk about it with and i destratly need someone to talk to.
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Posted: Sun Mar 16, 2014 8:10 pm
Do you just realized you're an empath recently? If yes, then try to search another empath among your friends.^^ You might surprised that you found there's another empath(s) near you. I don't know why but aside drawing people come to them... Empath usually also drawn to another empath! heart mrgreen
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Posted: Sun Apr 13, 2014 6:02 pm
Azure Ageha Do you just realized you're an empath recently? If yes, then try to search another empath among your friends.^^ You might surprised that you found there's another empath(s) near you. I don't know why but aside drawing people come to them... Empath usually also drawn to another empath! heart mrgreen Too true because I'm an empath dating another empath. Not easy at all. Especially since I have such low control and he has brilliant control. Except when he's angry.
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Posted: Sun Apr 13, 2014 6:09 pm
Jesting Charlie Azure Ageha Do you just realized you're an empath recently? If yes, then try to search another empath among your friends.^^ You might surprised that you found there's another empath(s) near you. I don't know why but aside drawing people come to them... Empath usually also drawn to another empath! heart mrgreen Too true because I'm an empath dating another empath. Not easy at all. Especially since I have such low control and he has brilliant control. Except when he's angry. Oh, I see.. Congrats to find enother empath then! heart Talking about bad control.... I feel you. crying It's hard to control it, indeed.
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Posted: Sun Apr 13, 2014 6:31 pm
Oh, I see.. Congrats to find enother empath then! heart
Talking about bad control.... I feel you. crying It's hard to control it, indeed.
Although I have little control, it's really strong. I made my friend stop having a seizure which was really weird.
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Posted: Wed May 21, 2014 3:44 am
Jesting Charlie Although I have little control, it's really strong. I made my friend stop having a seizure which was really weird. Ahh.. How cool.. Idk what I could do.XD sweatdrop Well, truthfully, I need someone to help me with this. I don't want to be confused because feel something suddenly or... I need more control.. crying It if strong enought I still will be dragged even through internet. And the worse is... When I though I love someone but then after we rarely contact each other I realized it not my love I feel to him but the mirror of his love to me. I feel really bad, guilty, etc... I feel like I lead him on. Oh my God.. And he's so serious... Sorry for babbling. sweatdrop
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Posted: Wed May 21, 2014 11:59 am
Azure Ageha Jesting Charlie Although I have little control, it's really strong. I made my friend stop having a seizure which was really weird. Ahh.. How cool.. Idk what I could do.XD sweatdrop Well, truthfully, I need someone to help me with this. I don't want to be confused because feel something suddenly or... I need more control.. crying It if strong enought I still will be dragged even through internet. And the worse is... When I though I love someone but then after we rarely contact each other I realized it not my love I feel to him but the mirror of his love to me. I feel really bad, guilty, etc... I feel like I lead him on. Oh my God.. And he's so serious... Sorry for babbling. sweatdrop I would suggest a grounding stone/gem and genuine gem stones for their special/spiritual qualities. Also, I understand the love thing; for me though, it happens with arousal >.> But it's been a while since I last posted so things have changed a bit. I haven't been able to feel other people's emotions as much as I did, but rather their pain. It's weird and sometimes I'm not really in favour of it because being an empath, I'm usually already in pain. The internet thing has probably happened with me a few times, but I'm so intent on believing that I can't feel from over long distances because that would be scary for me. There was a time when I completely shut off my empathy-that was scary too-and I was apathetic for about a year or so. No one liked me because I was extremely blunt and didn't hold back the truth.
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Posted: Thu May 22, 2014 12:42 am
Jesting Charlie Azure Ageha Jesting Charlie Although I have little control, it's really strong. I made my friend stop having a seizure which was really weird. Ahh.. How cool.. Idk what I could do.XD sweatdrop Well, truthfully, I need someone to help me with this. I don't want to be confused because feel something suddenly or... I need more control.. crying It if strong enought I still will be dragged even through internet. And the worse is... When I though I love someone but then after we rarely contact each other I realized it not my love I feel to him but the mirror of his love to me. I feel really bad, guilty, etc... I feel like I lead him on. Oh my God.. And he's so serious... Sorry for babbling. sweatdrop I would suggest a grounding stone/gem and genuine gem stones for their special/spiritual qualities. Also, I understand the love thing; for me though, it happens with arousal >.> But it's been a while since I last posted so things have changed a bit. I haven't been able to feel other people's emotions as much as I did, but rather their pain. It's weird and sometimes I'm not really in favour of it because being an empath, I'm usually already in pain. The internet thing has probably happened with me a few times, but I'm so intent on believing that I can't feel from over long distances because that would be scary for me. There was a time when I completely shut off my empathy-that was scary too-and I was apathetic for about a year or so. No one liked me because I was extremely blunt and didn't hold back the truth. Idk about grounding stone/gems. I think it's hard to get it in my country. I'm glad we're accross sea (about me and the guy) and we only able to contact each other through gaia or facebook. And very much glad it didn't happen with arousal.XD Is it because the slight different of the ability or because our nature/personality? I'm an INTJ, and mostly I feel emotions, rarely pains. And since I awlays pay attention, even throught internet I could feel emotions more often than not. Please tell me how to shut this off? crying Idk how... crying
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Posted: Thu May 22, 2014 11:24 am
Azure Ageha Jesting Charlie Azure Ageha Jesting Charlie Although I have little control, it's really strong. I made my friend stop having a seizure which was really weird. Ahh.. How cool.. Idk what I could do.XD sweatdrop Well, truthfully, I need someone to help me with this. I don't want to be confused because feel something suddenly or... I need more control.. crying It if strong enought I still will be dragged even through internet. And the worse is... When I though I love someone but then after we rarely contact each other I realized it not my love I feel to him but the mirror of his love to me. I feel really bad, guilty, etc... I feel like I lead him on. Oh my God.. And he's so serious... Sorry for babbling. sweatdrop I would suggest a grounding stone/gem and genuine gem stones for their special/spiritual qualities. Also, I understand the love thing; for me though, it happens with arousal >.> But it's been a while since I last posted so things have changed a bit. I haven't been able to feel other people's emotions as much as I did, but rather their pain. It's weird and sometimes I'm not really in favour of it because being an empath, I'm usually already in pain. The internet thing has probably happened with me a few times, but I'm so intent on believing that I can't feel from over long distances because that would be scary for me. There was a time when I completely shut off my empathy-that was scary too-and I was apathetic for about a year or so. No one liked me because I was extremely blunt and didn't hold back the truth. Idk about grounding stone/gems. I think it's hard to get it in my country. I'm glad we're accross sea (about me and the guy) and we only able to contact each other through gaia or facebook. And very much glad it didn't happen with arousal.XD Is it because the slight different of the ability or because our nature/personality? I'm an INTJ, and mostly I feel emotions, rarely pains. And since I awlays pay attention, even throught internet I could feel emotions more often than not. Please tell me how to shut this off? crying Idk how... crying The ways I resorted to weren't very good ones so I would have to advise against (self harm is never the way to go and this was in my mid teens). Okay well I didn't exactly shut it all the way off. You can't really shut off your empathy ((unless you're a psychopath or something, right?)) But I pretty much bottled up everything until I couldn't feel anymore. Not a very good strategy. Inside was a mess, but I just didn't know how to express anything anymore. And I couldn't figure out what things were appropriate to care about and what not. Other than that, I don't know and healthy ways to turn it off. But here is a helpful website about crystals and gemstones. heart
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Posted: Thu May 22, 2014 11:43 am
Also, you guys probably already know that with any abilities such as these, there are precautions to be taken. Well, I've discovered that as an empath, not only can you take another's energies, but their karma as well. My boyfriend is a fantastic person always helping others, ect. But he has the worst of luck. He's been unknowingly taking other people's karma since he was younger. We were researching empaths and ran across this unfortunate news. So avoiding negative people won't only protect your emotions, but also your karma.
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