Let me ask you a question.... when you look at Loli what do you think or feel? I love being loli.... Yes the clothes are beautiful.... but I love loli simply because it makes me feel pretty, special, sweet, cute.... I'm not the most well off either... so honestly... just check out thrift shops, flea markets... etc.... you may find something loli’ish and even if you can't sew you could still wear it and get that special feeling... I know we have the loli guidelines and all but.... it's not mandatory you follow it... if other loli sneer then simply see their lack of manners and elegance for what it is.... true loli instead of ridiculing you will help you in any way they can... be it accessories.... a little bit of stitching... a little bit of bead work or lace.... so... the question is... are you loli? *hug* heart