i learnded things
-worry is a misuse of the imagination
-doubters dont achieve; skeptics dont contribute; cynics dont create
-theres no reason the way you feel should depend on the thoughts in someone elses head
-politely walk away from pessimist 'friends', enthusiasm for life is contagious being with an optimist opens up life's possibilities! THEY MAKE YOU WANT TO LIIVE not just survive! now only to find some.
-human imagination was designed for better things-people who use it to create often achieve things worriers don't do, even if they have much higher IQs! wowza!
-on the other side of your fear- there is something safe waiting for you
fear kills more people than death
death kills us but once
fear kills us over and over
my mom used to say a fool dies 1000 deaths - a brave soul, only one
-being creative doesn't mean being original its simply to do with being unexpected!-come up with unexpected solutions to things
nothing is original anyway its just the way you use it
-stay focused. on right now. dont linger in the past unless you like to feel guilty dont think about the future too much unless you like to be worried
-every problem carries holds a gift inside -think how can i use this? what might be good about this? a problem can usually benefit you somehow... itll always teach you something
-shift your inspiration to someone else- instant karma,
-talk to yourself o_o smart people talk to themselves-it helps you think better- reading out loud helps you remember things too!
-'get those stars out and let 'em shine, let the universe in you shine free' put that here cuz it reminded me of nello
-we motivate ourselves by finishing things, however small, you feel more accomplished when you complete several small things instead of not getting something big done for a while
-make each day your masterpiece focus on today
make each day worth something, whether you helped someone out, made em smile, whatever it is, share your luck
-dont be a haaaaterrrrrr be happy for people whoever they are
-small goals give energy to the day and small wins along the way-youll see larger objectives come faster too with all that motivation
-losers penalize failures, winners reward success >thats also a part of conditioning-> GOOD BEHAVIOR IS MORE LIKELY TO BE REPEATED IF IT IS REWARDED, NOT IF BAD BEHAVIOR IS PUNISHED i learned this in psychology dhoo
-optimists always do a little something, pessimists always imagine worst case scenarios and then become passive and dont do anything in the end out of fear of messing up- oh goodness sounds familiar
-most of us wait to find out who we are from impressions of other people like youll say "oh you really think im good at that?" then you think if they're being honest that you really may be what they say and lift your self image upwards, but your journey is internal. your potential is your identity, not what others have to say about you, although compliments are still always nice!-you just shouldnt base your self worth on whether people like what you do or not. do what makes you happy meng
-'when you face the sun the shadows always fall behind you'
-great things are created slowly-great people too, you are a masterpiece in progress /thats some cornyshit but its cute
-you'll feel better if you love and celebrate small changes and be excited by tiny things, for example taking the stairs instead of the elevator if you're trying to gain strength or maybe you learned a new word and used it that day
-if youre not motivated to do somethin you know you have to do -then do it badly -be comically bad it /laughter's always good, enjoy the process while you're doing it
-take yourself lightly- it's said angels take themselves so lightly they can fly-when youre laughing youre open to anything
-dont change other people- it wont friggin happen. be the change. change is contagious. when you change see how people around you change with you
when you suddenly act happy, people might be more inclined to act happier too like what dude what are you on give me some of that
-love and fear are opposites. not love and hate.
love is always creative, fear is always destructive
the ultimate creativity comes from the spirit of love ~u~
