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 Posted: Tue Aug 05, 2008 9:03 am
I see what you are saying Camwen. I did switch it up and I could see where it would make her a little upset.. where I could of done and said a little more. But we are human we all make mistakes. Hopefully she will come to and realize this as well. I may try and text or call her later in the day or do you think its best I give her a little space for now.. its been over 12hrs since all this happened.
I don't think something like this should cause something like this. Maybe this will make us grow stronger together if all works out. Cause I will know more of what to do next time if it ever happens with anyone again.
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Posted: Tue Aug 05, 2008 10:46 am
Ok well we talked online.. I had asked her just to hear me out and after she got offline.. she called me and we talked.. at first you know she was kinda mad sounding still.. but got calmed down after we talked..
I see how I upset her now.. I should of raised my voice at my brother as he was her and all.. instead of me being calm..She felt betrayed that I didnt do more.. and I see that now. Now I know what she expects in case anything happens along them lines again. It is time for me to man up and change my life.. Do things I should have done along time ago.. For me mostly.. but I want to prove to her.. I can do these things..
I think we are still together.. cause she seemed to cheer up after talking to me for a bit. Sounded alot better then when she first talked.. So this is a good sign I think.. Lets just hope so.
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Posted: Tue Aug 05, 2008 10:52 am
Chaotic Lamb I see what you are saying Camwen. I did switch it up and I could see where it would make her a little upset.. where I could of done and said a little more. But we are human we all make mistakes. Hopefully she will come to and realize this as well. I may try and text or call her later in the day or do you think its best I give her a little space for now.. its been over 12hrs since all this happened. I don't think something like this should cause something like this. Maybe this will make us grow stronger together if all works out. Cause I will know more of what to do next time if it ever happens with anyone again. I honestly don't know if she's someone that needs space to work things out or if waiting too long will only make things worse. Personally I'd want the guy to contact me the sooner the better. Of course we all make mistakes wink Stuff like this is usually nobody's fault really. It's just hard to be reasonable when feelings get hurt. All I can say is when you do talk to her, try your best not to get too defensive. Let her explain why the situation pissed her off so much without implying that it wasn't rational for her to feel that way. Edit: I see you already talked and it sounds like things went pretty well smile
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Posted: Tue Aug 05, 2008 10:59 am
Camwen Chaotic Lamb I see what you are saying Camwen. I did switch it up and I could see where it would make her a little upset.. where I could of done and said a little more. But we are human we all make mistakes. Hopefully she will come to and realize this as well. I may try and text or call her later in the day or do you think its best I give her a little space for now.. its been over 12hrs since all this happened. I don't think something like this should cause something like this. Maybe this will make us grow stronger together if all works out. Cause I will know more of what to do next time if it ever happens with anyone again. I honestly don't know if she's someone that needs space to work things out or if waiting too long will only make things worse. Personally I'd want the guy to contact me the sooner the better. Of course we all make mistakes wink Stuff like this is usually nobody's fault really. It's just hard to be reasonable when feelings get hurt. All I can say is when you do talk to her, try your best not to get too defensive. Let her explain why the situation pissed her off so much without implying that it wasn't rational for her to feel that way. Edit: I see you already talked and it sounds like things went pretty well smile I did not get defensive at all with her.. she was just like.. I would expect my boyfriend to have my back no matter what.. So I was like baby I thought I did and now I know what you expect. She seemed to like that reply. So I just hope we are together still.. I told her I learned the hardest leason I have ever had to learn in my life. She was like well I bet so.. so she knows.. I know now and well.. Time to man up.. I need a job again! asap! my license which I know she will help me get.. so I can make a help her out more then I do normally if she wants it.. if not.. i will sneak the help in some how smile and it will be a surprise hehe
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Posted: Tue Aug 05, 2008 4:00 pm
Yay the GF sent me a text letting me know she is calming down and realizes its not my fault what happened yesterday and that she really does love me.
I went and check on her today at the apartment.. maybe the let her know how much I care etc for her.. I am just glad that she knows that I am here for her...
Oh and I am sorry about me going on about this.. but I needed to talk.. and well I figured yall would not mind me going on about this.. I should of put it over in lifestyles area though.
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Posted: Wed Aug 06, 2008 4:55 pm
I'm so glad things have calmed down for you. I hope you can continue to work through it. In a way, it's kind of reassuring when you get through a rough patch and things can get back to being good. It just shows that a few bumps in the road won't derail everything. smile
It's been really quiet in here today... ninja
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Posted: Wed Aug 06, 2008 8:57 pm
Ya Lamb, making back up again is fun >.<
I've been at job club today, the guy helping me kept joking that I was a pole dancer D< but then he gave me some lollies hehe. Otherwise I've been sewing a lot and drawing up designs. I'll post pics when I finish the hoodie dress I'm working on ^W^
Anyone else working on a project?
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Posted: Wed Aug 06, 2008 11:07 pm
too much work.. and one my employee is killing me.. piffff.. im so mad..
my staff wanted to take a leave on a half day leave on fri coz sat is a public holiday.... i've told her i cannot confirm her leave... but will see how things go.. however she is not allowed to turn away clients who wants to book in and turn away businesses...
so she the smart one.. go rearrange the clients appointments on thurs (which i dont mind at all as long as the clients are still happy).. but the things that pisses me off is she still went ahead and still made her own personal plans for the leave i didnt grant her yet.....
so there was an important client that wants to come in on fri evening.. and cant come on any other days...i couldnt turn her down for valid reasons and i told my staff she was to stay behind tomorrow.. but will grant her leave on monday instead, like she need not come to work so early.. and she got damn pissed and made a lot of noise.. telling me she had plans to go to KL, Malaysia..
but WTF.. she thinks she's in control?!!!
she shouldnt make her leave plans when i have not confirm her leave!
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Posted: Thu Aug 07, 2008 2:10 am
I am with you, souma. You told her from the beginning that you could not confirm her leave, so she has no one to blame but herself in this situation. stare
On a more pleasant note, I finally received my new laptop late Tuesday evening. whee However, due to extenuating circumstances, I probably will not have it fully functional until later today. I should be able to start the Artist Showcase by the end of this week, though. The doodle contest will just be open for submissions until September 21 to give participants plenty of time to work on their pieces. 3nodding
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Posted: Thu Aug 07, 2008 9:19 am
The question is.. should Lamb post the new pics he took last night.. from his random drunken adventure with friends... no friends in them though.. Just me! lawl....
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Posted: Thu Aug 07, 2008 1:49 pm
Crafty has returned! My service through Mediacom has just been turned on. The tech who came was kinda cute and impossibly great with my kids! I was shocked! We are still waiting the required hour for the signal to come through completely on our cable but the internet is up and running so an hour is no big deal I suppose. ^_^
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Posted: Thu Aug 07, 2008 2:04 pm
craftymama Crafty has returned! My service through Mediacom has just been turned on. The tech who came was kinda cute and impossibly great with my kids! I was shocked! We are still waiting the required hour for the signal to come through completely on our cable but the internet is up and running so an hour is no big deal I suppose. ^_^ YAY!!!!!! *glomp huggles* ^.^
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Posted: Thu Aug 07, 2008 8:46 pm
eek oh my Joe...you look positively delicious!!
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