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 Posted: Mon Jul 10, 2006 7:01 am
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Posted: Mon Jul 10, 2006 8:37 am
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Posted: Mon Jul 10, 2006 8:38 am
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Posted: Mon Jul 10, 2006 8:42 am
Hiya Sryne, how's it goin this morning?
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Posted: Mon Jul 10, 2006 8:46 am
Blech. I got mad at my girlfriend and ended up not sleeping well at all despite how tired I was. And, as usual, I talked to her this morning and all it does is make her unhappy and causes us to not talk (more so than usual), but she doesn't really ever absorb what I had said.
sweatdrop You?
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Posted: Mon Jul 10, 2006 8:53 am
You two are probably just stressed out cause your leaving. People act stupid at stressful times.
I'm good, just tired from working so much. And I'm really missing my daughter.
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Posted: Mon Jul 10, 2006 8:57 am
No, it's not that. I got mad because she left her computer but didn't tell me and was gone for an hour. She's constantly getting up and leaving without saying anything... usually the time she's gone ranges from an hour to five hours and it just makes me feel like I don't matter. While she was gone I got really tired and decided to go lie down. Before I left I messaged her saying she could call and I'd answer if I was awake... but she never called when she got back.
Where's your daughter at?
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Posted: Mon Jul 10, 2006 9:06 am
Has she always done things like that? One time my husband left to go to the store without saying anything, and it never happened again!
My daughter is in Texas with her father and step mother for the summer. She's a smartass when she's here but, I miss her when she's gone.
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Posted: Mon Jul 10, 2006 9:09 am
Yeah, she always does that s**t and it always pisses me off... but recently we've been having some difficulties that I was trying to overcome and work out when she left, so it really hit me hard last night.
Ah, understandable. Summer isn't too far from being over now though.
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Posted: Mon Jul 10, 2006 9:15 am
Have you told her how you feel? Maybe if you talk to her about it, it could help.
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Posted: Mon Jul 10, 2006 9:18 am
I tried. All she said was "im sorry" and then there was silence for two hours until I asked her what her plans were for the day. When we first started dating, she was mad at me because I never spoke my mind. Now I do and she doesn't respond... so I don't really see any good that has come from speaking up.
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Posted: Mon Jul 10, 2006 9:31 am
Sorry had to go help my son with a game.
If you don't mind me asking, Why are the two of you together? I'm not trying to be mean, It's just your young, and trying to get a future started in the military. And it seems that she is more of a problem than anything. Your significant other is suppose to be there for you to lean on and to help you with things. Not to cause more stress and heartache. I'm not trying to discourage your relationship, only to let you know that there are a lot of women out there and not to settle cause you sleep better with someone next to you.
I hope I didn't upset or offend you smile .
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Posted: Mon Jul 10, 2006 9:38 am
No offense taken. I understand what you're saying and I've spent countless hours contemplating... When we're together, it isn't so bad. It's just when we're farther apart that there seems to be any sort of problem.
That's the conclusion I've come to anyways. Since we live about 250 miles apart, we're not together the majority of the time. I don't know... I can't tell you how many times I've thought about this all.
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Posted: Mon Jul 10, 2006 9:45 am
I'm not trying to tell you what you should do. But, as an old lady looking back on my life. I wasted alot of time on people that didn't deserve it. Just remember that you can't change people. They are who they are! All the things that she does now to annoy you will always be there. (My husband still can't put his dirt clothes in the hamper. And we have been fighting over this for almost 12 years.) smile
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Posted: Mon Jul 10, 2006 9:54 am
Yeah, I know what you mean. What I don't know is what to do. Everyone keeps saying when I get back from basic I'll be a totally different person.. so maybe then I'll know what to do about it.
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