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 Posted: Mon May 14, 2012 7:17 pm
And then there was just me again.... I hate when friends break apart... sad
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Posted: Tue May 15, 2012 12:08 am
glitterboypilot And then there was just me again.... I hate when friends break apart... sad I'm sorry.
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Posted: Wed May 16, 2012 5:34 pm
glitterboypilot I am done... done with humans Done with friends done with any form of happiness What is the point of caring, of trying, of existing, if everything is just going to be blown back at me? Humanity can go to hell for all I care. Well, I admit humanity can blow bricks... I'm sorry about your frustrations. On a good note, sometimes you'll bump into some pretty decent people, so look out for those. And be kind to yourself. smile People can be rotten, so when you find a nice person just make friendly with them and enjoy. wink
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Posted: Wed May 16, 2012 10:29 pm
No reason, for you to be sorry Rob... I know, it is just highly annoying, to have to start over yet again with no close friends... this would be the 3 or 4th time that this happened to me. I am not trying to sound complainie... I am starting to think, Nice guys really do finish last...
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Posted: Thu May 17, 2012 7:25 am
glitterboypilot I know, it is just highly annoying, to have to start over yet again with no close friends... this would be the 3 or 4th time that this happened to me. I am not trying to sound complainie... I am starting to think, Nice guys really do finish last... Try making a group of friends... Yeah it sounds like more heartbreak, when you think of it as 'more people to hurt/betray/letdown...' But really, having only one friend at a time puts allot of strain on that one person to always be the one to be there for you when you need them, especially if they have other friends they need to share their time with... No one is capable of handling that responsibility unless they are spouse material, and even then there is room for friends outside the partnered sphere... Remember also that friends do come and go, they aren't usually permanent. That's okay though, because you learn something from each of them... And even when they disappear off of your radar once in awhile, they will reappear later down the road...
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Posted: Thu May 17, 2012 7:36 am
Eltanin Sadachbia glitterboypilot I know, it is just highly annoying, to have to start over yet again with no close friends... this would be the 3 or 4th time that this happened to me. I am not trying to sound complainie... I am starting to think, Nice guys really do finish last... Try making a group of friends... Yeah it sounds like more heartbreak, when you think of it as 'more people to hurt/betray/letdown...' But really, having only one friend at a time puts allot of strain on that one person to always be the one to be there for you when you need them, especially if they have other friends they need to share their time with... No one is capable of handling that responsibility unless they are spouse material, and even then there is room for friends outside the partnered sphere... Remember also that friends do come and go, they aren't usually permanent. That's okay though, because you learn something from each of them... And even when they disappear off of your radar once in awhile, they will reappear later down the road... I understand, I just wish whole groups wouldn't leave at once.
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Posted: Thu May 24, 2012 6:46 pm
I recently moved into New York City, so I have no friends here. The loneliness here is understandable, but what hurts a lot is the fact that most of my friends from the previous place no longer talk to me. None of them text me, or even go as far as to ask how I'm doing.
It just sucks, and I feel like they don't care. crying
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Posted: Thu May 24, 2012 7:34 pm
Golden Black Tea I recently moved into New York City, so I have no friends here. The loneliness here is understandable, but what hurts a lot is the fact that most of my friends from the previous place no longer talk to me. None of them text me, or even go as far as to ask how I'm doing. It just sucks, and I feel like they don't care. crying You could always get in contact with them and find out how they're doing? No one outside of family even realized that I moved out of state until like 3 years after I moved. Part of it was my lack of communication with anyone, though I was intentionally being antisocial.
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Posted: Thu May 24, 2012 7:42 pm
rmcdra Golden Black Tea I recently moved into New York City, so I have no friends here. The loneliness here is understandable, but what hurts a lot is the fact that most of my friends from the previous place no longer talk to me. None of them text me, or even go as far as to ask how I'm doing. It just sucks, and I feel like they don't care. crying You could always get in contact with them and find out how they're doing? No one outside of family even realized that I moved out of state until like 3 years after I moved. Part of it was my lack of communication with anyone, though I was intentionally being antisocial. Oh yeah, I almost forgot to mention that I used to be the one that usually contacted them first. I'd say it was 4/5 times me getting in touch with them. But then I got tired of it, always having to be the one to make that effort. It felt like they didn't really care. But now that I haven't been in contact recently, I find myself here with no one making the effort to contact me. crying
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Posted: Thu May 24, 2012 8:01 pm
Golden Black Tea rmcdra Golden Black Tea I recently moved into New York City, so I have no friends here. The loneliness here is understandable, but what hurts a lot is the fact that most of my friends from the previous place no longer talk to me. None of them text me, or even go as far as to ask how I'm doing. It just sucks, and I feel like they don't care. crying You could always get in contact with them and find out how they're doing? No one outside of family even realized that I moved out of state until like 3 years after I moved. Part of it was my lack of communication with anyone, though I was intentionally being antisocial. Oh yeah, I almost forgot to mention that I used to be the one that usually contacted them first. I'd say it was 4/5 times me getting in touch with them. But then I got tired of it, always having to be the one to make that effort. It felt like they didn't really care. But now that I haven't been in contact recently, I find myself here with no one making the effort to contact me. crying I hope this doesn't sound stupid but did you ever tell them that always having to get in contact with them made you feel like they didn't care? They might not know that you felt hurt by them not being the one to contact you. Maybe they just got used to you being the first to contact them and they just assumed you were very socially inclined? If you want to be friends with them then you should speak up to them regarding this and let them know that they are hurting your feelings.
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Posted: Thu May 24, 2012 8:19 pm
rmcdra Golden Black Tea rmcdra Golden Black Tea I recently moved into New York City, so I have no friends here. The loneliness here is understandable, but what hurts a lot is the fact that most of my friends from the previous place no longer talk to me. None of them text me, or even go as far as to ask how I'm doing. It just sucks, and I feel like they don't care. crying You could always get in contact with them and find out how they're doing? No one outside of family even realized that I moved out of state until like 3 years after I moved. Part of it was my lack of communication with anyone, though I was intentionally being antisocial. Oh yeah, I almost forgot to mention that I used to be the one that usually contacted them first. I'd say it was 4/5 times me getting in touch with them. But then I got tired of it, always having to be the one to make that effort. It felt like they didn't really care. But now that I haven't been in contact recently, I find myself here with no one making the effort to contact me. crying I hope this doesn't sound stupid but did you ever tell them that always having to get in contact with them made you feel like they didn't care? They might not know that you felt hurt by them not being the one to contact you. Maybe they just got used to you being the first to contact them and they just assumed you were very socially inclined? If you want to be friends with them then you should speak up to them regarding this and let them know that they are hurting your feelings. My pride will get in the way, but I'll try to let them know in some direct way. I really hate exposing my weaknesses.
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Posted: Thu May 24, 2012 8:23 pm
Golden Black Tea My pride will get in the way, but I'll try to let them know in some direct way. I really hate exposing my weaknesses. Fair enough but at least you are honest about it. Most people aren't.
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Posted: Fri May 25, 2012 3:49 pm
rmcdra Golden Black Tea My pride will get in the way, but I'll try to let them know in some direct way. I really hate exposing my weaknesses. Fair enough but at least you are honest about it. Most people aren't. I generally say bitches, yo asses betta contact me or ******** you....
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Posted: Fri May 25, 2012 4:02 pm
deadmanjay rmcdra Golden Black Tea My pride will get in the way, but I'll try to let them know in some direct way. I really hate exposing my weaknesses. Fair enough but at least you are honest about it. Most people aren't. I generally say bitches, yo asses betta contact me or ******** you.... There we go. Honest and straight to the point.
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Posted: Fri May 25, 2012 4:04 pm
rmcdra deadmanjay rmcdra Golden Black Tea My pride will get in the way, but I'll try to let them know in some direct way. I really hate exposing my weaknesses. Fair enough but at least you are honest about it. Most people aren't. I generally say bitches, yo asses betta contact me or ******** you.... There we go. Honest and straight to the point. And it most importantly, it works 3nodding Although people seem to think im joking... scream
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