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Goooood morning~

Yeah ... I think I know what I am going to do .... after last night my mind is much clearer....

The reason you're getting attention is because the flirting is new. If you threw in with the new guy, things'd settle down to the level you're at now with your husband.

Relationships take work, always. It doesn't stop when you get married, or when you're together for several years. I'm terrified of taking my beloved for granted.

Still, if you can reignite some of the early passion of your relationship with your husband...

Try demanding some of his attention, in advance, just in case. Spend a night just talking, drinking wine, and tickling each other. When you live with someone, you forget that you still need to set apart time for each other, the same way you did when you were dating.

The new guy is an unkown. People change and new relationships aren't the same as established relationships. People are built to seek variety and new sensation. but you can have that with your husband too, it just takes creative thinking. It's easy to get excited and stomach rumibly over a new love.

When they come for you?

Are you getting ready for Naked Friday early?

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*shakes head* I think your advice will help more people that are new to relationships. I know it applies to me, in a way. Danu and I have been going out for almost 3 years now. What's the difference? For the most part, it's online. Sometimes I find it hard to come up with a conversation just because it seems that in that short span of time, we've already talked about everything there is to talk about. So I see what you're saying, but everytime we see each other, it's always like the first time. (No more further details than that xd ).

Which reminds me. I'm just reading this article from GQ about women keeping men awake (and vice versa, but it's the guy who wrote the article). They're saying the sleeping is:



It just points out the difference between couples who sleep together. One may like to sleep in total darkness while the other wants a night light. One wants to cuddle while the other doesn't want to be touched. Etc...