☠ ☠"Ring a bell so the serpent hears us, let her know that we're tried and true. ."☠ ☠
Well, I couldn't come to a decision so I just wrote up a filler post. Whatever you respond with, I'll respond to that probably tomorrow or Thursday. I'm going to head to bed, though. I need to make a Doctor's appointment tomorrow. See you!
☠ ☠". .No the beasts, they won't get near us- And we're not scared of You."☠ ☠
Posted: Thu Jul 07, 2016 12:35 am
Lexylove724
☠ ☠"Ring a bell so the serpent hears us, let her know that we're tried and true. ."☠ ☠
I had a great post typed up, and I was going to preview it / spell check it. . . . . And Gaia logged me out. . .. X_X I lost the ******** post. I'm SO ******** mad. I have to start all ******** over again. God ******** damn it.
☠ ☠". .No the beasts, they won't get near us- And we're not scared of You."☠ ☠
☠ ☠"Ring a bell so the serpent hears us, let her know that we're tried and true. ."☠ ☠
Oh. So. Uhhhhh. . . . How long are we going to do this cafe scene thingy? I mean, I know you wanted them to 'hook up', but like? Where are we going with this?
☠ ☠". .No the beasts, they won't get near us- And we're not scared of You."☠ ☠
Well I wanted her to help get his mind off the whole Adam/Rachel thing. Not that she knows that is upsetting him. It more of she sees he is upset and wants to help. I'm like that in real life.
Posted: Thu Jul 07, 2016 11:30 pm
Lexylove724
Well I wanted her to help get his mind off the whole Adam/Rachel thing. Not that she knows that is upsetting him. It more of she sees he is upset and wants to help. I'm like that in real life.
☠ ☠"Ring a bell so the serpent hears us, let her know that we're tried and true. ."☠ ☠
Alright, and how would she get that off of his mind? If that were You, how would you 'fix' the problem?
☠ ☠". .No the beasts, they won't get near us- And we're not scared of You."☠ ☠
Well like Maci did, distract him. Ask him about his food or see if he wanted to do something. I have a friend who doesn't open up when he is upset. So I simply just do something with him, he slowly begins to open up. I don't mention anything but try to be positive. Joke around a bit.
Mainly because Maci is the type to make others happy before she focuses on herself.
Posted: Thu Jul 07, 2016 11:50 pm
Lexylove724
Well like Maci did, distract him. Ask him about his food or see if he wanted to do something. I have a friend who doesn't open up when he is upset. So I simply just do something with him, he slowly begins to open up. I don't mention anything but try to be positive. Joke around a bit.
Mainly because Maci is the type to make others happy before she focuses on herself.
☠ ☠"Ring a bell so the serpent hears us, let her know that we're tried and true. ."☠ ☠
While that's very admirable that she puts others before herself, remember that it can lead to a very toxic relationship. It can lead to resentment, and in rare cases it can create a false sense of entitlement; Example: "I did this / was there for you during your time of need. I should get something in return." People make the mistake of romanticizing the "puts others before themselves" kind of people. We mistake that for selflessness but what it really is is essentially overcompensation; They're unhappy, so they compensate by making others happy. They say the funniest people are the people who are the most depressed, and this is because they themselves know what it's like to feel like s**t, for the lack of a better word/term, so they strive to make sure other people don't feel like s**t. Basically, Maci shouldn't set herself on fire just to keep someone else warm.
☠ ☠". .No the beasts, they won't get near us- And we're not scared of You."☠ ☠
Very true, learned that with my ex. Though yes he was there for her for the court case but Maci wouldn't feel entitled. Its tricky to word, yes she has gone through rough times but everyone does. It's not a competition of who can show up who. It's simply someone needs to vent and just have someone listen.
Posted: Fri Jul 08, 2016 12:19 am
Lexylove724
Very true, learned that with my ex. Though yes he was there for her for the court case but Maci wouldn't feel entitled. Its tricky to word, yes she has gone through rough times but everyone does. It's not a competition of who can show up who. It's simply someone needs to vent and just have someone listen.
☠ ☠"Ring a bell so the serpent hears us, let her know that we're tried and true. ."☠ ☠
I didn't mention anything about there being a competition of some sort?
☠ ☠". .No the beasts, they won't get near us- And we're not scared of You."☠ ☠
My bad, that is something I have experience with an old friend. She felt the need to always one up me.
Posted: Fri Jul 08, 2016 3:37 pm
Lexylove724
My bad, that is something I have experience with an old friend. She felt the need to always one up me.
☠ ☠"Ring a bell so the serpent hears us, let her know that we're tried and true. ."☠ ☠
Well, I'm just going to be straight up with you: You're not dealing with people from the past, you're talking to me. So, let's focus on the now, and whatever issues you had with people in the past just toss out the window.
Moving forward, Are you going to post any time soon? Thursday, Today, and Saturday are my days off so I'm dedicating my time to posting.
☠ ☠". .No the beasts, they won't get near us- And we're not scared of You."☠ ☠
