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Posted: Wed May 30, 2012 1:30 pm
Im a horrible friiend, and an awful person. >< I try not to hurt my friends, but i always end up doing so.. T___T I'm sorryy. im so sorry...
And my life is more difficult than usuual right now, but I feel bad for complaining so much, because I knoow it could've been worse... but... asdfghjkljhhfkognb DAMNIT DAMN IIT DAMNITTT.
I hope you people have a good week so ffar. Best of luck and may yyour wishes come true. heart
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Posted: Wed May 30, 2012 2:55 pm
Phoenixious Im a horrible friiend, and an awful person. >< I try not to hurt my friends, but i always end up doing so.. T___T I'm sorryy. im so sorry...
And my life is more difficult than usuual right now, but I feel bad for complaining so much, because I knoow it could've been worse... but... asdfghjkljhhfkognb DAMNIT DAMN IIT DAMNITTT. I hope you people have a good week so ffar. Best of luck and may yyour wishes come true. heart I have been having a pretty good week. Are you magic?
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Posted: Wed May 30, 2012 3:13 pm
Phoenixious Im a horrible friiend, and an awful person. >< I try not to hurt my friends, but i always end up doing so.. T___T I'm sorryy. im so sorry...
And my life is more difficult than usuual right now, but I feel bad for complaining so much, because I knoow it could've been worse... but... asdfghjkljhhfkognb DAMNIT DAMN IIT DAMNITTT. I hope you people have a good week so ffar. Best of luck and may yyour wishes come true. heart Friday was horrible. Monday morning was ok, the afternoon sucked. Tuesday was poopy. Today has been pretty good tbh
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Posted: Wed May 30, 2012 3:34 pm
I just saved 15% on my car insurance! rofl
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Posted: Wed May 30, 2012 3:48 pm
@Shiori: That's good to know:3 And, i wish, I wish...
@Canni: Aww.. well, I hope rest of tthe week goes better for ya <3
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Posted: Wed May 30, 2012 5:24 pm
Some a*****e left a pair of shitty underwear tucked next to the toilet in the men's room at McDonald's tonight. FML.
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Posted: Wed May 30, 2012 5:57 pm
Little Miss Fortune Some a*****e left a pair of shitty underwear tucked next to the toilet in the men's room at McDonald's tonight. FML. LOL rofl I went to the gas station with my friend on bicycles. I went in, got donuts, asked for 5 bucks on pump 2. He took my money, and when I went outside, I realized I didn't have a car. FML
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Posted: Wed May 30, 2012 8:22 pm
JaymanThaBOSS Little Miss Fortune Some a*****e left a pair of shitty underwear tucked next to the toilet in the men's room at McDonald's tonight. FML. LOL rofl I went to the gas station with my friend on bicycles. I went in, got donuts, asked for 5 bucks on pump 2. He took my money, and when I went outside, I realized I didn't have a car. FML Wtfff? Why? XD
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Posted: Thu May 31, 2012 1:36 pm
Little Miss Fortune Some a*****e left a pair of shitty underwear tucked next to the toilet in the men's room at McDonald's tonight. FML. Ewwwww X----X *hugs* thats nasty!
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Posted: Thu May 31, 2012 2:14 pm
K4M Little Miss Fortune Some a*****e left a pair of shitty underwear tucked next to the toilet in the men's room at McDonald's tonight. FML. Ewwwww X----X *hugs* thats nasty! I knowww. Who DOES that?!?! gonk
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Posted: Fri Jun 01, 2012 11:07 pm
So I have this friend. . . She's a girl, but dresses like a boy and is often mistaken as a boy. Even when people know she's a girl they usually use the term "He" or "his" (etc). Her clothes choice are meant and designed for guys. Her hair "used to be" short-ish, but not so much as far as a boy-cut. Her act is innocent, in that she pretends to not understand any perverted jokes or even mild ones. Her voice isn't deep but passes enough to sound like a guy. When her friends debate against other people on her gender, she often watches the argument, doesn't say anything and perhaps laughs. She follows Christian ethics. Before she never ever swore. Lately, she has been swearing more frequently. Problems: 1. Her friends worry about her and think of how she'll be treated in the future. 2. Doesn't correct her gender when someone mis-takes it 3. Has been to 2 (as far as I know) all guy sleepovers (in which, I'm pretty sure all those guys don't see her as a girl although know she is) [just playing videogames and what-not]
Minor-problems that make people misjudge her: 1. Refuses to touch the colour pink because it is too "girly" 2. Tries to do "boy actions" (Asks for us to play football with her, and plays SC2)
Recently, she got a haircut and didn't tell the hair cutter that she was a girl. The barber dude mis-took her order, took out a razor and shaved her head pretty much bald. . .now she definitely looks like a guy. Seeing a hint of happiness with her new hair cut, our group of friends (comprised of, say, 6 girls) asked her if she wanted to mistaken as a guy, and she just shrugged (Perhaps not wanting to lie that she actually does, but not wanting to give a straight answer as "Yes, I do") Whatever she'll do in her future and how ever long she's going to keep this act up.
I also read something on a website about PCOS, which concerns me that she may or may not have. . .Gender confusion maybe?
EDIT: More-so a rant than a secret.
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Posted: Sat Jun 02, 2012 3:37 am
iDistant Dreams So I have this friend. . . She's a girl, but dresses like a boy and is often mistaken as a boy. Even when people know she's a girl they usually use the term "He" or "his" (etc). Her clothes choice are meant and designed for guys. Her hair "used to be" short-ish, but not so much as far as a boy-cut. Her act is innocent, in that she pretends to not understand any perverted jokes or even mild ones. Her voice isn't deep but passes enough to sound like a guy. When her friends debate against other people on her gender, she often watches the argument, doesn't say anything and perhaps laughs. She follows Christian ethics. Before she never ever swore. Lately, she has been swearing more frequently. Problems: 1. Her friends worry about her and think of how she'll be treated in the future. 2. Doesn't correct her gender when someone mis-takes it 3. Has been to 2 (as far as I know) all guy sleepovers (in which, I'm pretty sure all those guys don't see her as a girl although know she is) [just playing videogames and what-not]
Minor-problems that make people misjudge her: 1. Refuses to touch the colour pink because it is too "girly" 2. Tries to do "boy actions" (Asks for us to play football with her, and plays SC2)
Recently, she got a haircut and didn't tell the hair cutter that she was a girl. The barber dude mis-took her order, took out a razor and shaved her head pretty much bald. . .now she definitely looks like a guy. Seeing a hint of happiness with her new hair cut, our group of friends (comprised of, say, 6 girls) asked her if she wanted to mistaken as a guy, and she just shrugged (Perhaps not wanting to lie that she actually does, but not wanting to give a straight answer as "Yes, I do") Whatever she'll do in her future and how ever long she's going to keep this act up.
I also read something on a website about PCOS, which concerns me that she may or may not have. . .Gender confusion maybe?
EDIT: More-so a rant than a secret.
Why does it bother you so much? Maybe your friend is trans but just hasn't come out to you because they know how intolerant you are.
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Posted: Sat Jun 02, 2012 10:06 am
That sounded a little bit too rude, LMF. As you told me, this is a place to vent and stuff. leave her alone.
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Posted: Sat Jun 02, 2012 11:30 am
iDistant Dreams So I have this friend. . . She's a girl, but dresses like a boy and is often mistaken as a boy. Even when people know she's a girl they usually use the term "He" or "his" (etc). Her clothes choice are meant and designed for guys. Her hair "used to be" short-ish, but not so much as far as a boy-cut. Her act is innocent, in that she pretends to not understand any perverted jokes or even mild ones. Her voice isn't deep but passes enough to sound like a guy. When her friends debate against other people on her gender, she often watches the argument, doesn't say anything and perhaps laughs. She follows Christian ethics. Before she never ever swore. Lately, she has been swearing more frequently. Problems: 1. Her friends worry about her and think of how she'll be treated in the future. 2. Doesn't correct her gender when someone mis-takes it 3. Has been to 2 (as far as I know) all guy sleepovers (in which, I'm pretty sure all those guys don't see her as a girl although know she is) [just playing videogames and what-not]
Minor-problems that make people misjudge her: 1. Refuses to touch the colour pink because it is too "girly" 2. Tries to do "boy actions" (Asks for us to play football with her, and plays SC2)
Recently, she got a haircut and didn't tell the hair cutter that she was a girl. The barber dude mis-took her order, took out a razor and shaved her head pretty much bald. . .now she definitely looks like a guy. Seeing a hint of happiness with her new hair cut, our group of friends (comprised of, say, 6 girls) asked her if she wanted to mistaken as a guy, and she just shrugged (Perhaps not wanting to lie that she actually does, but not wanting to give a straight answer as "Yes, I do") Whatever she'll do in her future and how ever long she's going to keep this act up.
I also read something on a website about PCOS, which concerns me that she may or may not have. . .Gender confusion maybe?
EDIT: More-so a rant than a secret.
Boy clothes are more comfortable, cheaper, and generally more durable. Plus the pants actually have freaking pockets! And I know a few girls who have "boy haircuts", they're still feminine. Though I don't see how swearing is masculine, I swear more than any guy I know. Kinda jealous of your friend being that comfortable with her choices, even if they aren't the norm. 'Specially to be so content with who she is that she doesn't think it's necessary to correct her gender, because it doesn't matter to her. Gender is not an exact science. There's no rule if your 23rd chromosome is XX that you need to have long hair, wear skirts, and like pink. It's all very personal and choosing what works best for you. While this may be something you're not used to, it doesn't mean there's anything wrong. If your friend is happy and healthy, it's important to support her choices.
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