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 Posted: Fri Oct 14, 2011 10:31 pm
If it is really private, then would she be ok with you posting what she said to you? I don't know about you but if I had a private conversation with someone I wouldn't want them to just post parts of it for everyone to see... if it was just a normal conversation I probably wouldn't mind but something like the part you posted I would. I don't know if she'd actually mind or not, I'm just giving my opinion on it. I know that when I confessed my feelings for someone over a message I felt really embarrassed and if he posted what I said anywhere that I might see it then I'd be more embarrassed. And this happens to be a forum that she's also part of so I dunno... If you know she wouldn't mind then that's different, but I don't know so I guess it just sort of bothers me. sweatdrop
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Posted: Sat Oct 15, 2011 12:36 am
Jikoniau If it is really private, then would she be ok with you posting what she said to you? I don't know about you but if I had a private conversation with someone I wouldn't want them to just post parts of it for everyone to see... if it was just a normal conversation I probably wouldn't mind but something like the part you posted I would. I don't know if she'd actually mind or not, I'm just giving my opinion on it. I know that when I confessed my feelings for someone over a message I felt really embarrassed and if he posted what I said anywhere that I might see it then I'd be more embarrassed. And this happens to be a forum that she's also part of so I dunno... If you know she wouldn't mind then that's different, but I don't know so I guess it just sort of bothers me. sweatdrop This. Like, I know I wouldn't mind if something like that happened, but you need to ask before posting something as personal as that.
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Posted: Sat Oct 15, 2011 5:48 am
That one night Generally you can't be clingy ina new relationship more often than not you'll just annoy/scared the other person away. I know this from personal experience.. i've been on both ends. Not just new relationships. One of my ex's did it nonstop for 6 months which is why I practically ran away from that relationship. So yeah, you weren't the only one who was uncomfortable seeing that. ~~ I get why someone wouldn't tell a significant other to knock it off though, you feel like a jerk. They're showering you with affection and you're rejecting it. If I hadn't had that experience with my ex, I wouldn't have been able to tell my current boyfriend to knock it off because I've been down that road and it sucked.
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Posted: Sat Oct 15, 2011 9:38 am
Jikoniau If it is really private, then would she be ok with you posting what she said to you? I don't know about you but if I had a private conversation with someone I wouldn't want them to just post parts of it for everyone to see... if it was just a normal conversation I probably wouldn't mind but something like the part you posted I would. I don't know if she'd actually mind or not, I'm just giving my opinion on it. I know that when I confessed my feelings for someone over a message I felt really embarrassed and if he posted what I said anywhere that I might see it then I'd be more embarrassed. And this happens to be a forum that she's also part of so I dunno... If you know she wouldn't mind then that's different, but I don't know so I guess it just sort of bothers me. sweatdrop ....I'll just accept what ever life throws at me in terms of punishment. Though I did leave out bits I thought she might get angry if I showed to others cause they were more personal to her.
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Posted: Sat Oct 15, 2011 9:43 am
epic-writer42 Edit: Which I only mention infrequently from time to time. Actually, you mention it very frequently. I've noticed it a lot since I came back, and I haven't been back for that long.
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Posted: Sat Oct 15, 2011 9:48 am
Jedi Sasquatch epic-writer42 Edit: Which I only mention infrequently from time to time. Actually, you mention it very frequently. I've noticed it a lot since I came back, and I haven't been back for that long. Really...I thought I had myself distracted by other things for the most part.
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Posted: Sat Oct 15, 2011 3:06 pm
Goddddddddddddd
Seriously?!?!
You ******** use me for sex and then tell me it's my fault for letting you?
Excuse me for not being the best at standing up for myself after having this same ******** thing happen so many ******** times.
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Posted: Sat Oct 15, 2011 3:43 pm
I secretly feel like salsa! heart
either that or run for 50minutes and then get a haircut and play guitar for a group of random strangers
weird good feeling is good
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Posted: Sat Oct 15, 2011 4:10 pm
K4M I secretly feel like salsa! heart either that or run for 50minutes and then get a haircut and play guitar for a group of random strangers weird good feeling is good Wait so you feel zesty?
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Posted: Sat Oct 15, 2011 4:18 pm
K4M I secretly feel like salsa! heart either that or run for 50minutes and then get a haircut and play guitar for a group of random strangers weird good feeling is good omaigoodness O:
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Posted: Sat Oct 15, 2011 4:23 pm
epic-writer42 K4M I secretly feel like salsa! heart either that or run for 50minutes and then get a haircut and play guitar for a group of random strangers weird good feeling is good Wait so you feel zesty? No idea but I like tacos ? =D
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Posted: Sat Oct 15, 2011 4:39 pm
K4M epic-writer42 K4M I secretly feel like salsa! heart either that or run for 50minutes and then get a haircut and play guitar for a group of random strangers weird good feeling is good Wait so you feel zesty? No idea but I like tacos ? =D Works for me!!! Party time!!!!
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Posted: Sat Oct 15, 2011 6:08 pm
I seriously hope to every and any god that my own mother doesn't get Alzheimer's... I honestly don't know how she deals with it. emo
Dear sir, your hair is short enough! And I'm glad you got that thing booked. =D now tell me your address. I must continue stalking you from a distance. >D
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Posted: Sat Oct 15, 2011 7:17 pm
Admittedly, Epic's behavior toward Icey made me a bit uncomfortable, too... D;
I'm absolutely crazy about my not-girlfriend, but I can afford to go a long time without talking to her. I understand that she's often very busy, and that she'll talk to me if she wants to. I still send her messages every now and then, but not too often. I guess it also helps that I don't really overreact. When she mentioned that one of her neighbors had asked her out, I didn't get jealous. And when she told me about how her classmate suddenly started kissing her neck while they were walking around campus, I didn't flip my s**t.
My s**t remained unflipped.
It just sat there on the skillet, and started to burn on one side.
I acknowledged the fact that the situation had upset her, and calmly talked her through it.
Anyway, Epic does have a point when he says that reception of such attention is subjective. Icey might find his behavior charming and endearing rather than off-putting, and we can't prove otherwise unless she signs in and clarifies for everyone.
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