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Posted: Thu Aug 04, 2011 3:23 pm
Don't know anymore, Don't know what to do, Doubt anyone care's people say they care yet their answer and response/reaction is soo predictable and half the time its rather insulting.
I don't know what a friend is, its really hard to understand the meaning of friendship because friendship really just looks like putting batteries into a gameboy and once the power has been drained from those batteries you dispose of them or just ignore them as if they never existed...
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Posted: Thu Aug 04, 2011 7:02 pm
Kamok0 Don't know anymore, Don't know what to do, Doubt anyone care's people say they care yet their answer and response/reaction is soo predictable and half the time its rather insulting.
I don't know what a friend is, its really hard to understand the meaning of friendship because friendship really just looks like putting batteries into a gameboy and once the power has been drained from those batteries you dispose of them or just ignore them as if they never existed...
Well, I thought I was your friend man. I'm not sure what to tell you, but i got your back when you need me man. I'm more than happy to help in anyway I can just let me know.
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Posted: Thu Aug 04, 2011 8:01 pm
Jer0nim0 It's fine. I kind of agree. But yeah... I've only known him since he started being crazy so I can't totally judge. Everyone else in my family has known him before that so they don't only think of him that way. And everyone's passive as hell too. And as to why they don't do anything... like I said, they don't want to trigger anything worse by trying to punish him. They don't even charge him rent like they do my sister because he'd act as though it were punishment. And unfortunately, family means everything so they're not about to kick him out or anything. It'd be good for him (last time he left he was better when he came back... then he reverted again... though I dunno how he was at his place) if they could, but they won't. No one's been injured by him seriously or anything other than a punch and him breaking furniture and stuff, it's mostly just threats. And none of my family would do the reporting anyway, I don't think. We have all acknowledged there's something wrong with him, but they just let him do whatever... I dunno. Like I said, I feel like we're just waiting for something to happen. As to carrying around a blunt object... that would really just be something for him to throw or hit once. xD Actually, once I think I was washing a pan, he said I was washing it wrong. When I said he should wash it himself since I was getting confused as to how to not wash his pan right and didn't want to mess it up because he said it was a high quality pan, he said he'd hit me with it and started cussing me out. It would also be a bad idea to try recording an angry person because of similar reasons. So yeah, no aiding him with things to use. xDD Not that I can constantly do that with other people here anyway... if I were carrying a baseball bat around the house, saying I was using it to protect myself wouldn't exactly look right. xDDD Regarding your family's decision to just let your brother do what he wants, my friend has a saying: "The way I see it, people have an obligation to right a wrong if they can help it. If you can take action and decide to do nothing, then you're just as guilty." They acknowledge that something is wrong with him, but they refuse to do anything about it. Therefore, they're just as responsible. You're supposed to record him secretly. XD Letting him know that he's being recorded while he's doing an acrobatic ******** pirouette off the handle is one of the dumbest things to do. You could use something more subtle and portable, like a sock with a bar of soap in it?
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Posted: Thu Aug 04, 2011 8:13 pm
I don't think they know what to do. It's not like they could do anything other than kick him out and he can't support himself yet, and as he's not constantly a crazy person it's not like they will put him on the streets. My mom's too stressed as it is with her family situation to willingly spark up another argument. I only have an iPhone. How exactly do you record secretly with that? .___.' And honestly if it comes down to that, I'd rather just use my fist. .____.' It's subtle until it's in his face, then, if it makes it there.Kamok0 Don't know anymore, Don't know what to do, Doubt anyone care's people say they care yet their answer and response/reaction is soo predictable and half the time its rather insulting.
I don't know what a friend is, its really hard to understand the meaning of friendship because friendship really just looks like putting batteries into a gameboy and once the power has been drained from those batteries you dispose of them or just ignore them as if they never existed...
If you ever need to talk to anyone, just PM or Skype me, okies? D: I know I'm not online as much lately but I swear I'll get to it ASAP. :<
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Posted: Thu Aug 04, 2011 10:01 pm
Jer0nim0 I don't think they know what to do. It's not like they could do anything other than kick him out and he can't support himself yet, and as he's not constantly a crazy person it's not like they will put him on the streets. My mom's too stressed as it is with her family situation to willingly spark up another argument. I only have an iPhone. How exactly do you record secretly with that? .___.' And honestly if it comes down to that, I'd rather just use my fist. .____.' It's subtle until it's in his face, then, if it makes it there. They get him some help? There are facilities for unstable people like that. I dunno, set it to "record" and put it somewhere discreet so it captures the interaction? That's how most people secretly record something. XD If you know you can do enough damage with your fist and still keep him at bay, then more power to ya.
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Posted: Fri Aug 05, 2011 12:21 pm
& Thanksies <3 Midnight: =O You are my friend <3 T^T as is Nim just people confuse me alot T^T
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Posted: Sat Aug 06, 2011 7:27 am
"You are in no way obliged to maintain a friendly relationship with a person who treats you badly. End it and never look back."
thank you thank you thank you thank you thank you thank you thank you Finally someone has voiced the exact words I could never coherently put together. O_O
And hopefully this "public" apology they mentioned will help. If not... x.x
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Posted: Sun Aug 07, 2011 2:50 am
Maris Pallitax "You are in no way obliged to maintain a friendly relationship with a person who treats you badly. End it and never look back."
thank you thank you thank you thank you thank you thank you thank you Finally someone has voiced the exact words I could never coherently put together. O_O
And hopefully this "public" apology they mentioned will help. If not... x.x Exactly, smart person
Oh god does my life suck. Just can't deal at the moment. Wanna curl up in a ball an have no social interaction with anyone but my boyfriend and occasionally my family ever again
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Posted: Sun Aug 07, 2011 5:37 pm
Why can't one terrible thing happen at a time?
Someone PMed me just now explaining the "truth" about Meriru/Layena. They say she never existed and was totally made up and then when someone was going to expose her as fake, she "killed" herself off. I'm not sure if I believe this, and even if it was true, I would still want to be friends with whoever was in control of that account. But she wouldn't want to just... stop talking to me, would she? I thought we were close =( 3
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Posted: Mon Aug 08, 2011 7:58 pm
The past two days I've been an emotional wreck, and even my closest friends haven't noticed any changes at all. I guess years of trying to hide how I feel about things is showing results. Hopefully it'll all be over soon.
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Posted: Mon Aug 08, 2011 8:12 pm
*Rams all gaia's cookies down its throat.* Stop giving me notifications for cookies! stressed Keeps making me think it's something important.
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Posted: Mon Aug 08, 2011 8:27 pm
epic-writer42 *Rams all gaia's cookies down its throat.* Stop giving me notifications for cookies! stressed Keeps making me think it's something important. This
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Posted: Mon Aug 08, 2011 8:39 pm
I wish everyone would just ******** off and leave me alone
Except for the times when I want someone to talk to me and be nice to me
Why can't people read my mind and know what I want? D<
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Posted: Mon Aug 08, 2011 8:41 pm
epic-writer42 *Rams all gaia's cookies down its throat.* Stop giving me notifications for cookies! stressed Keeps making me think it's something important. What are the damn cookies for anyway?
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