The Darth Vizzle
Communication is pretty awesome, I hear.
I heard it doesn't work with women.
But seriously, Grappling isn't a ''******** headache'' when the guy you're playing with understands it, and isn't too complicated about it.
''I'm on top, side-mount''
''Then I'm going to push you up and bring my knees into your chest, sliding back to full guard''
But if you're the type to come up with complex, made up s**t, then it's going to be a headache.