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Posted: Mon Jan 17, 2011 6:15 am
In terms of things Bunny isn't asking for much, but a few thing need to be cleared, what is his version of a joke, and what are the interest?
An Berry-chan you a stud now aren't you, just put out on the market and waiting for Meres to appear
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Posted: Mon Jan 17, 2011 6:50 am
Roflmao, I've never heard it that way and I've never considered myself that way xD But hey, I take pride in fact that I attract the opposite(and in some sad, very very sad situations the same) sex too me and have been asked out by far more then the times I've asked out others =D
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Posted: Mon Jan 17, 2011 7:37 am
1. Movie dates are perfect as long as you see the right movie. Movie dates work wonders because at the end of the day, as long as SHE liked the movie, the date will at the very least be considered a minor success because she had fun. No matter what your goals for as a male was for this date, as long as she had fun, your more likely than not gonna get another date. But then again, that comes down to what you want out of it. My plans are like this.
If I just want to get to know her, and im generally considering the possibility of starting a relationship, I will take her to a movie I KNOW she will like, then take her out to eat. While eating, if we cant talk about anything, we can talk about the movie. Ill make sure to get her home before its too late, then call her when I get home if for no other reason than to just say good night. I often use the line "I wanted you to be the last voice I hear before going to sleep". (Works everytime)
If it is someone that I really like, and I really honestly want to be with this person. This has only happened to me twice, but there was a girl where I desperately wanted to impress her/ spend all my money on her (means the same thing most of the time). I took her ice skating, to am amusement park, go carting, then to watch fire works on the beach. (Needless to say, after all that she pretty much had to.. amirite?)
If it is a girl where I just want to have a good time (This does not automatically mean sex), or like, if I just want some company, then ill invite her to MEET ME at rave or a party. Because then, if it turns out that I dont like her or am not enjoying myself with her, I can still have fun and not worry as much about her getting home.
2. I saw Dilemma the other day. It was hilarious.
3. Its harder for guys to get dates than girls because girls know that guys want them. Some of us are lucky enough to get asked out, but most off the time if a girl wants to go out with you, she would rather drop hints (that we wont take amirite fellas?) or playfully flirt with you until you ask HER. I think it has something to do with the fact that if she asked you it makes her seem desperate or something. IDK, ive only been asked out by a girl once and it did not end well.
4. When I was single, I used to meet girls just through confidence and persistence. I dont mean keep stalking her till she says yes, or go fishing from one girl to the next, but if you go to the mall and see a pretty girl you want to ask out, just do it, she says no? -shrugs- ask someone else. If you go to a well populated area and your being cool about it, you might ask out 5 girls, 4 might say no, but as long as one said yes, then you win.
But really it just comes down to confidence. Girls often tell me that there is nothing more attractive than simply having balls. Dont be all scared, go talk to them, there not monsters, there not gonna bite your head of 3/4 of the time ( amirite?) Just go for it.
Lastly, choose your target wisely. Know what kind of guy you are, and know what kind of girls like your type. Like I always say about myself. "Guys are like cereal, some guys are fruit loops, everyone likes fruit loops, you generally cant go wrong with fruit loops, but there rarely anyones favorite. Meanwhile, I am like golden grams. Not everyone likes golden grams, but the ones that do, ******** LOVE GOLDEN GRAMS."
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ssAntonio rolled 20 20-sided dice:
7, 20, 17, 17, 16, 3, 19, 7, 2, 15, 20, 8, 16, 13, 9, 6, 17, 1, 15, 7
Total: 235 (20-400)
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Posted: Mon Jan 17, 2011 9:10 am
Hmmmmm....... What ever could these numbers be for? <3
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Posted: Mon Jan 17, 2011 9:52 am
Well i had horses on my mind at the time at the time
I ask a few of my friend and yes the movie date can work, but the one using it needs to know how to pull it off, most guy don't do it right, they pick the wrong movie, don't plan it, or use the dark to try a move, but it can be nice
Added Dilemma to maybe list.
My male friend Ryan, The Man Whore, said it is easiest to pick up the Hot girl, if entering a small group of girls, ex - 3 girls 1 attractive(6-7), 1 hot(7-8 ), 1 really hot(8-9), the hottest girl will know she is hot an will be hit on all the time, the less attractive will also have a large number of people hit on her, this because people will go for the hottest girl or the attractive girl first, Hottest for clear reason and attractive by those who feel the other two are out of there range, so the hot girl will feel she isn't as pretty as the others and be more open Well that was the example he gave
I hate fruit loops
-crys in corner- How could you Berry-chan
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Posted: Mon Jan 17, 2011 10:00 am
My sense of humor? Depends, wide range really. Intelligent, dry, dark, etc. Really as long as you can laugh at something and don't take the occasional obviously not hurtful tease to the "omg I'm pissed" level she'd be fine. Alas there are the occasional that do, where you'll tease them playfully and they'll bust into the "I'm not talking to you" mode (given it's rare but when it happens it's just irritating).
Anyways, lucky you Sai. I've been asked out a few times, but realistically since I'm either at work, with my guy friends, or at home I really don't get exposed to many chances TO be asked out (been asked out by fellow employees more than once but I have a thing against dating people I work with). So generally speaking it winds up being more like ele said, a girl may drop hints or flirt but the actual asking out is rare (and really for any girls that happen to read this, we men like it when you ask us out, I think only the really minority of us think that's desperate).
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Posted: Mon Jan 17, 2011 10:07 am
=3 Girl asking a guy out is a huge turn on o-o
@Play- Whut did I do this time? TT~TT I'm sowwy, huggles?
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Posted: Mon Jan 17, 2011 11:01 am
A girl that ask out a guy is sexy as long as she is not being a whore about it.
Wrong way
"Your kinda cute, i was wondering if maybe you wanted to hook up sometime for some fun"
Not gonna get rejected, but it rubs most guys the wrong way.
Right Way
"Hey, I was wondering if you maybe wanted to get together sometime and hang out. Heres my number, call me if your interested."
If a girl did that, even if I was not immediately attracted to her, I would most likely give her a chance just because of that.
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Posted: Mon Jan 17, 2011 11:26 am
Ugh, I dislike movie dates although they work most of the time. If I actually liked someone enough, I'd get a bit more creative than the stereotypical movie date.
And I don't find a girl asking a guy out any less attractive than if it was the other way around. However, it does take me by surprise, and I liked to be surprised.
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Posted: Mon Jan 17, 2011 11:31 am
I wanna be peanut butter crunch. = w= b
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Posted: Mon Jan 17, 2011 11:34 am
also ele's girl imitations sound very masculine XD;; but thas prolly just me lol
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Posted: Mon Jan 17, 2011 11:38 am
oh and the coolest date set up i can think of doing myself would be a park visit... or a maybe a picnic thing that way it'll show you are inventive and with the picnic thing at least shows you have some skills of support = w=;; but then again i'm mentally old school lol.
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Posted: Mon Jan 17, 2011 11:57 am
Zavits W also ele's girl imitations sound very masculine XD;; but thas prolly just me lol Well I dont pride myself on being able to mimic a female lol.
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Posted: Mon Jan 17, 2011 12:07 pm
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ssAntonio rolled 6 20-sided dice:
11, 15, 13, 8, 15, 12
Total: 74 (6-120)
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Posted: Mon Jan 17, 2011 2:28 pm
Eh.. Doing it differently now that I think about it... SOOOOOO >___>
MORE ROLLS! =3
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