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 Posted: Tue Jan 06, 2009 6:47 pm
I can't. I really can't.
Ok...so put yourself in his position.
You lose someone that to you is EVERYTHING. Absolutely everything. Pretty much you've made this person the reason you're living. (And I'm not trying to sound full of myself...this is what he told me) When you lost them, you pretty much wanted to die. And then, a month later, you get them back. You know what it feels like to lose them, and appreciate them even more becuase you know what that feels like and now you have that person back.
Now take that person away again.
How could I do that? Honestly, how in the world am I supposed to do something like that?
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Posted: Tue Jan 06, 2009 6:56 pm
Well, he may have said that, but I believe he has other reasons for living. Guys do tend to say crazy things when they're in love (I am one!) I'm not saying this guy is lying to you, it looks like he really does sincerely like you.
But I think he'll be able to move on. It's life. We get hurt, learn from it, move on.
I know what you're going through. I use to mean the world to someone else as well. But if it meant I was going to have to suffer through a relationship that just felt odd and not right... well, I just didn't feel like I was doing her justice. Like I was almost pitying her. So I ended it... and we ended up becoming best friends.
Once again, it'll hurt. You'll cry. He'll cry. But would rather look back on just one moment in your history that made you sad for awhile, or a continuing relationship that you didn't enjoy and felt like you could be branching out during that time?
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Posted: Tue Jan 06, 2009 9:28 pm
I know, and that's what I told myself the first time.
But I realized that I couldn't be happy knowing how miserable he was...so until he decided to move on, I really couldn't move on either...
And I am not good at causing pain. Not even a little bit.
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Posted: Wed Jan 07, 2009 12:59 am
I understand your situation Waffles (and I wouldn't wish it on anyone if you offered me the world)
I was told that myself at one time, and by the time she left me I felt like it was the other way 'round. When she left I literally had no idea what to do with myself - I still get nervous to to the point of shakes sometimes when I see her. However - In the end, it was for the best. At the very least it broke my dependence to her.
What you do is totally up to you and I think I can be confident when I say that everyone here will be 100% behind you no matter what, but in the end, as cruel as it seems - you're happiness is as important as his.
--Lots of hugs for you love-- heart
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Posted: Wed Jan 07, 2009 8:19 pm
I'll make you imaginary muffins, if you want. I'm sorry you have to be in this position. Just remember... you can't buy time, or sell it. It never returns once you lose it. If you spend time being unhappy... well, you get the idea. gonk We're behind you 100% no matter what you choose.
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Posted: Thu Jan 08, 2009 10:23 pm
I love my girlfriend. She's so sweet.
Went to see Seven Pounds. It was... decent. Great acting and everything, but some scenes were drawn out a lot longer than they needed to be, and it felt a tad bit uninspired at parts.
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Posted: Fri Jan 09, 2009 2:48 pm
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Posted: Fri Jan 09, 2009 3:09 pm
Eh... I suppose. If you like Will Smith's good acting, then at least see it once xd
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Posted: Fri Jan 09, 2009 8:50 pm
Saw The Unborn.
Was good for a laugh, if nothing more.
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Posted: Sat Jan 10, 2009 10:30 am
I have an unborn brother :/
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Posted: Sat Jan 10, 2009 11:42 am
Technically in the movie, the unborn, was born... at one point in time.
Odd.
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Posted: Sat Jan 10, 2009 1:00 pm
Weird. :p
I wasn't supposed to be born. I was an accident.
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Posted: Sat Jan 10, 2009 3:58 pm
most are. nine months before my birthday was christmas/new years
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Posted: Sat Jan 10, 2009 4:27 pm
I was a Very Large Accident.
As in, the reason my parents got married was, well...
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Posted: Sat Jan 10, 2009 5:18 pm
"Mom, how long have you been married to Dad?"
"Oh, ten years."
"But I'm eleven!"
"...I meant twelve."
gonk
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