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 Posted: Sat Dec 18, 2010 4:52 pm
In my experience, true love is something that needs to be developed. It can't just happen in a day. I'm pretty sure a majority of those kinds of relationships that end in divorce were formed out of sexual attraction alone. They never got to really know the person and every quirk they had, then only to find out they can't live with them and what they have. Other times I think it's due to unfortunate accidents which causes the other person to leave cause they can't support the other anymore.
I believe there has to be patience with love in order to find it. Not to go looking for it cause "true love" won't happen instantly and I really don't believe it exists. You need to create it starting with friendships and that requires being with people and getting to know them.
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Posted: Sat Dec 18, 2010 4:54 pm
The problem is you need to know the timing or else you end up as just a friend sometimes.
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Posted: Sat Dec 18, 2010 4:58 pm
The people in this house need to shut the ******** up.
Cussing at me over a ******** food wrapper? Breaking things? Get the ******** OVER YOURSELF.
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Posted: Sat Dec 18, 2010 5:00 pm
 Sorry if I seem a bit jaded, it's just that I've seen a lot of marriages end in divorce. And I'm sure all those people thought they were in true love, but apparently not.
So yeah, I've pretty much been desensitized. The way I see it, true love is like Santa Clause. They're both concepts that only exist to comfort little kids and make us give huge piles of cash to the big corporations.
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Posted: Sat Dec 18, 2010 5:36 pm
Okay webroot, if you could, could you find the thing that redirected me to one of those false virus scan webpages and maul it for me. I was in the middle of watching Eureka 7, seriously not cool.
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Posted: Sat Dec 18, 2010 6:11 pm
King Spellcaster In my experience, true love is something that needs to be developed. It can't just happen in a day. I'm pretty sure a majority of those kinds of relationships that end in divorce were formed out of sexual attraction alone. They never got to really know the person and every quirk they had, then only to find out they can't live with them and what they have. Other times I think it's due to unfortunate accidents which causes the other person to leave cause they can't support the other anymore. I believe there has to be patience with love in order to find it. Not to go looking for it cause "true love" won't happen instantly and I really don't believe it exists. You need to create it starting with friendships and that requires being with people and getting to know them. Yus, you need to spend a few years secretly stalking someone too. At least that's what I've come to understand in my experiences. sweatdrop
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Posted: Sat Dec 18, 2010 6:37 pm
Pirate Captain Sushi King Spellcaster In my experience, true love is something that needs to be developed. It can't just happen in a day. I'm pretty sure a majority of those kinds of relationships that end in divorce were formed out of sexual attraction alone. They never got to really know the person and every quirk they had, then only to find out they can't live with them and what they have. Other times I think it's due to unfortunate accidents which causes the other person to leave cause they can't support the other anymore. I believe there has to be patience with love in order to find it. Not to go looking for it cause "true love" won't happen instantly and I really don't believe it exists. You need to create it starting with friendships and that requires being with people and getting to know them. Yus, you need to spend a few years secretly stalking someone too. At least that's what I've come to understand in my experiences. sweatdrop >> stalkurrrrr
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Posted: Sat Dec 18, 2010 6:38 pm
-Mizu teh Artsi- Pirate Captain Sushi King Spellcaster In my experience, true love is something that needs to be developed. It can't just happen in a day. I'm pretty sure a majority of those kinds of relationships that end in divorce were formed out of sexual attraction alone. They never got to really know the person and every quirk they had, then only to find out they can't live with them and what they have. Other times I think it's due to unfortunate accidents which causes the other person to leave cause they can't support the other anymore. I believe there has to be patience with love in order to find it. Not to go looking for it cause "true love" won't happen instantly and I really don't believe it exists. You need to create it starting with friendships and that requires being with people and getting to know them. Yus, you need to spend a few years secretly stalking someone too. At least that's what I've come to understand in my experiences. sweatdrop >> stalkurrrrr You know you love it. heart
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Posted: Sat Dec 18, 2010 6:39 pm
I believe in true love =3 heart
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Posted: Sat Dec 18, 2010 6:41 pm
I used to believe in true love wholeheartedly. I'm not sure when exactly I stopped believing in it. I think the doubting may have started when my dad left. Either that or when I became an atheist.
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Posted: Sat Dec 18, 2010 6:50 pm
I really can't take this fake bull s**t anymore. I'm rather tired of being something I'm rather pissed off with everyone and everything. I'm sorry to say such things but I would really appreciate it if somebody would hit me over the head with a rather large brick.
It seems that i can't get away from my addiction, its as if the pain is a lifeline for me. I can't seem to go on without feeling some amount of it and whats even worse is the fact that I love it. I love the feeling I get when bleeding, or when burning, any kind of pain brings joy to me, and I can't figure out why. I want nothing more than to end it but I can't. I'll admit that I'm not strong enough and i don't care if you say anything about it, to hell with you and what you think at least i can be honest you fake son of a b***h.
Everything I do anymore is just a cover up to hide the real me, the real me who would just as quick slit somebody's throat in their sleep than anything else. i apologize that I'm not the upbeat and fun, optimistic guy that I tried to be but it disgusts me to try and fake something just to try and not be ridiculed, or hated for what I am.
I'm blind in one eye, have multiple scars, and am constantly throwing my body out in front of others (metaphorically) so that way they don't feel the pain that I do. I give up my freedom, my happiness for them so that way they can have their second, third and even fourth chances. I feel like its something I must do, and I find solace in it, that at least i can do one thing to make somebody happy. But at what price? My other eye? My arm? My leg? I don't know, but i do know that as long as I can I will gladly give up anything I can to keep those whom i cherish safe and happy.
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Posted: Sat Dec 18, 2010 7:22 pm
I wear my heart on my sleeve. He keeps his guarded. I love what I have. He only thinks of what he doesn't have. I'm open with everything in my life. He tries to hide everything. I'm the happier one. He actually recognized this and told me I was right. Last night he ran from me and today he told me I was right. I'm kinda in shock right now.
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Posted: Sat Dec 18, 2010 7:26 pm
Jedi Sasquatch I used to believe in true love wholeheartedly. I'm not sure when exactly I stopped believing in it. I think the doubting may have started when my dad left. Either that or when I became an atheist. Your dad leaving makes better sense...cause I don't see a correlation between a atheism and not believing in true love.
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Posted: Sat Dec 18, 2010 7:30 pm
epic-writer42 Your dad leaving makes better sense...cause I don't see a correlation between a atheism and not believing in true love. Depends on the version of true love. I don't believe in "the one" but I believe in love and relationships that can last, despite being surrounded by hideously bad relationships.
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