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 Posted: Mon May 11, 2015 11:44 pm
Amu Tsukiyomi-sama ....it's not exactly a good timing thing.
It's being the worst possible meanie he could possible be....
Because reasons/him being observant and knowing things I was trying to not say and such because well-meant reasons...
There's supposed to be...
If so, I'm handing in the letter I wrote and saying why I'm leaving.
Which is a half-truth, but one that'll help me not totally burn a bridge.
Because I kind of need them as a reference until I get a better one.
he could've been a lesser meanie, which might not have helped as much. idk hopefully you can get a better reference soon, so that you don't need to use them. who knows how good of one they'd be? though i guess any reference is better than no reference. maybe. tbh i have no clue either way. most of this reply has no real reason to exist so i'll stop it here
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Posted: Mon May 11, 2015 11:58 pm
Nikakaeo Amu Tsukiyomi-sama ....it's not exactly a good timing thing.
It's being the worst possible meanie he could possible be....
Because reasons/him being observant and knowing things I was trying to not say and such because well-meant reasons...
There's supposed to be...
If so, I'm handing in the letter I wrote and saying why I'm leaving.
Which is a half-truth, but one that'll help me not totally burn a bridge.
Because I kind of need them as a reference until I get a better one.
he could've been a lesser meanie, which might not have helped as much. idk hopefully you can get a better reference soon, so that you don't need to use them. who knows how good of one they'd be? though i guess any reference is better than no reference. maybe. tbh i have no clue either way. most of this reply has no real reason to exist so i'll stop it here ...No, see...
The level of meanieness is determined by just how much either flaily or utterly flooring me with what he's said/the fact he still wants me around/cares/etcetc.
He hit ALL THREE-FOUR in one shot.
And then some.
No kidding.
I don't want them as an anything other than a distant memory of a place I once worked because I semi-had to.
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Posted: Tue May 12, 2015 12:07 am
Amu Tsukiyomi-sama ...No, see...
The level of meanieness is determined by just how much either flaily or utterly flooring me with what he's said/the fact he still wants me around/cares/etcetc.
He hit ALL THREE-FOUR in one shot.
And then some.
No kidding.
I don't want them as an anything other than a distant memory of a place I once worked because I semi-had to.
well i can't blame him for wanting to be around/caring about you. good friends will pretty much always feel that way, and good relationship partners even moreso. though to do something as effective as what it sounds like is impressive from what you've said of the place? i can't blame you at all
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Posted: Tue May 12, 2015 12:15 am
Nikakaeo Amu Tsukiyomi-sama ...No, see...
The level of meanieness is determined by just how much either flaily or utterly flooring me with what he's said/the fact he still wants me around/cares/etcetc.
He hit ALL THREE-FOUR in one shot.
And then some.
No kidding.
I don't want them as an anything other than a distant memory of a place I once worked because I semi-had to.
well i can't blame him for wanting to be around/caring about you. good friends will pretty much always feel that way, and good relationship partners even moreso. though to do something as effective as what it sounds like is impressive from what you've said of the place? i can't blame you at all ...out of curiosity....
What do you think he did/said?
Or, what does it sound like he did?
(Did I mention it was a phone call? I think I did...)
Mhm.
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Posted: Tue May 12, 2015 12:25 am
Amu Tsukiyomi-sama ...out of curiosity....
What do you think he did/said?
Or, what does it sound like he did?
(Did I mention it was a phone call? I think I did...)
Mhm.
i haven't the slightest of ideas as to what he did/said. i know the other day you mentioned something about how you asked him what you were twice and he said 'mine' and then hung up, but that's the only idea i've got. and nope, you didn't mention it was a phone call. unless you mean the phone call from the other day
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Posted: Tue May 12, 2015 12:32 am
Nikakaeo Amu Tsukiyomi-sama ...out of curiosity....
What do you think he did/said?
Or, what does it sound like he did?
(Did I mention it was a phone call? I think I did...)
Mhm.
i haven't the slightest of ideas as to what he did/said. i know the other day you mentioned something about how you asked him what you were twice and he said 'mine' and then hung up, but that's the only idea i've got. and nope, you didn't mention it was a phone call. unless you mean the phone call from the other day Nope.
This was a phone call today.
And I guess in a round about way, two of the things he said are a lot like the whole 'mine' thing from thursday.
Just not the sneakiness, set up, and then hanging up part.
Those bits weren't a thing this time.
And yay, I didn't give anything away!
*figures you both don't really need to know and that you likely don't want/don't care to know*
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Posted: Tue May 12, 2015 12:39 am
Amu Tsukiyomi-sama Nope.
This was a phone call today.
And I guess in a round about way, two of the things he said are a lot like the whole 'mine' thing from thursday.
Just not the sneakiness, set up, and then hanging up part.
Those bits weren't a thing this time.
And yay, I didn't give anything away!
*figures you both don't really need to know and that you likely don't want/don't care to know*
then nope, no idea as to what it was. though it seems you should be more careful around him, as he could very well become more and more of a meanie as time goes on. and while i may be curious as to what it was that he did/said, i don't need to know. the only ones who could really say they need to know are you and the boyfriend
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Posted: Tue May 12, 2015 12:46 am
Nikakaeo Amu Tsukiyomi-sama Nope.
This was a phone call today.
And I guess in a round about way, two of the things he said are a lot like the whole 'mine' thing from thursday.
Just not the sneakiness, set up, and then hanging up part.
Those bits weren't a thing this time.
And yay, I didn't give anything away!
*figures you both don't really need to know and that you likely don't want/don't care to know*
then nope, no idea as to what it was. though it seems you should be more careful around him, as he could very well become more and more of a meanie as time goes on. and while i may be curious as to what it was that he did/said, i don't need to know. the only ones who could really say they need to know are you and the boyfriend That's not actually a bad thing....
It's just how I handle when something is especially flustering or something I can't entirely handle in the sense of "someone thinks this? but...*good surprised*"
I told you before, I'm a bit tsundere.
Well...actually there will be a couple other people who'll need to know...but a few things have to happen first.
One of them being my father learning I even have a boyfriend.
Much as I'd like to do the other option...I can't cause my mother the inevitable problems that would arise.
Another being all of his people meeting me and getting used to having me around a lot.
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Posted: Tue May 12, 2015 12:54 am
Amu Tsukiyomi-sama That's not actually a bad thing....
It's just how I handle when something is especially flustering or something I can't entirely handle in the sense of "someone thinks this? but...*good surprised*"
I told you before, I'm a bit tsundere.
Well...actually there will be a couple other people who'll need to know...but a few things have to happen first.
One of them being my father learning I even have a boyfriend.
Much as I'd like to do the other option...I can't cause my mother the inevitable problems that would arise.
Another being all of his people meeting me and getting used to having me around a lot.
eh, either way. sometimes there can be too much of a good thing, and if a good thing happens too often, it could begin to lose its allure. a good thing becoming just a thing is something that's never fun to realize happened that's in the future, then. but for the time being, until those things happen, he and thee are the only ones in the 'need to know' category for such things
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Posted: Tue May 12, 2015 12:58 am
Nikakaeo Amu Tsukiyomi-sama That's not actually a bad thing....
It's just how I handle when something is especially flustering or something I can't entirely handle in the sense of "someone thinks this? but...*good surprised*"
I told you before, I'm a bit tsundere.
Well...actually there will be a couple other people who'll need to know...but a few things have to happen first.
One of them being my father learning I even have a boyfriend.
Much as I'd like to do the other option...I can't cause my mother the inevitable problems that would arise.
Another being all of his people meeting me and getting used to having me around a lot.
eh, either way. sometimes there can be too much of a good thing, and if a good thing happens too often, it could begin to lose its allure. a good thing becoming just a thing is something that's never fun to realize happened that's in the future, then. but for the time being, until those things happen, he and thee are the only ones in the 'need to know' category for such things I trust that he knows when to back off with the being a meanieness.
I get the feeling if he really cares about something, he takes very good care of it.
Same for people.
And I have a tendency to react to it no matter how many times it happens....
Maybe I still have a niggling bit of doubt about myself and that's the reason why.
I don't really know.
Yupyup.
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Posted: Tue May 12, 2015 1:03 am
Amu Tsukiyomi-sama I trust that he knows when to back off with the being a meanieness.
I get the feeling if he really cares about something, he takes very good care of it.
Same for people.
And I have a tendency to react to it no matter how many times it happens....
Maybe I still have a niggling bit of doubt about myself and that's the reason why.
I don't really know.
Yupyup.
only time shall tell if he'll know or not, though i'm with you in the hope that he does indeed know. i'll trust your judgement on that, and hope it's sound. it could very well be that, and if so, i'll hope that in time it goes away for the sake of the you. at the same time though, for the sake of the reactions, i'll hope if it's the case that it stays. while hoping that it's not because of self-doubt
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Posted: Tue May 12, 2015 1:16 am
Nikakaeo Amu Tsukiyomi-sama I trust that he knows when to back off with the being a meanieness.
I get the feeling if he really cares about something, he takes very good care of it.
Same for people.
And I have a tendency to react to it no matter how many times it happens....
Maybe I still have a niggling bit of doubt about myself and that's the reason why.
I don't really know.
Yupyup.
only time shall tell if he'll know or not, though i'm with you in the hope that he does indeed know. i'll trust your judgement on that, and hope it's sound. it could very well be that, and if so, i'll hope that in time it goes away for the sake of the you. at the same time though, for the sake of the reactions, i'll hope if it's the case that it stays. while hoping that it's not because of self-doubt After some of the things that have happened...to both of us...
I trust him completely.
Which says something, because I don't trust people very easily...well, truly trust them.
It HAS gone away.
But I will always think myself to be crazier than I probably am, and therefore harder to deal with.
(which I definitely am for anyone who doesn't care about me...and sometimes even then I'm still hard to handle)
So on some level, I'll always be surprised and tsundere-flaily-stuffs.
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Posted: Tue May 12, 2015 1:29 am
Amu Tsukiyomi-sama After some of the things that have happened...to both of us...
I trust him completely.
Which says something, because I don't trust people very easily...well, truly trust them.
It HAS gone away.
But I will always think myself to be crazier than I probably am, and therefore harder to deal with.
(which I definitely am for anyone who doesn't care about me...and sometimes even then I'm still hard to handle)
So on some level, I'll always be surprised and tsundere-flaily-stuffs.
well, good. everyone needs someone they can trust completely, in my opinion. though even then, that person will never be told certain things. there will always be secrets then in that case, yay for the amusing reactions! and yay for people who don't care about you having a harder time dealing with you! someone who thinks of people negatively should have harder times interacting with people in general
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Posted: Tue May 12, 2015 1:57 pm
Nikakaeo Amu Tsukiyomi-sama After some of the things that have happened...to both of us...
I trust him completely.
Which says something, because I don't trust people very easily...well, truly trust them.
It HAS gone away.
But I will always think myself to be crazier than I probably am, and therefore harder to deal with.
(which I definitely am for anyone who doesn't care about me...and sometimes even then I'm still hard to handle)
So on some level, I'll always be surprised and tsundere-flaily-stuffs.
well, good. everyone needs someone they can trust completely, in my opinion. though even then, that person will never be told certain things. there will always be secrets then in that case, yay for the amusing reactions! and yay for people who don't care about you having a harder time dealing with you! someone who thinks of people negatively should have harder times interacting with people in general Well duh.
No one tells everything to others.
....I meant that they have a harder time dealing with me because they (other person) do not care about me.
Guess what I handed to a manager today.
*gleeful*
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Posted: Tue May 12, 2015 2:27 pm
Amu Tsukiyomi-sama Well duh.
No one tells everything to others.
....I meant that they have a harder time dealing with me because they (other person) do not care about me.
Guess what I handed to a manager today.
*gleeful*
indeed so isn't that the case with most people? i know i have a harder time dealing with people if i don't care about them but could just be me, far as i know congrats on managing to give them the "screw this place" letter and give them some extra choice words!
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