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 Posted: Mon Sep 16, 2013 2:41 pm
Amu Tsukiyomi-sama Sellesion Amu Tsukiyomi-sama Sellesion Amu Tsukiyomi-sama yeah.... Well, all I can do is just deal with it as best I can... I'm pretty sure I'll still have my best friend no matter which way things go. I just don't know how that will change...because it WILL change. True true. And that's a definite plus side. Best friends are great like that. And Amu, if I could tell you how things will change, I would. I know change is unnerving and confusing and all. But try and take it with a grain of sugar, ya? :'3 Everything in life is so much sweeter that way- even changes can be wonderful! So I hope you don't worry over it too much. ^^ And if you do, just know that you aren't alone in similar situations. emotion_hug It's mostly the issue that he's not ugly....but he's not particularly handsome either... I did a "use a hug to see what happens" thing and the only thing that's happened from it....is I feel like hugging him a WHOLE BUNCH. Which is totally unusual for me....and a slight bit of those darned warm fuzzies. But he's not super attractive to me, which is the main problem... It's really shallow, I know...and I'm trying to not let it be the main deciding factor, as he's really the kind of guy I should date. So, yeah....But I'm pretty darn sure I DO like him....I'm just a bit wimpy and probably in denial. Either way.....I FEEL LIKE HUGGING HIM A WHOLE BUNCH. LIKE A LOT. LIKE THE KIND OF HUGS GIVEN WHEN SITTING NEXT TO A PERSON. Also, thank you. (the answer he's gotten out of me is the "I feels like hug you a whole bunch", to which he finds it to be not straightforward answer....which was kinda the point) To be completely honest with you Amu, That's exactly how I felt about my boyfriend when I was getting to know him, and now we've been together over 6 years. Even now, he knows I don't find him particularly handsome or anything, but he's just perfect for hugs, and we're best friends. I feel like something such as hugs should definitely feel right. If it isn't nice, and comfortable, and it doesn't make you feel all happy and warm and fuzzy inside, there's likely something off there. Unless of course you as a person just dislike hugs from anyone ever. It's ok to be in denial though. Cus if you do really like him in that way, there's a point where it'll hit you weather you want it to or not. And things then will hopefully make more sense. At least on your end. Ya know? Cus you'll be able to know better what it is you want out of the relationship you have with him. 3nodding If you want to be more than friends and stuff like that. I feel like with emotional stuff you should just take your time. I know he wants a definite answer now, but who wouldn't, ya know? ^^" When ed s ed asked me out, I took a week to decide. And I told him, I was like, "I do really really like you. But I don't want to go into this relationship if I can't see it working out. I don't want to hurt you." Because we were such good friends by then, that I really wanted to be sure; so I was less likely to break his heart. By then he already knew he loved me, so it was really hard for him to be patient. But at the same time, the result was what was best for us both ultimately. So I think that if your best friend really cares about you and wants to be with you romantically, he'll be willing to give you the time you need. In conclusion, Hugs, hugs are amazing. lol. ^^ And you're more than welcome. *loves* Similar boat. I have heard about his issues with past interests being huge jerks to him....and swore to not do that to him. (meant originally as friend, but after I realized what was probably coming (him liking me)....I was and still am super worried I'll be a d**k weasel.... I have told him (After trying to imply it heavily) that "It is more than likely, in the light of recent information, that I like you." Because for me to want to hug a person a whole bunch (in the current, specific, manner) like this, usually is a pretty darn good indications I like them. And he's not technically asked me out yet. That they are. Yaaaaaay! *loves back* Quite similar. *nod nod* And that's so sad! D; Why do nice people always get wronged in romantic endeavors? My best friend, one of her friends had his Fiance leave him because he was 'too nice' and 'too romantic'. Which I find to be a crazy notion. Anyway, I can't imagine you being a d**k weasel. Few people are that awful~ Well that's a good way to put it. And I know he hasn't asked you out particularly.. but I was trying to show a sort of comparison in the way that, from what you told me, he seems to really want to know how you feel, and I can relate to that kinda thing in my own way. If that makes sense. But you shouldn't have to rush to figure out your feelings. ^^ You seem to know yourself well though, which is good. There's such an analytic way which you seem to look at your own emotions that I feel I can really relate to Amu. :'3
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Posted: Mon Sep 16, 2013 2:50 pm
Sellesion Amu Tsukiyomi-sama Sellesion Amu Tsukiyomi-sama Sellesion Amu Tsukiyomi-sama yeah.... Well, all I can do is just deal with it as best I can... I'm pretty sure I'll still have my best friend no matter which way things go. I just don't know how that will change...because it WILL change. True true. And that's a definite plus side. Best friends are great like that. And Amu, if I could tell you how things will change, I would. I know change is unnerving and confusing and all. But try and take it with a grain of sugar, ya? :'3 Everything in life is so much sweeter that way- even changes can be wonderful! So I hope you don't worry over it too much. ^^ And if you do, just know that you aren't alone in similar situations. emotion_hug It's mostly the issue that he's not ugly....but he's not particularly handsome either... I did a "use a hug to see what happens" thing and the only thing that's happened from it....is I feel like hugging him a WHOLE BUNCH. Which is totally unusual for me....and a slight bit of those darned warm fuzzies. But he's not super attractive to me, which is the main problem... It's really shallow, I know...and I'm trying to not let it be the main deciding factor, as he's really the kind of guy I should date. So, yeah....But I'm pretty darn sure I DO like him....I'm just a bit wimpy and probably in denial. Either way.....I FEEL LIKE HUGGING HIM A WHOLE BUNCH. LIKE A LOT. LIKE THE KIND OF HUGS GIVEN WHEN SITTING NEXT TO A PERSON. Also, thank you. (the answer he's gotten out of me is the "I feels like hug you a whole bunch", to which he finds it to be not straightforward answer....which was kinda the point) To be completely honest with you Amu, That's exactly how I felt about my boyfriend when I was getting to know him, and now we've been together over 6 years. Even now, he knows I don't find him particularly handsome or anything, but he's just perfect for hugs, and we're best friends. I feel like something such as hugs should definitely feel right. If it isn't nice, and comfortable, and it doesn't make you feel all happy and warm and fuzzy inside, there's likely something off there. Unless of course you as a person just dislike hugs from anyone ever. It's ok to be in denial though. Cus if you do really like him in that way, there's a point where it'll hit you weather you want it to or not. And things then will hopefully make more sense. At least on your end. Ya know? Cus you'll be able to know better what it is you want out of the relationship you have with him. 3nodding If you want to be more than friends and stuff like that. I feel like with emotional stuff you should just take your time. I know he wants a definite answer now, but who wouldn't, ya know? ^^" When ed s ed asked me out, I took a week to decide. And I told him, I was like, "I do really really like you. But I don't want to go into this relationship if I can't see it working out. I don't want to hurt you." Because we were such good friends by then, that I really wanted to be sure; so I was less likely to break his heart. By then he already knew he loved me, so it was really hard for him to be patient. But at the same time, the result was what was best for us both ultimately. So I think that if your best friend really cares about you and wants to be with you romantically, he'll be willing to give you the time you need. In conclusion, Hugs, hugs are amazing. lol. ^^ And you're more than welcome. *loves* Similar boat. I have heard about his issues with past interests being huge jerks to him....and swore to not do that to him. (meant originally as friend, but after I realized what was probably coming (him liking me)....I was and still am super worried I'll be a d**k weasel.... I have told him (After trying to imply it heavily) that "It is more than likely, in the light of recent information, that I like you." Because for me to want to hug a person a whole bunch (in the current, specific, manner) like this, usually is a pretty darn good indications I like them. And he's not technically asked me out yet. That they are. Yaaaaaay! *loves back* Quite similar. *nod nod* And that's so sad! D; Why do nice people always get wronged in romantic endeavors? My best friend, one of her friends had his Fiance leave him because he was 'too nice' and 'too romantic'. Which I find to be a crazy notion. Anyway, I can't imagine you being a d**k weasel. Few people are that awful~ Well that's a good way to put it. And I know he hasn't asked you out particularly.. but I was trying to show a sort of comparison in the way that, from what you told me, he seems to really want to know how you feel, and I can relate to that kinda thing in my own way. If that makes sense. But you shouldn't have to rush to figure out your feelings. ^^ You seem to know yourself well though, which is good. There's such an analytic way which you seem to look at your own emotions that I feel I can really relate to Amu. :'3 Yup. Well, he has the slightest case of cerebral palsy and can come across as a bit odd to some people (mostly his laugh). That's horrible and silly. "Too nice" and "too romantic"? Wow... I'm glad you think that...but I can be very unkind in what I unknowingly project... I figured it was the best way, as I'm still a bit "but I might be lying to myself, so I'm gonna qualify it!" Oh, I know he is...I mean, I have this feeling the most he knows at the moment is that others showing romantic interest in me irks him. XD I also have been trying to work on my tendency to jump into things...which I believe I"ve gotten much better about that....I hope. And I really hope I know myself well...I'd be really worried if I didn't. Logic be my bestie. Helps me out a lot...but can also be totally unhelpful at times. :3
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Posted: Mon Sep 16, 2013 3:12 pm
Amu Tsukiyomi-sama Sellesion No I hadn't before. XD But now I have and will forever get teh reference I think. lol XD It's the main heroine in the video. I can see that! Lol Though, it makes me wish that gaia had a cuter sweater for it. With those little bell sleeves. :'D
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Posted: Mon Sep 16, 2013 3:37 pm
Amu Tsukiyomi-sama Yup. Well, he has the slightest case of cerebral palsy and can come across as a bit odd to some people (mostly his laugh). That's horrible and silly. "Too nice" and "too romantic"? Wow... I'm glad you think that...but I can be very unkind in what I unknowingly project... I figured it was the best way, as I'm still a bit "but I might be lying to myself, so I'm gonna qualify it!" Oh, I know he is...I mean, I have this feeling the most he knows at the moment is that others showing romantic interest in me irks him. XD I also have been trying to work on my tendency to jump into things...which I believe I"ve gotten much better about that....I hope. And I really hope I know myself well...I'd be really worried if I didn't. Logic be my bestie. Helps me out a lot...but can also be totally unhelpful at times. :3 Oh I see. Cerebral Palsy is a tough one- My brother has it so people judge him as well. I used to get friends asking me 'Whats wrong with your brother?" "Why does he walk like that?" and other similar questions. For a long time though, I never understood what they were talking about, because I didn't see him any differently than another person. Heck, I still hardly pay attention to his shaking and such which comes from his CP. It's sad that your friend has to deal with that too. D; Though, it's good that he's at least your friend too. emotion_kirakira Everyone needs someone I think. ^^ And I know right?! Horrible and silly indeed. Really? I think everyone has those moments though Amu.. ya know, unknowingly hurting people or giving them the wrong impression. Agreed. Cus you could be trying to convince yourself one way or the other- that you have those feelings for him or that you don't. Oh gosh. XD You have a tendency to do that? To be honest I wouldn't have guessed. You seem to thoroughly think things through. So you must be improving. ^^ Interestingly enough, some people don't really think about their own actions and stuff much. I'd be worried if I didn't either though, so I'm there with ya~ I know right. o^o Oh Logic. why you be so helpful, yet so... damning. XP
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Posted: Mon Sep 16, 2013 3:41 pm
Sellesion Amu Tsukiyomi-sama Sellesion No I hadn't before. XD But now I have and will forever get teh reference I think. lol XD It's the main heroine in the video. I can see that! Lol Though, it makes me wish that gaia had a cuter sweater for it. With those little bell sleeves. :'D My thoughts exactly. I wish they had a cheaper, better hair style too.
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Posted: Mon Sep 16, 2013 3:56 pm
Sellesion Amu Tsukiyomi-sama Yup. Well, he has the slightest case of cerebral palsy and can come across as a bit odd to some people (mostly his laugh). That's horrible and silly. "Too nice" and "too romantic"? Wow... I'm glad you think that...but I can be very unkind in what I unknowingly project... I figured it was the best way, as I'm still a bit "but I might be lying to myself, so I'm gonna qualify it!" Oh, I know he is...I mean, I have this feeling the most he knows at the moment is that others showing romantic interest in me irks him. XD I also have been trying to work on my tendency to jump into things...which I believe I"ve gotten much better about that....I hope. And I really hope I know myself well...I'd be really worried if I didn't. Logic be my bestie. Helps me out a lot...but can also be totally unhelpful at times. :3 Oh I see. Cerebral Palsy is a tough one- My brother has it so people judge him as well. I used to get friends asking me 'Whats wrong with your brother?" "Why does he walk like that?" and other similar questions. For a long time though, I never understood what they were talking about, because I didn't see him any differently than another person. Heck, I still hardly pay attention to his shaking and such which comes from his CP. It's sad that your friend has to deal with that too. D; Though, it's good that he's at least your friend too. emotion_kirakira Everyone needs someone I think. ^^ And I know right?! Horrible and silly indeed. Really? I think everyone has those moments though Amu.. ya know, unknowingly hurting people or giving them the wrong impression. Agreed. Cus you could be trying to convince yourself one way or the other- that you have those feelings for him or that you don't. Oh gosh. XD You have a tendency to do that? To be honest I wouldn't have guessed. You seem to thoroughly think things through. So you must be improving. ^^ Interestingly enough, some people don't really think about their own actions and stuff much. I'd be worried if I didn't either though, so I'm there with ya~ I know right. o^o Oh Logic. why you be so helpful, yet so... damning. XP Well, my best friend's case is so slight, you can't tell. He walks slightly odd, but he doesn't shake and the walking thing is super hard to notice. For the longest time, I thought he just dragged his feet a bit. Well, he's the nicest guy...and is often taken advantage of by girls he likes. He says he has a bit of a 'white knight' complex-thing. In my case, because I hang out with mostly guys, it is like that basically ALL the time...so it's not the greatest...I just be me and me is apparently a very natural flirt. Exactly. And I've done both of those things before. In this case...I'm trying to very carefully walk the line of "what is true" and "what is thought to be true". Yeah....he initially said "I apologize for further complicating your life, but I seem to be rather jealous" followed by "Seeing other people with romantic interest in you irks me". It was very ".....uuhhhhh.....what..." causing. If I find someone I like, I tend to instantly be all infatuated and starry eyed over them. I do that all the time and it's not good. It's like buying a piece of clothing that you loved at the store, but once you get it home, the feeling from being in the store and your love of the item dissipates. It's a lot like that... So I've been working on not just getting all starry-eyed. So far, it's worked pretty well. Mhm....I mean there are so many things that are logical to do...but not fun. Like dishes.
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Posted: Mon Sep 16, 2013 4:34 pm
Amu Tsukiyomi-sama Sellesion Amu Tsukiyomi-sama Sellesion No I hadn't before. XD But now I have and will forever get teh reference I think. lol XD It's the main heroine in the video. I can see that! Lol Though, it makes me wish that gaia had a cuter sweater for it. With those little bell sleeves. :'D My thoughts exactly. I wish they had a cheaper, better hair style too. That too. A hair that's more green would be better even. 3nodding
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Posted: Mon Sep 16, 2013 4:42 pm
Sellesion Amu Tsukiyomi-sama Sellesion Amu Tsukiyomi-sama Sellesion No I hadn't before. XD But now I have and will forever get teh reference I think. lol XD It's the main heroine in the video. I can see that! Lol Though, it makes me wish that gaia had a cuter sweater for it. With those little bell sleeves. :'D My thoughts exactly. I wish they had a cheaper, better hair style too. That too. A hair that's more green would be better even. 3nodding Mhm! It's be really awesome.... I just love the song and find the "Heroine" cute.
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Posted: Mon Sep 16, 2013 6:37 pm
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Posted: Mon Sep 16, 2013 6:51 pm
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Posted: Mon Sep 16, 2013 6:54 pm
Hello awesome avvie. *worships at the feet of said avvie*
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Posted: Mon Sep 16, 2013 7:12 pm
Amu Tsukiyomi-sama Hello awesome avvie. *worships at the feet of said avvie*
You’ll fall like a guillotine,
Kneel before the queen.
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Posted: Mon Sep 16, 2013 7:15 pm
Victoria Wolf Amu Tsukiyomi-sama Hello awesome avvie. *worships at the feet of said avvie*
You’ll fall like a guillotine,
Kneel before the queen.
I'm already kneeling in worship, so no worries there. ^_^
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Posted: Mon Sep 16, 2013 7:19 pm
Amu Tsukiyomi-sama Victoria Wolf Amu Tsukiyomi-sama Hello awesome avvie. *worships at the feet of said avvie*
You’ll fall like a guillotine,
Kneel before the queen.
I'm already kneeling in worship, so no worries there. ^_^ b-but, i really wanted to use my brand new guillotine.
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