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 Posted: Thu Nov 18, 2010 7:39 pm
Why the hell does everyone side with the stupid devil on my shoulder?! gonk
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Posted: Thu Nov 18, 2010 8:23 pm
Shiori Miko Why the hell does everyone side with the stupid devil on my shoulder?! gonk Because intelligent evil isn't inhibited by good intention. The darker side is usually the smarter one.
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Posted: Thu Nov 18, 2010 8:29 pm
Divine_Malevolence Shiori Miko Why the hell does everyone side with the stupid devil on my shoulder?! gonk Because intelligent evil isn't inhibited by good intention. The darker side is usually the smarter one. Good intention has nothing to do with it. The devil is my wants and the angel is my needs.
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Posted: Thu Nov 18, 2010 8:43 pm
Shiori Miko Divine_Malevolence Shiori Miko Why the hell does everyone side with the stupid devil on my shoulder?! gonk Because intelligent evil isn't inhibited by good intention. The darker side is usually the smarter one. Good intention has nothing to do with it. The devil is my wants and the angel is my needs. 0.o Then it could potentially be a good want.
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Posted: Thu Nov 18, 2010 9:18 pm
Shiori Miko Divine_Malevolence Shiori Miko Why the hell does everyone side with the stupid devil on my shoulder?! gonk Because intelligent evil isn't inhibited by good intention. The darker side is usually the smarter one. Good intention has nothing to do with it. The devil is my wants and the angel is my needs. Well, the way I see it, having wants fulfilled is a crucial factor in maintaining mental health; it keeps a person as happy and calm as possible. Mental health maintenance is a need, and an extremely important one at that. Therefore, all wants are also, in a way, needs, and given the sheer weight of the need they comprise, must be fulfilled prior to most other needs.
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Posted: Thu Nov 18, 2010 11:39 pm
I'm considering asking a guy in my biology class out. But I'm scared to do so. We're currently friends, and I'm worried that if I ask him and he doesn't feel the same way then... then... what would happen? Would things get awkward? Would it be ok anyways? I just don't know! gonk
Gosh I'm so glad I didn't have to go through high school.... 'cause I'm apparently a hopeless romantic that gets crushes easily, and then worries about them :/
The fact that I'm insanely shy about these things doesn't help matters any.
I think it's a confidence thing, I worry too much. Especially since I think he might like me as well, but is also shy. Just don't ask what I base that on...I can't explain my reasoning. Which is why I'm so uncertain of it, of course.
Any advise would be awesome, how do you go about asking a friend out? Especially if you happen to be shy like me?
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Posted: Fri Nov 19, 2010 9:04 am
Jikoniau
I'm considering asking a guy in my biology class out. But I'm scared to do so. We're currently friends, and I'm worried that if I ask him and he doesn't feel the same way then... then... what would happen? Would things get awkward? Would it be ok anyways? I just don't know! gonk
Gosh I'm so glad I didn't have to go through high school.... 'cause I'm apparently a hopeless romantic that gets crushes easily, and then worries about them :/
The fact that I'm insanely shy about these things doesn't help matters any.
I think it's a confidence thing, I worry too much. Especially since I think he might like me as well, but is also shy. Just don't ask what I base that on...I can't explain my reasoning. Which is why I'm so uncertain of it, of course.
Any advise would be awesome, how do you go about asking a friend out? Especially if you happen to be shy like me?
That's why I think being assertive is the best choice. Not as many second judgments, just a plain and simple "IS HE GONNA SAY YES OR NO!?". ninja
If he responds positively to the flirting and joins in the fun, I'd say that's when you ask. If not, well at least he knows you like him and that will be something nice to start off with. o3o
Bah, now I'm starting to miss my Zuzu. emo
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Posted: Fri Nov 19, 2010 9:59 am
Pirate Captain Sushi Jikoniau
I'm considering asking a guy in my biology class out. But I'm scared to do so. We're currently friends, and I'm worried that if I ask him and he doesn't feel the same way then... then... what would happen? Would things get awkward? Would it be ok anyways? I just don't know! gonk
Gosh I'm so glad I didn't have to go through high school.... 'cause I'm apparently a hopeless romantic that gets crushes easily, and then worries about them :/
The fact that I'm insanely shy about these things doesn't help matters any.
I think it's a confidence thing, I worry too much. Especially since I think he might like me as well, but is also shy. Just don't ask what I base that on...I can't explain my reasoning. Which is why I'm so uncertain of it, of course.
Any advise would be awesome, how do you go about asking a friend out? Especially if you happen to be shy like me?
That's why I think being assertive is the best choice. Not as many second judgments, just a plain and simple "IS HE GONNA SAY YES OR NO!?". ninja
If he responds positively to the flirting and joins in the fun, I'd say that's when you ask. If not, well at least he knows you like him and that will be something nice to start off with. o3o
Bah, now I'm starting to miss my Zuzu. emo
I think your solution sounds great! You give good advise. :3 But one problem, I have no idea how to flirt... you'd think I'd have learned from past crushes that that would be a good thing to learn, but I didn't. So how DO you go about flirting with a guy? (or not you, me, but you know what I mean...)
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Posted: Fri Nov 19, 2010 10:05 am
Guys...I keep shivering. It's not one of my freak attacks. I'm just...shivering, teeth chattering, completely uncontrollable, as if I were standing in the snow in shorts. It happened last night, too. I don't think I'm cold, although my skin is very cold to the touch, and I'm definitely not upset (I was last night when it happened but right now I'm not). I just put on a jacket...it lessened significantly, but hasn't stopped entirely. My day has been perfectly normal so far. What's wrong with me? gonk
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Posted: Fri Nov 19, 2010 11:42 am
LabTech Kestin Guys...I keep shivering. It's not one of my freak attacks. I'm just...shivering, teeth chattering, completely uncontrollable, as if I were standing in the snow in shorts. It happened last night, too. I don't think I'm cold, although my skin is very cold to the touch, and I'm definitely not upset (I was last night when it happened but right now I'm not). I just put on a jacket...it lessened significantly, but hasn't stopped entirely. My day has been perfectly normal so far. What's wrong with me? gonk Do you have any known addictions? That pretty much sounds like your jonzing for something. I go through with that if I haven't had any caffeine in a while. Well... it could be either that or low blood sugar. Jikoniau Pirate Captain Sushi Jikoniau
I'm considering asking a guy in my biology class out. But I'm scared to do so. We're currently friends, and I'm worried that if I ask him and he doesn't feel the same way then... then... what would happen? Would things get awkward? Would it be ok anyways? I just don't know! gonk
Gosh I'm so glad I didn't have to go through high school.... 'cause I'm apparently a hopeless romantic that gets crushes easily, and then worries about them :/
The fact that I'm insanely shy about these things doesn't help matters any.
I think it's a confidence thing, I worry too much. Especially since I think he might like me as well, but is also shy. Just don't ask what I base that on...I can't explain my reasoning. Which is why I'm so uncertain of it, of course.
Any advise would be awesome, how do you go about asking a friend out? Especially if you happen to be shy like me?
That's why I think being assertive is the best choice. Not as many second judgments, just a plain and simple "IS HE GONNA SAY YES OR NO!?". ninja
If he responds positively to the flirting and joins in the fun, I'd say that's when you ask. If not, well at least he knows you like him and that will be something nice to start off with. o3o
Bah, now I'm starting to miss my Zuzu. emo
I think your solution sounds great! You give good advise. :3 But one problem, I have no idea how to flirt... you'd think I'd have learned from past crushes that that would be a good thing to learn, but I didn't. So how DO you go about flirting with a guy? (or not you, me, but you know what I mean...)
Look it up on google?
I usually take the forthcoming approach... when I eventually muster up the courage to do so that is.
And if you're going to do it, do it quick because that person might get romantically involved with someone else while you're busy planning. Take the pounce while you can.
Just whatever you do, do NOT do a lot of bending down to show off various parts. I don't know about other men, but that comes off as rather desperate in my tastes. o3o;
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Posted: Fri Nov 19, 2010 12:10 pm
Pirate Captain Sushi LabTech Kestin Guys...I keep shivering. It's not one of my freak attacks. I'm just...shivering, teeth chattering, completely uncontrollable, as if I were standing in the snow in shorts. It happened last night, too. I don't think I'm cold, although my skin is very cold to the touch, and I'm definitely not upset (I was last night when it happened but right now I'm not). I just put on a jacket...it lessened significantly, but hasn't stopped entirely. My day has been perfectly normal so far. What's wrong with me? gonk Do you have any known addictions? That pretty much sounds like your jonzing for something. I go through with that if I haven't had any caffeine in a while. Well... it could be either that or low blood sugar. No physical addictions, no. And I'm not diabetic. Oddly, it stopped soon after I posted that, around the same time I went to class in a different building. And my skin isn't freezing anymore. I think maybe I was just cold and didn't realize it. xp
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Posted: Fri Nov 19, 2010 1:07 pm
LabTech Kestin Shiori Miko Divine_Malevolence Shiori Miko Why the hell does everyone side with the stupid devil on my shoulder?! gonk Because intelligent evil isn't inhibited by good intention. The darker side is usually the smarter one. Good intention has nothing to do with it. The devil is my wants and the angel is my needs. Well, the way I see it, having wants fulfilled is a crucial factor in maintaining mental health; it keeps a person as happy and calm as possible. Mental health maintenance is a need, and an extremely important one at that. Therefore, all wants are also, in a way, needs, and given the sheer weight of the need they comprise, must be fulfilled prior to most other needs. Very true, but I'm happy now. Going with my wants would be nice and may make me even happier but it wouldn't last forever then most likely I end up unhappy. That's why I'm trying to stay where I am. I may not be all "WEE I'M SO HAPPY!" but I'm content.
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Posted: Fri Nov 19, 2010 1:31 pm
Hey, I don't know if anybody remembers me from like a year ago when I used to post in zCB, but I feel like venting, and this is the only guild I have any fond memories of, so yeah. Basically, here are the things that have happened to me for the past however long it's been since I last abandoned Gaia:
-Graduated high school
-Moved out to college
-Became depressed
-Flunked out of college
-Moved back home
Things that didn't happen to me while I was gone:
-Get a girlfriend
-Commit suicide (though I got close to that one)
-Accomplish anything
This isn't necessarily a "secret", so I don't know if it's appropriate for this thread, but it feels appropriate to me. So yeah. I'm back. What's been going on with you guys?
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Posted: Fri Nov 19, 2010 2:24 pm
Pirate Captain Sushi DEEEEER.....UH.... WELL... I don't know much about that myself.
Look it up on google?
I usually take the forthcoming approach... when I eventually muster up the courage to do so that is.
And if you're going to do it, do it quick because that person might get romantically involved with someone else while you're busy planning. Take the pounce while you can.
Just whatever you do, do NOT do a lot of bending down to show off various parts. I don't know about other men, but that comes off as rather desperate in my tastes. o3o;
*sigh* google it is then! I have attempted to find some stuff there, but it's a difficult thing to sort out the bad advise vs. good advise.
Okie, will attempt at some point in the [hopefully] near future.
I think that doing that purposely would go against my personality anyways, and I agree I don't think that'd be a very good way to get someone to like you. XD
Thanks for all the advise Sushi, it helps to get some encouragement from someone <3
Now to just reason with myself to actually take the good advise...
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Posted: Fri Nov 19, 2010 2:24 pm
Fudge.. I forgot my best friends birth day. She is going to cut my head off. Idk if I should call now, though.
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