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 Posted: Mon Sep 21, 2009 11:42 pm
I just don't know. I must admit, I did recently get out of a complicated relationship, where I couldn't feel any reciprocation, so I guess I'm just afraid of the same thing happening, again.
Still I know I just need to get myself more confidence...
I also be one of them good forgotten guys.
Anyway, a lonely Sethe wanders the streets now.
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Posted: Mon Sep 21, 2009 11:43 pm
Don't feel bad. Confidence can be gain, just through time, experience, and understanding of oneself. Once you've become comfortable with who you are, then you have nothing to fear when confronted by anything else smile Well, except for maybe the obvious...like death.
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Posted: Mon Sep 21, 2009 11:46 pm
It's just upsetting cause I REALLY EFFING LIKE HER!!!! GRRAAAHHH!!!
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Posted: Mon Sep 21, 2009 11:52 pm
I've been there many time my friend. Believe it or not, I've had over 25 girlfriends. Unfortunately, I've only broken up with 6 of them. I always get left for the 'sexy bad boy' or i get cheated on. lol its sad, I know, but true nonetheless cry And Veroen is with Marcus again. xD
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Posted: Mon Sep 21, 2009 11:52 pm
I understand the fear of rejection. But wouldn't you rather live knowing how she feels rather than beating around the bush, watching her move on and wandering what would have happened otherwise?
Confidence is important, but I think it is best to just be who are are. If you like her so much, then it's best to just tell her. If she rejects you, it'll hurt, but at least you'll know...maybe I just see things differently because I'm a girl.... sweatdrop
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Posted: Mon Sep 21, 2009 11:59 pm
No. You are right, Miss A. I mean, I would rather know the truth than wait in the limbo of anticipation; letting it eat away at me body and soul. It's like waiting for that killer blow. Will it be quick and painless? Or will it be slow and agonizing? Or maybe it might be something totally different.
Anyways, I've been there and done that. *sigh* All I can suggest is if you don't feel ready, then don't. Ain't gonna push you, but if you really REALLY want to express yourself, then you might as well go for it because the waiting seems to be hurting you more than you know.
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Posted: Tue Sep 22, 2009 12:10 am
Yeah. If I can get to hang out with her. I don't want to tell her over the internet or phone, or text...
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Posted: Tue Sep 22, 2009 12:14 am
That's admirable. It's always better to try and tell people those things in person. I once tried to break up with a boy over aim...we were only "going out" for like 2 weeks before I realized it just wasn't going to work...and as I'm basically telling him we should just go back to being friends he wasn't taking the hints...it was bad.
Learn from my mistakes my children! heart
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Posted: Tue Sep 22, 2009 12:22 am
Illiud Yeah. If I can get to hang out with her. I don't want to tell her over the internet or phone, or text... Can you hang out with her alone and somewhere nice? I mean, if this is a long distance relationship we are talking about, you might have some issues to confront...
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Posted: Tue Sep 22, 2009 12:26 am
The distance is only a few miles, she's the next town over, but I'm jobless, and thus can't gas my car. She's in college, and works a lot, too, and I'm not sure she has a car herself... So...
you guys need to slow down the posting, I want to get in on the action.
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Posted: Tue Sep 22, 2009 12:27 am
Ah, that does make things difficult =/
As for posting, perhaps we should set up an order to go about posting? That way we simply wait for this person to the next for those who want some action? Er...I just posted last I believe.
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Posted: Tue Sep 22, 2009 12:35 am
lol no, I did. my apologies, I'm a fast typer.
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Posted: Tue Sep 22, 2009 12:37 am
lol, I hate to break up the posting you guys are doing with a broken up monster post of slight plot development...
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Posted: Tue Sep 22, 2009 12:37 am
well s**t! go ahead and keep your original post Marcus. I'll just go off of that/.
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Posted: Tue Sep 22, 2009 12:40 am
I just posted. My post is right after Maku's.
VM, add one to your number of sig lovers.
EDIT: I'm gonna go smoke real quick.
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