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PostPosted: Sat Apr 30, 2016 12:46 am


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PostPosted: Sat May 07, 2016 12:27 am


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@Exxos : Existential poetry ?


@ Guild : I have some extra Kin . Do you guys play LK ? Cuz im looking to give them away.

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PostPosted: Wed Dec 14, 2016 8:42 pm


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THE OMEGA ELF?!


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PostPosted: Tue Dec 20, 2016 12:32 am


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Am I the only one left?

Am I...

THE OMEGA ELF?!

Apparently I am. crying
PostPosted: Sat Feb 04, 2017 5:32 pm


Exxos
Exxos
Am I the only one left?

Am I...

THE OMEGA ELF?!

Apparently I am. crying

well.. I sure hope you were right about Trump and that he's a wake up call rather than the end of all good things. I'm having some trouble seeing the up side right now....

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PostPosted: Sun Feb 05, 2017 1:39 am


Camwen
Exxos
Exxos
Am I the only one left?

Am I...

THE OMEGA ELF?!

Apparently I am. crying

well.. I sure hope you were right about Trump and that he's a wake up call rather than the end of all good things. I'm having some trouble seeing the up side right now....

I have seen a decent uptick in people questioning why the government even has the powers they do to cause damage to lives on a whim, so it's a start. The AntiFa groups are a bit questionable though because I fear their unfocused violence is going to have more of a detrimental affect and result in militarized police action/suppression and discouraging the larger mass to stand up against what they need to.

But yeah, at the moment, I am seeing inklings of what I thought would maybe happen in six months unfolding in what has been just over two weeks. So I have some cautious optimism.

And you know I am largely incapable of optimism, so that is saying something.
PostPosted: Mon Feb 06, 2017 1:08 pm


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Camwen
Exxos
Exxos
Am I the only one left?

Am I...

THE OMEGA ELF?!

Apparently I am. crying

well.. I sure hope you were right about Trump and that he's a wake up call rather than the end of all good things. I'm having some trouble seeing the up side right now....

I have seen a decent uptick in people questioning why the government even has the powers they do to cause damage to lives on a whim, so it's a start. The AntiFa groups are a bit questionable though because I fear their unfocused violence is going to have more of a detrimental affect and result in militarized police action/suppression and discouraging the larger mass to stand up against what they need to.

But yeah, at the moment, I am seeing inklings of what I thought would maybe happen in six months unfolding in what has been just over two weeks. So I have some cautious optimism.

And you know I am largely incapable of optimism, so that is saying something.

I'm glad you're finding optimism because although I'm normally an optimistic person it's failing me now.

Sure there are a few things they are doing that are so outrageous a lot of normally quiet people are finally speaking out - becoming politically involved. I feel that this is a distraction. It's a way to identify who will actually fight and a way to gauge how far people can be pushed at this point. Trump is simply a distracting bludgeon while others keep their hands clean and wait for opportunities to slip through things that set the stage for later changes.

The riots and early judicial wins can serve to both make people who resist feel like they have enough power to change things while at the same time wearing them out for later fights. Most people have no stamina for this and only need a few "feel good" wins to go back to focus on their day to day family lives.

Forcing a constitutional crisis and setting the judicial branch up to be delegitimized paves the way to making it necessary to impose martial law "for our protection."

Maybe Trump will even be sacrificed eventually so others can again use him as a distraction - even better if he get's some people so riled up that the protesters become more desperate and more violent - providing an excuse for more firm measures against them.

The leaks coming out of the White House regarding executive orders that haven't been signed yet - such as the one giving businesses the right to refuse LGBT customers based on "religious freedom"... I really really hope they are actual leaks from people who oppose them. I'm scared the leaks are simply feelers testing if people can be pushed that far yet. Maybe they're being put on the back burner for now.

.....or who knows, maybe this will be a positive change. People will finally "wake up" and instead of focusing on what affects only them personally, will see the need to become more altruistic and see that the better society is as a whole helps them as individuals as well. Maybe?

Or maybe “War is peace. Freedom is slavery. Ignorance is strength."

Right now we seem to live in a world of fake news and alternate facts.

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PostPosted: Tue Feb 07, 2017 5:26 am


Camwen
I'm glad you're finding optimism because although I'm normally an optimistic person it's failing me now.

What can I say? I have gone through hell more times than I can count; I have weird optimism supplies for when things are at their worst.

Camwen
Sure there are a few things they are doing that are so outrageous a lot of normally quiet people are finally speaking out - becoming politically involved. I feel that this is a distraction. It's a way to identify who will actually fight and a way to gauge how far people can be pushed at this point. Trump is simply a distracting bludgeon while others keep their hands clean and wait for opportunities to slip through things that set the stage for later changes.

I agree. Though part of that speaking out involves themes that seem to be flying past the radar or the state as well, so I don't know if they can gauge things accurately. Much like how people were amazed that Trump won simply because they had spent months ignoring (and even traumatizing) people instead of listening to them, the agents at work seem to be ignoring some of what people are actually saying. That's where a lot of my optimism springs from, not the riots or the resistance, but the people talking about things outside the state's myopic vision.

Camwen
The riots and early judicial wins can serve to both make people who resist feel like they have enough power to change things while at the same time wearing them out for later fights. Most people have no stamina for this and only need a few "feel good" wins to go back to focus on their day to day family lives.

I fear that the judicial wins and the stomping of impotent politicians are more placation. That you're right in that it may placate the citizenry. But on the flip side, it is showing that, if the people just take the reins and keep pushing, the system can be bent to comply with human needs. So I guess on this front it is a question of if the people have more stamina than we give them credit for.

As the saying goes, "Anger is a hell of an anesthetic." If they are angry enough, they'll push through more pain than we imagine.

Camwen
Forcing a constitutional crisis and setting the judicial branch up to be delegitimized paves the way to making it necessary to impose martial law "for our protection."

This is something I figure would come regardless of who was in office, just sooner rather than later in Trump's case. Which arcs back to stamina. Better to fight martial law now than to have no energy when it pulls up twice as entrenched later. Though I feel the judicial branch might not be delegitimized if we go towards martial law. I think the coercion of the higher courts would be necessary in this day and age to properly bring martial law into effect in a country as large as the US – both physically and by population. You could lock down on the major cities, but the major cities are the most likely to not comply, so unless the higher courts bow to and legitimize the martial law, you'd be more likely to see... well... essentially miniature civil wars.

Camwen
Maybe Trump will even be sacrificed eventually so others can again use him as a distraction - even better if he get's some people so riled up that the protesters become more desperate and more violent - providing an excuse for more firm measures against them.

Yes, that has become a growing concern that I had not factored in originally. I did not think of the possibility that he'd be thrown under the bus and was more focused on the push bak against what he would foment.

Camwen
The leaks coming out of the White House regarding executive orders that haven't been signed yet - such as the one giving businesses the right to refuse LGBT customers based on "religious freedom"... I really really hope they are actual leaks from people who oppose them. I'm scared the leaks are simply feelers testing if people can be pushed that far yet. Maybe they're being put on the back burner for now.

Considering that the Obama, Bush, and Clinton administrations all "leaked" and rumored various EO elements to test the waters, it is likely. Part of why Obama was seen as such an EO spewing president was that they were so openly out there in the public eye. So I would say that yes, it's putting out feelers, but not just to test the populace's response, but the responses of other, more covert, agents at play. So they can see if it sends ripples through certain aspects of an economy sector or such.

Camwen
.....or who knows, maybe this will be a positive change. People will finally "wake up" and instead of focusing on what affects only them personally, will see the need to become more altruistic and see that the better society is as a whole helps them as individuals as well. Maybe?

That's what I am hoping. I have seen so many little things popping up. People slowing down and looking to see if there is anything they can do in the moment. People talking about how they can do something instead of relying on the government to maybe do something in their stead.

Camwen
Or maybe “War is peace. Freedom is slavery. Ignorance is strength."

Which has been the mantra since 2000, it's been building up so much that it is now obnoxiously obvious and we can't easily ignore it.

Camwen
Right now we seem to live in a world of fake news and alternate facts.

It's exhausting trying to divine out actual news today. I end up aggregating news from all across the world and seeing what is the most reputable common threads. I figure by June, I will have ruled out all American news outlets as worthless.
PostPosted: Tue Feb 07, 2017 10:05 am


Heh.. it was fun to come back and see the typical line by line Exxos response to each point. You actually made me smile so thanks for that. smile

So there are two points that I would add:

First, I'm not convinced that we can rely on the judicial branch to protect us indefinitely. It's possible that they will bow to Trump et al. - but what happens if they don't? What kind of real recourse do they have besides tradition and respect for the legal system. Who actually is in charge of enforcing laws? Oh s**t - That would be the executive branch!

So what happens when the court rules against Trump and he decides to ignore the ruling and do what he wants anyway? The court can hold him in contempt of course but what if that isn't enforced? Who do you think the military generals in Trump's cabinet will be more likely to support?

Secondly, it really is great to see so many fight back and become invested in the process. I truly hope it will make a difference. But there seem to be just as many people out there that are happy with what is happening - gleeful even. More people than I thought possible have embraced Trump wholeheartedly.

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PostPosted: Fri Feb 10, 2017 9:04 pm


Camwen
Heh.. it was fun to come back and see the typical line by line Exxos response to each point. You actually made me smile so thanks for that. smile


Happy to be of service. xd

Camwen
So there are two points that I would add:

First, I'm not convinced that we can rely on the judicial branch to protect us indefinitely. It's possible that they will bow to Trump et al. - but what happens if they don't? What kind of real recourse do they have besides tradition and respect for the legal system. Who actually is in charge of enforcing laws? Oh s**t - That would be the executive branch!

So what happens when the court rules against Trump and he decides to ignore the ruling and do what he wants anyway? The court can hold him in contempt of course but what if that isn't enforced? Who do you think the military generals in Trump's cabinet will be more likely to support?


I think they are most likely to support Trump or, even more so, themselves. Would that be a coup or a junta?

But in this vein, I have noticed something occurring the last two days as this muslim travel ban unfolds and as various other aspects of the Trump presidency hit the fan. It was asked, "What would the purpose of a Trump presidency be to serve the elites?" Most people were saying that it was to militarize this or destabilize that, but what if it is to legitimize a government that has lost the faith of the people and to delegitimize non-politicians from office? The government can safely oppose anything Trump does while making anyone outside their group seem like a bad idea in the future, thus growing their political capital. The type of people in politics are just the type to destroy a nation for a few brownie points, so it is not that unplausible.

We've had almost 50 years of the AG and courts basically making whatever the executive and legislative branches do legal, now they suddenly stand up to the president?

So with that as a preface;

what happens when the court rules against Trump and he decides to ignore the ruling and do what he wants anyway?

This will put the state in an awkward position because if they oppose him, it sets a precedent that checks and balances are in action again, and thus when a shitlord on their side does something, it will be harder to just let it slide. But if they do not oppose him, he'll let loose all sorts of problems.

The court can hold him in contempt of course but what if that isn't enforced?

This is likely what they would want, because then they could portray it as out of control. They get the illusion of checks and balances, while the onus is on the executive branch for the mess. Pence is on their side, so there would be a strong angle to burn Trump out and take him down to show the people how they can be tough on tyrants or something – it's flimsy as hell.

Camwen
Secondly, it really is great to see so many fight back and become invested in the process. I truly hope it will make a difference. But there seem to be just as many people out there that are happy with what is happening - gleeful even. More people than I thought possible have embraced Trump wholeheartedly.


I would say that the number that have embraced him entirely is small, the number that embraced little parts of him is huge, but the ones to worry about are a tiny group that are just very vocal and finally being heard. They've been ridiculed, shoved into the shadows, and left to radicalize for 16 years, now with Trump in office they are not only fired up themselves, the media is all too eager to give them a pulpit to terrify everyone and then in turn, you'll hear more people agree with them. It's not that they did not agree with them before, it's that they were not given the choice to agree and were just silent racist-bigots under your nose.

What I am more afraid of is the laziness. On tumblr, there is a theme of punching nazis as of late for instance. Everyone wants to punch nazis. But nobody wants to listen to people who are not nazis, they don't want to find definitions of nazis, and they definitely do not want to exert the effort to deprogram nazis. They're gung-ho about violence against them, but all it gets is a punched, resentful nazi. Congratulations, now the nazi has a chip on his shoulder and you've not actually put in the work to make nazism go away.

In turn, one thing I was hoping for in this vein is so far not turning up. Namely that people take Trump's bringing these people out of hiding as an opportunity to reach out to these people, find out their grievances, deprogram the nazism, and work towards a better existence that does not ostracize people to the point where they are hopeless and radicalized.
PostPosted: Sat Feb 11, 2017 7:50 pm


Oi, what a day. Ups and downs abound. Could not get in bed until 6AM, up at 7AM to be abused by my father until I was a near wreck. Ran errands, got a haircut, go to the supermarket. Figure I might as well ask if I got the job.

And the job does not exist. scream

Turns out that when the store cut their open hours from 24 to 19 per day, three positions including the one I applied for became moot and were supposed to be taken down – nobody did so because nobody was told so. So apparently only upper management knew and just assumed the postings were taken down, meanwhile the HR guy has been sweating bullets trying to find someone for a job that not only did not need to be filled, but actually was having another person moved to a different shift because they did not need as many with those five hours closed to customers. GM and HR were very apologetic and asked if they could keep me on file if something becomes available, I said yes and that I would not be limited to that job since I can also bake (and I can think of worse jobs than being cooped up with a couple eastern european girls baking bread all night). I imagine they'll keep me on file for a month than toss it, but I am sticking to the mindset that I made a good impression, so if I apply in the future for another job posting, I might be ahead of the pack at least.

Get home, find out that the gardner's wife made us enchiladas, but they were subsequently eaten by my father. Mom calls to thank her while choking down her ire and finds out that that plate had about 8 POUNDS of enchiladas on it and was supposed to last us days – my father scarfed them down, by his timing, in under 30 minutes between when she dropped them off and we got back. Then he went into a rage about how we ate too many (twice as much as he did by his reckoning despite his eating them all and our not being home) and started stamping his feet in a tantrum and ended up collapsing in a rage. So we ended up calling an ambulance and he spent a little less than an hour in the ER for what turned out to be that he fainted from blood pressure or overeating or sodium levels or someshit – i.e.; he's just a dramatic @#$% that achieved maximum over-@#$% and passed out. Get back to the house, start winding down, and mom starts making dinner. The oven decides to lock because the broiling element got too hot, torches the entire thing, my father lights up because of his dinner fetish about how my mother is hard on things and that turns into a rage-fest. I step in and ******** roar like the voice of god, diffuse that s**t, because I am not spending more time in the ER because he is a dramatic, abusive @#$%.

And just now, he started raging again over cheese. I stepped in and dressed him down. He tried to turn it into a fight and I just kept reiterating that he was not worth it and I don't care anymore. It was hard to say a lot of the things he has spouted at me over my life, but it seems to have knocked him down a peg.


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PostPosted: Sat Feb 11, 2017 10:59 pm


Exxos
Oi, what a day. Ups and downs abound. Could not get in bed until 6AM, up at 7AM to be abused by my father until I was a near wreck. Ran errands, got a haircut, go to the supermarket. Figure I might as well ask if I got the job.

And the job does not exist. scream

Turns out that when the store cut their open hours from 24 to 19 per day, three positions including the one I applied for became moot and were supposed to be taken down – nobody did so because nobody was told so. So apparently only upper management knew and just assumed the postings were taken down, meanwhile the HR guy has been sweating bullets trying to find someone for a job that not only did not need to be filled, but actually was having another person moved to a different shift because they did not need as many with those five hours closed to customers. GM and HR were very apologetic and asked if they could keep me on file if something becomes available, I said yes and that I would not be limited to that job since I can also bake (and I can think of worse jobs than being cooped up with a couple eastern european girls baking bread all night). I imagine they'll keep me on file for a month than toss it, but I am sticking to the mindset that I made a good impression, so if I apply in the future for another job posting, I might be ahead of the pack at least.

Get home, find out that the gardner's wife made us enchiladas, but they were subsequently eaten by my father. Mom calls to thank her while choking down her ire and finds out that that plate had about 8 POUNDS of enchiladas on it and was supposed to last us days – my father scarfed them down, by his timing, in under 30 minutes between when she dropped them off and we got back. Then he went into a rage about how we ate too many (twice as much as he did by his reckoning despite his eating them all and our not being home) and started stamping his feet in a tantrum and ended up collapsing in a rage. So we ended up calling an ambulance and he spent a little less than an hour in the ER for what turned out to be that he fainted from blood pressure or overeating or sodium levels or someshit – i.e.; he's just a dramatic @#$% that achieved maximum over-@#$% and passed out. Get back to the house, start winding down, and mom starts making dinner. The oven decides to lock because the broiling element got too hot, torches the entire thing, my father lights up because of his dinner fetish about how my mother is hard on things and that turns into a rage-fest. I step in and ******** roar like the voice of god, diffuse that s**t, because I am not spending more time in the ER because he is a dramatic, abusive @#$%.

And just now, he started raging again over cheese. I stepped in and dressed him down. He tried to turn it into a fight and I just kept reiterating that he was not worth it and I don't care anymore. It was hard to say a lot of the things he has spouted at me over my life, but it seems to have knocked him down a peg.

Damn!! Good for you. I'm impressed 3nodding also (((((hugs))))
Seems like your life is still shitting on you on a regular basis but you're starting to give some hell back too.

I need to reply to the previous post but can't deal with the politics tonight. Going to bed and read a good book for a bit. Stay strong! heart
PostPosted: Sun Feb 12, 2017 2:33 am


Camwen
Seems like your life is still shitting on you on a regular basis but you're starting to give some hell back too.

Yeah, it does, but I can fight back a bit. I do have the good news too, I just keep forgetting to mention it. I have got back on course with writing and can now see the end of the backlog (maybe be done as early as April), I have got my exercise way up and am probably the healthiest I have been, down to 224.6 pounds on my scale and 228 pounds on the doctor's scale on Thursday so I have lost 40 pounds and am within sight of my first goal weight of 210, and my ferritin is at 49.6 - halfway to low normal but still 500% improvement and only 0.4 away from being out of anemia classification.

And the moderate news... After these four years of exercise and diet improvement, one of my goals was to fit into pieces of my old wardrobe. Well, I tried on a few shirts yesterday and they almost fit (like get to 215 and they'll be right) but they're all really short. I finally can almost get back into them and find out the style back in 1997 was about 10cm shorter hemmed. rofl So yeah, I am regaining a couple pairs of pants instead of an entire wardrobe.

Camwen
I need to reply to the previous post but can't deal with the politics tonight. Going to bed and read a good book for a bit. Stay strong! heart

Yeah, me too. I am thinking if Lilygwen and Kujujuwa give me the reins on the AGA, my first thing will be to make a political chatterbox. That way we can have a sort of safe zone to put the toxicity whilst not putting forth any sort of censorship like angles. The way the world is going in general, not just in the US, since late 2015 has me thinking we need containment.

I am going to get on writing now. At least one page, hopefully five, then shower and sleep.


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PostPosted: Sun Feb 12, 2017 9:43 am


Wow! I'm so happy that things are so much improved for you. Having read your awesome postings for years now I understand how significant this is.

Exxos

Yeah, me too. I am thinking if Lilygwen and Kujujuwa give me the reins on the AGA, my first thing will be to make a political chatterbox. That way we can have a sort of safe zone to put the toxicity whilst not putting forth any sort of censorship like angles. The way the world is going in general, not just in the US, since late 2015 has me thinking we need containment.



Oh totally! Yes to you needing to take the throne around here - and yes to there being a political safe area. To be honest the only reason I've been so blatant about political talk in general chat recently is because we're pretty much the only ones here right now. But I completely agree that it wouldn't be appropriate if it was busier.

So to address the earlier post about reaching out to those who are radicalized..

In my opinion, the best way - and perhaps the only true way that people can relate to each other is to actually interact with them on a daily basis in person. People need to have neighbors, friends, coworkers, and inlaws that are different than them. Folks don't change ingrained beliefs because things are explained to them on the internet. They need to see actual examples in their personal lives.

I really worry that this has become harder to do. It's the "bubble" that people love to talk about. It's so easy to simply find other folks exactly like you on the internet. I worry that segregation of communities is still becoming worse.
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