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Auriga La Shock
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 Posted: Wed Mar 06, 2013 9:39 pm
sabrinix Auriga La Shock sabrinix Auriga La Shock sabrinix it's something that i've never had to deal with, and really don't know how to react to it, or how to deal with it..... that my boyfriend got accused of sexual harassment. That's life Where and who was he accused of harassing? i don't think my default action of 'i don't know what to do, so i won't do anything' quite works. one girl (who lives on the same floor) who he was going to date over the summer, until things went sour, and anoymous complaints about things that he's said that have made them uncomfortable. he thinks it's because he was applying to be a graduate head resident(which oversees the RA's ) i really hate drama...... thought it'd end in college but noooo. i just know less about what's going on.... so basically his options are: the responsible option which is to own up to it, and move to a different dorm room and avoid her. or he could have a formal hearing quasi court thing and try and prove his innocence which he doesn't want to do because a. he did some stupid stuff freshman sophmore year which he doesn't want brought up and the concequences for being guilty there is a whole lot worse than the responsible option (expulsion). also he's a senior and going to graduate soon anyways. funny thing is, i remember her talking at the last hall meeting about decreasing the drama and trying to get along better. and then she goes and does this....Well it can be tough in a dorm room situation That's pretty annoying. Like I said, he has to be he one to make the decision and all you can do is support him in it. Try not to stress too much over it
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Posted: Wed Mar 06, 2013 11:16 pm
RainsEclipse Remember when I said I was gonna draw your avi? I got it done awhile back... And just now took a picture of it. -le fail- Clickie hurr~I don't have a scanner at the current moment, so I sorry for the weird lighting. xD -le 'splodes- Aww! Thankies! That's adorabible. :3
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Posted: Thu Mar 07, 2013 12:16 am
Amu Tsukiyomi-sama xx..Badwolf..xx XD Pretty much, haha. The younger kids are the best behaved, though, and they're so keen and unselfconscious about learning n3n Little cuties. I had to help couple of the little 'uns out on the playground where they'd had a run in with a bee and a little spider who had joined them uninvited for lunch. xD Waaah, I know that feeling. ;w; Though it more the getting-back-into-searching-for-jobs stuff for me. D'awwwww! Little kids sure are like that....they haven't been as poisoned by society as the older ones have... .....eeeek. Me no likey spiders and bees....I can handle spiders better than bees, because spiders don't buzz....but there are some spiders that are just waaaay too freaky-looking... *once ran into a non-colorful spider in my garage that was literally the size of my hand; it had to be squished by a paint can* Oh, I have to do that too....I just keep forgetting to...^_^;;.....stupid college forcing the business where I worked to close.... Indeed... ;w; I pity the ones that are going off to high school next year... Me neither, but I felt like I had to be the big brave adult of the situation X'D I actually touched the spider asjdhjdhgkf But at least it was only tiny and also really docile. And oh GOD emotion_0A0 That's HUGE. I'm lucky enough to have never encountered one that big sweatdrop Mmmm ;w; I think my main issue is that I have some huge inferiority complex with this kind of thing. Like looking at the job ads, they're all on about like necessary qualifications and like wanting outgoing and independent people and like emo 99% of the time I'm just like "oh god no one will want meeeee ;n;"
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Posted: Thu Mar 07, 2013 7:32 am
Amu Tsukiyomi-sama Anon Kinky Minky *Goes to watch an episode until you return* I wonder if I should kill you using hard vacuum.... ...ummm........what is "killing using hard vacuum"? Hard Vacuum= Outer space. The human body does this lovely thing when introduced to hard vacuum.
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Auriga La Shock
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Posted: Thu Mar 07, 2013 9:55 am
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Posted: Thu Mar 07, 2013 10:40 am
Auriga La Shock sabrinix Auriga La Shock sabrinix Auriga La Shock sabrinix it's something that i've never had to deal with, and really don't know how to react to it, or how to deal with it..... that my boyfriend got accused of sexual harassment. That's life Where and who was he accused of harassing? i don't think my default action of 'i don't know what to do, so i won't do anything' quite works. one girl (who lives on the same floor) who he was going to date over the summer, until things went sour, and anoymous complaints about things that he's said that have made them uncomfortable. he thinks it's because he was applying to be a graduate head resident(which oversees the RA's ) i really hate drama...... thought it'd end in college but noooo. i just know less about what's going on.... so basically his options are: the responsible option which is to own up to it, and move to a different dorm room and avoid her. or he could have a formal hearing quasi court thing and try and prove his innocence which he doesn't want to do because a. he did some stupid stuff freshman sophmore year which he doesn't want brought up and the concequences for being guilty there is a whole lot worse than the responsible option (expulsion). also he's a senior and going to graduate soon anyways. funny thing is, i remember her talking at the last hall meeting about decreasing the drama and trying to get along better. and then she goes and does this....Well it can be tough in a dorm room situation That's pretty annoying. Like I said, he has to be he one to make the decision and all you can do is support him in it. Try not to stress too much over it may as well make the best of it.. thanks. that's what i was going to do anyways. just needed someone to talk to about it.
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Posted: Thu Mar 07, 2013 10:52 am
xx..Badwolf..xx Amu Tsukiyomi-sama xx..Badwolf..xx XD Pretty much, haha. The younger kids are the best behaved, though, and they're so keen and unselfconscious about learning n3n Little cuties. I had to help couple of the little 'uns out on the playground where they'd had a run in with a bee and a little spider who had joined them uninvited for lunch. xD Waaah, I know that feeling. ;w; Though it more the getting-back-into-searching-for-jobs stuff for me. D'awwwww! Little kids sure are like that....they haven't been as poisoned by society as the older ones have... .....eeeek. Me no likey spiders and bees....I can handle spiders better than bees, because spiders don't buzz....but there are some spiders that are just waaaay too freaky-looking... *once ran into a non-colorful spider in my garage that was literally the size of my hand; it had to be squished by a paint can* Oh, I have to do that too....I just keep forgetting to...^_^;;.....stupid college forcing the business where I worked to close.... Indeed... ;w; I pity the ones that are going off to high school next year... Me neither, but I felt like I had to be the big brave adult of the situation X'D I actually touched the spider asjdhjdhgkf But at least it was only tiny and also really docile. And oh GOD emotion_0A0 That's HUGE. I'm lucky enough to have never encountered one that big sweatdrop Mmmm ;w; I think my main issue is that I have some huge inferiority complex with this kind of thing. Like looking at the job ads, they're all on about like necessary qualifications and like wanting outgoing and independent people and like emo 99% of the time I'm just like "oh god no one will want meeeee ;n;" XDDDD And see, little spiders are more okay. *nodnod* Oh, I gave a single scream like I was being murdered when I was that spider...and ran the hell back into the house....I mean, just hell no. *shudder* Oh, I completely get that....why do you think I'm always saying stuff about myself that's not really nice....I figure that because of all my screw-y-ness and insanity and aspergers and ADHD and etc, that no one will really want me....not for any real significant amount of time, that is. I figure I'm too much work in their estimation. Which, I kinda am....but it's really nice when someone is willing to deal with my insanity....even if I have a hard time accepting and handling that because of said above reason....^_^;; *I'm a strange person, I know*
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Posted: Thu Mar 07, 2013 10:54 am
Anon Kinky Minky Amu Tsukiyomi-sama Anon Kinky Minky *Goes to watch an episode until you return* I wonder if I should kill you using hard vacuum.... ...ummm........what is "killing using hard vacuum"? Hard Vacuum= Outer space. The human body does this lovely thing when introduced to hard vacuum. Ah, I've only ever heard people refer to it as the "vacuum of space", not "hard vacuum"....and yeah, it's like a peep put inside a vacuum.... *hopes Yuui didn't get hard vacuumed*
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Posted: Thu Mar 07, 2013 11:41 am
Sorry folks, I'm stuck in bed feeling like crap. I'll try to post more in a few days..*crawls back into bed to die*
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Posted: Thu Mar 07, 2013 12:07 pm
MageQueenHoshi Sorry folks, I'm stuck in bed feeling like crap. I'll try to post more in a few days..*crawls back into bed to die* *huggles* I hope you feel better really soon!
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Posted: Thu Mar 07, 2013 12:11 pm
Amu Tsukiyomi-sama *huggles* I hope you feel better really soon! Thank you, Amu. emotion_kirakira
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Posted: Thu Mar 07, 2013 12:21 pm
Amu Tsukiyomi-sama Anon Kinky Minky Amu Tsukiyomi-sama Anon Kinky Minky *Goes to watch an episode until you return* I wonder if I should kill you using hard vacuum.... ...ummm........what is "killing using hard vacuum"? Hard Vacuum= Outer space. The human body does this lovely thing when introduced to hard vacuum. Ah, I've only ever heard people refer to it as the "vacuum of space", not "hard vacuum"....and yeah, it's like a peep put inside a vacuum.... *hopes Yuui didn't get hard vacuumed*
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Auriga La Shock
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Posted: Thu Mar 07, 2013 12:33 pm
sabrinix Auriga La Shock Well it can be tough in a dorm room situation That's pretty annoying. Like I said, he has to be he one to make the decision and all you can do is support him in it. Try not to stress too much over it may as well make the best of it.. thanks. that's what i was going to do anyways. just needed someone to talk to about it. Yeah That's what we are here for ^^
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Posted: Thu Mar 07, 2013 12:38 pm
MageQueenHoshi Amu Tsukiyomi-sama *huggles* I hope you feel better really soon! Thank you, Amu. emotion_kirakira ^_^ You're welcome. I want all of my friends to feel well all the time! >w SO I SEND YOU LOTS OF "FEEL BETTER KARMA-VIBES"! emotion_yatta
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Posted: Thu Mar 07, 2013 12:40 pm
Anon Kinky Minky Amu Tsukiyomi-sama Anon Kinky Minky Amu Tsukiyomi-sama Anon Kinky Minky *Goes to watch an episode until you return* I wonder if I should kill you using hard vacuum.... ...ummm........what is "killing using hard vacuum"? Hard Vacuum= Outer space. The human body does this lovely thing when introduced to hard vacuum. Ah, I've only ever heard people refer to it as the "vacuum of space", not "hard vacuum"....and yeah, it's like a peep put inside a vacuum.... *hopes Yuui didn't get hard vacuumed* ......I think I'll not read that.....so I avoid any lovely mental images that might cause to happen... I'm crazy enough as it is today; I forgot to take my meds.[
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