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 Posted: Tue Jan 16, 2007 1:51 pm
^ responded, also o:
^^ shouldn't say cutting is a stupid problem... it's serious... even if you are in a bad mood, you shouldn't have said that -.-;;
<> just finished <>'s homework :3
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Posted: Tue Jan 16, 2007 8:05 pm
^ doesnt seem to realise that <> is in a bad mood because <> has to keep some of his friends grom going emo and cutting.
<> is sorry he didnt inform ^, but its a very stupid problem in <>'s opinion.
If people are stupid enough to do it than let them deal with the consequences.
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Posted: Wed Jan 17, 2007 12:44 am
^ shouldn't say that things are stupid just because ^ doesn't understand them.
It's like agree with all the homophobes out there. They're afraid of homosexuals and think it's wrong and stupid because they don't understand. Please refrain from posting such comments. Having opinions is encouraged but only when in a serious discussion and when one can back those opnions.
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Posted: Wed Jan 17, 2007 5:01 am
^ ain't cutting wrong then? I think it is. Those people who are cutting themselves need help. It's sad if they feel "better" while they are hurting themselves. People should be able to feel good without so extreme action.
ö_ö If dudes there can't imagine any other ways of making their sadness and frustration and all that go away, they need help. (I'm repeating myself...)
Well... I understand that people shouldn't say it's stupid... it's just sad, like all depressions and illnesses.
<> is thinking that discussion here has turned to be really serious.
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Posted: Wed Jan 17, 2007 5:33 am
^ hadn't posted in a while and gets a hug from <> n_n
<> hugs ^ *hugs*
I don't think cutting isn't wrong ^^ I was just saying that saying cutting is stupid is like homophobes saying being gay is wrong, just because you don'T understand. I don't cut myself (well, at least not on purpose ^^;; I'm just really clumsy and accident prone ^^;; ) and I don't understand why some are driven to do so, but I do understand that everyone has a way of dealing with pain and stress. That way is not the best and all, but that doesn't mean it's a stupid problem ^^
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Posted: Wed Jan 17, 2007 5:53 am
^ hugged <>. :3
<> *hugs back*
I understand. :]
...I got a letter from our local library... I should return one book I haven't returned yet... x') And I should finish it too because I was meant to do my school task using that book. Maybe I'll go and get some more time for me to read it tomorrow.
I'm just hoping that they won't ask too much money for my delay. ':B
*is feeling confused because her head hurts and she thinks that this message has loads of typing mistakes in it*
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Posted: Wed Jan 17, 2007 10:38 am
^ mentioned misspelling that <> didn't notice. XD
About the cutting issue... the fact many people say it's stupid and don't take it seriously just makes the whole thing worse. I started cutting because I was seriously depressed and needed a way to ease my pain (well, cutting created more pain because later I was really ashamed of myself and I made my closest friends back then worried). I had just fallen for one of those friends and felt it was really wrong. The fact that was the time I felt affection towards someone who wasn't the opposite gender didn't help either. Plus my family situation was pretty bad then. I also felt guilt for my little brother's death and felt that it should've been me who died, not him.
Saying cutting is stupid and ignoring the problem, labeling people as emo... that's really bad. I've felt that. I got to hear that I just wanted attention with my cutting. It felt... well, it hurt so goddamn much. But it's easier for bastards who don't understand and who don't even want to understand. For those who don't care.
Cutting isn't a good thing. It really isn't. I can roll up my left sleeve, press my fingers on the white scars and say those words anytime. But back then I had no other escape. Cutting and writing kept me from committing suicide.
So... when it comes to the point where cutting and suicide are the only options... I feel glad for every person who chooses cutting. Cutting is something that you can stop if you get help (in my case there was a lot to work since it had developed into an addiction... but I was finally able to stop anyway.) but there're no magical words to bring the dead back to life.
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Posted: Thu Jan 18, 2007 4:18 am
^ has sprouted wings and gets hugged by <>
<> can't wait for the weekend. So tired =_=
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Posted: Thu Jan 18, 2007 8:43 am
^ gave ^^ virtual hug. And I think I want to give one too.
<> *hugs Vio-kun*
I'm happy that you were able to stop cutting and are feeling better now. It's so damn sad when people get depressed. I want to make them all feel better. crying
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Posted: Thu Jan 18, 2007 9:33 am
^ hugged <>.
<> hugs ^ and ^^ back. whee
<> is tired and hyper. o3o
As a side note, I always almost type zz instead of <>. XD
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Posted: Thu Jan 18, 2007 11:24 am
^ has typing issues
^^^ jumps to conclusions of <> not understanding WAY to quickly.
<> used to cut, but <> has a strong will and is smarter than that. cutting is stupid.
and oh, using something popular like a hatred of phobes to rally for an opinion is a cheap tactical maneuver even when affective smile
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Posted: Thu Jan 18, 2007 2:40 pm
^ should have explained everything the first time because it was all rather confusing and was warrant of people jumping to conclusion.
<> is pissed off at her dad cause he called <> again in the middle of the night.
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Posted: Thu Jan 18, 2007 7:13 pm
^ should unplug ^'s phone o:
<> is eating jello ^.^
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Posted: Fri Jan 19, 2007 12:00 am
^ has 6 hugs stuck in limbo lol
<> should do that, but thought her father would be smart enough to remember what happened the last time he woke up <> by calling in the middle of the night (i.e. I gave him [CENSURED])
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Posted: Fri Jan 19, 2007 6:30 am
^ doesn't have a cellphone?
<> danced today for two hours, because we have to practice for our celebration...thing... called "Vanhojentanssit" ("Old's dance" xD ...it's almost like that prom-thingie in USA... but still... It's really different from that. xD).
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