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 Posted: Mon Dec 20, 2010 4:57 pm
Yeah that is sooo true! Kids will always be unhappy at that moment but it doesn't always last to long. And guess what happened with us? We had the doctors call children services on us like shortly after the baby was born. Maybe a few weeks later? forgot exact day but anyways I don't know if you know this but when babies are born they will usually lose weight. If they are breast fed like my mom's babies are then they tend to lose more weight then bottle fed ones because in the beginning a mother doesn't produce as much but overtime they will produce more. Our doctor we were using is like totally against "at home births" and is against breast fed babies so because our baby lost like a pound he called children services saying our baby was "failing to survive" so yeah we had this girl come over do a whooole inspection on our house, talked to everyone, had to come twice because out dad wasn't home the first time and she has to talk to everyone. But she eventually closed the case and laughed cause she said she had no reason for coming to our house at all. The doctor also made us get him weighed twice a week which sucked cause we were busy a lot (srry its long XD)
for real? wooow uhhhh thats not too good, does she live with the family? or on her own?
Yeah probably, but your right. Well I'll have my mom, not so sure about my bros XD but anyways thanks ^-^ hopefully I'll just deal with it on my own and find ways to help cheer myself up
I know how that can be, a lot of ppl seem to change, it sucks a lot when they get worse =/
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Posted: Tue Dec 21, 2010 6:57 am
Yeesh. Doctors have the right to make judgments, but not like that... I mean... seriously? My friend grabbed his daughter by the arm and dragged her out to the car and made her sit down in her seat and watched her while her mother and brother were in Wal-Mart shopping. A woman who was passing by the car watching him said she was going to call DCS for making the child come out to sit in the CAR. She wasn't alone, he was standing there with her keeping his eye on her. The door wasn't closed, so there was no threat of being overheated. She was just being stupid... And it's okay about the length. x3 I don't mind reading.
Yes, she mooches off of her mom. I can't believe her mom lets her live with her. I mean, she's forged checks in her mom's name and almost completely robbed her before...
No no, talk to your mom. I highly HIGHLY suggest you do that, at least, even if you don't want to talk to me. I know sometimes some people think it's better to just shoulder the burden themselves. But when you have people who love and care for you, sometimes it's really nice just to talk to people, and if nothing else, go and lean against her, sit with her, just hug her, cry into her. People like moms are there to comfort their children when times are tough. Your mom sounds like a very caring woman, so don't be afraid to go to her. When you burden yourself with all of your problems, yes, sometimes it helps you grow up and grow stronger, but the trials you have to undergo at other times don't make it worth it. It just ends up with you building up a lot of stress, and the next thing you know you're losing your mind and your emotions over problems you can't control. Sometimes it is better to just let it all go... but of course that's my opinion. What works for me may not work for you, it's just friendly advice is all.
Yeah, it really does. But there's nothing I can really do for her. I know she's going to be pretty miserable though if she doesn't grow up.
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Posted: Tue Dec 21, 2010 7:58 am
Daaang! That women had to right to threaten him or anything. I see nothin wrong with what that guy did, what is the DCS though? I think some ppl need to just mind their own business sometimes, she was bein stupid getting into something that she should of never done. My mom probably would of flipped on her XD There was this one time that my mom worked at this deli, its like in walking distance from our house in a flea market. Its open every weekend so she would help out and usually like an hour or 2 before shes done for the night I would come and stay on the bench or sometimes help out or walk around the flea market. Usually she would have me pick her up something to eat or something to drink and sometimes the boss payed me to sweep or weigh some of the meats. Anyways it was pretty late like 9pm so it was dark out and me, my sister, and my little 4 year old bro were gonna walk over to meet her. We decided to stay on the main sidewalk instead of taking the backroads like we usually do, 1 because we have a little kid and 2 because its a lot safer lolz and the main sidewalk always has cars passing so we pretty much safer, and well my little bro was playing around with me, and he like ran a bit but not too far ahead, and I went and caught him and all I did was rub his head and then this 1 car ont he other side of the road stopped in the middle of the road and starting yelling at us. Shes like "That better be your kid and not your brother because I saw you hit him!! I'm going to be contacting your mother about that if thats your brother" I kind of just looked the other way and ignored her and kept goin but my sister stood there and talked -.- I told her to just leave her, then her little kid yelled out some bad word at us and the mother said she was comin back for us. Its like we didn't even do anything wrong, we kinda got scared though XD so I carried my brother and we just ran to the place. Although I guess we should of just flipped her off or told her she could go ahead and talk to our mom right down the road
woow that is mean to do and not right =/ I don't get why your mom would still let her live with her after that
Yeah I know what you mean and thanks for the advice! I do go to her for some things and it does help a lot. I guess depending on what the situation is, I deal with it different ways. Usually talking to my mom or dealing with it on my own, sometimes I do talk about it with friends when I'm really upset. A mom is definitly usually better to get comfort from! Idk seems weird to go to your father unless he is that type for my opinion, I don't even like crying whenever my dad is around. Same goes for my brothers
Well maybe she will grow up and change her ways and hopefully take time to think about things.
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Posted: Wed Dec 22, 2010 12:26 pm
Yeah. DCS = Department of Children's Services. So the people who would call you a bad parent and take your child away. And wow... That's just plain stupid on the woman's part...
Not my mom, her mom. My mom is not her mom. Her mom is my dad's eldest sister. So yeah. lol
You know, that depends on the dad. It's not a bad thing. Like I said, there are a lot of girls who are daddy's girls and they talk with their dad about regular things. Girl problems obviously should be stuck with moms. But some dads can be comforting too. I hope my daughter will always realize I'll be there to talk about anything that isn't related to girl only problems. x3
Maybe, but she's not my problem anymore. She's just a random girl that I don't really plan on talking to again. I don't hold grudges, but at the same time I'm not just going to talk to someone knowing they're going to treat me like crap, ya know?
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Posted: Thu Dec 23, 2010 8:37 am
Oh alrighty. Yeah we were at that place yesterday. I know it is but oh well, atleast its over with, it happened over summer anyways so it was awhile ago
Wow that was confusing first time I read that but I do get it. Sorry about that sweatdrop
I know it does depend on the dad cause there are some great dads out there who are very nice to have around when problems occur. lolz XD yeah thats more of to talk with the mom but thats good you will always be there for your daughter 3nodding see! I think your gonna be a great daddy one day
Yeah thats true, good to just leave it at that.
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Posted: Thu Dec 23, 2010 9:54 am
Oh I see I see. ^^ Yeah, well it's all in the past, hopefully. :3
xD I could see how it could be confusing. With so many moms thrown out there. x3
Yush! I'm glad you think I could be a good dad. ^^ But yeah, I'll talk about anything. If she wants to talk to me about her issues, I'll listen, but I'll have to direct her to her mom for some things. xD
Yup yup ^^
Looking forward to Christmas this weekend? Hard to believe it's just a couple days away now.
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Posted: Thu Dec 23, 2010 6:12 pm
Yes it is! There will always be ppl like that though
yeah I got what you meant though XD just took me a few times reading it to get it exactly
^-^ I do! Don't worry I know what you mean, some things are best to be talked with the mom lolz but yeah atleast she will have you to be there for her and to help her growing up. She will definitly be very lucky to have you
Yes I am! It seems like it just came up soo quickly, I'm surprised tomorrow is already Christmas Eve, are you looking forward?
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Posted: Thu Dec 23, 2010 9:58 pm
This is very true! And it's rough every time you have to encounter them. lol
Good good, glad you got what I meant. :3 No way, that girl is banned from this house. xD So yeah, my mom doesn't even let her in here.
Yup yup. But this is, of course, if I ever have a daughter. I could end up very much alone in life still.
Heck yeah I am! I love Christmas. The family, the gifts, the good times! It's so much fun. A lot of families seem to just pass out the gifts and everyone just opens theirs immediately. In our family we distribute our gifts to each other, then we open them all one person at a time. So like I might open all my gifts while everyone watches, then my mom does while we all watch, then my dad, my grandma, my grandpa, etc. (if there's anyone else there with us).
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Posted: Fri Dec 24, 2010 5:20 pm
I definitly agree with that -.- lolz
I don'ty blame you XD I would ban her from our house too!
hey hey hey dooon't say that!! You never know what will happen, just keep positive 3nodding
awww well that is a nice way to do Christmas! Its a really good idea, we actually have never done that before sweatdrop yeeah I guess we just more like a lot of other families
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Posted: Mon Dec 27, 2010 9:29 pm
Haha! You just have to hope and pray that you don't constantly run into those people. :3
lol Well that's good! Seems we both mutually agree about this particular person. x3
xD Yeah well, although I keep telling one girl that I really would love to be with her, I highly doubt I'm going to end up with her. She and another guy are trying to get together, after all~
I like it more because it means more quality time with the family and we get to appreciate each other's gifts! :3 I love spending time with my family and watching as they open up gifts each of their gifts! It's a lot more fun than the hectic every person opens up their gifts whenever kind of ordeal. At least to me it is.
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Posted: Tue Dec 28, 2010 3:01 pm
true! but yeeeah lots of crazy ppl out there
lolz XD yeah thats true
awww well don't give up, not to hope for it but theres a chance that it might not even work out with her and that other guy
I do see your point, it does let you appreciate it more! We just like with the gifts my parents got us, we opened them 2 at a time and at the end we opened the gifts other ppl got us. Like I got a few of my siblings gifts and I wanted to see them open them up so thats why we save those for the end. btw how did your Christmas go?
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Posted: Tue Dec 28, 2010 10:41 pm
Unfortunately. Of course I'm definitely a crazy person myself.
Yup yup. Of course one of my friends is banned from the house too. Not sure why. I think it's because my mom just plain doesn't like him.
I know. She and I have already discussed this and that if things don't work out between her and the other guy she would be more than happy to date me. But I feel like that's a bad thing. Now I feel like I'm the fall-back guy. Like... I'm nothing more than the Plan B. I'm not going to be as loved, and she'll always wish she had the other guy instead of me.
It went terrificly! I couldn't have asked for a nicer Christmas, honestly. ^^ Snow on the ground, all of us just relaxing and having fun. :3 It was great x3
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Posted: Wed Dec 29, 2010 2:47 pm
Yeah but thats different, your not like crazy weird like them, doin creepy things. Well that I know of atleast XD
really? awww that sucks!
I can see why you think that, but I guess you could atleast try it, if it doesn't work out with the 1st guy that is. It doesn't hurt to give it a shot and if you still feel that way while dating her then maybe you both aren't meant to be
I'm glad to hear that ^-^ and you sooo lucky to get snow! We didn't even get any till AFTER Christmas and we wanted it ONLY on Christmas lolz
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Posted: Thu Dec 30, 2010 7:57 pm
I am sure I could find a few weird things about me. lol
Nah, it's okay. It doesn't bother me.
Hahaha, we'll have to see. :3 She's a nice girl otherwise. And technically one of my best friends. lol
lol Yeah, I understand. After Christmas is over snow becomes inconvenient.
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Posted: Sat Jan 01, 2011 4:49 pm
lolz yeah, anyways HAPPY NEW YEARS!!! Feels like 2010 just went by soo quickly
well thats good then, I just don't like having friends over XD So I don't invite them over much
Thats great lolz hopefully she will always be your best friend too 3nodding
I agree, its not needed. Shoveling can definitly be a pain too although the money is nice lolz
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