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 Posted: Sun Nov 28, 2010 8:12 pm
Not that anyone cares, but I'm not only back, but I have several items (and a year) richer. ^.^
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Posted: Tue Nov 30, 2010 8:05 am
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Posted: Wed Dec 01, 2010 5:56 pm
∥Ｓ ubby-san writes ▼ ▼ ▼ ______________________________________  ⇨I was busy with school. Glad that you are back, though...richer or not! ^^ ______________________________________
"I belong to no one. We'll keep it that way." ∥
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Posted: Wed Dec 01, 2010 6:01 pm
@Jane: Mm, thank you; richer in birthday presents, mostly. Finals week, right?
Here's a strange question for you, Jane; mostly to keep the conversation from completely dying away in the Hangout (and your posting style intrigues me), but are you a submissive? I mean, for real?
@Nana: Love the smiley face. ^.^
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Posted: Wed Dec 01, 2010 6:40 pm
∥Ｓ ubby-san writes ▼ ▼ ▼ ______________________________________ ⇨Finals are coming up, indeed. As for the question, yes I am.
Mistress makes the cutest faces, doesn't she? ______________________________________
"I belong to no one. We'll keep it that way." ∥
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Posted: Thu Dec 02, 2010 7:33 am
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Posted: Thu Dec 02, 2010 1:28 pm
∥Ｓ ubby-san writes ▼ ▼ ▼ ______________________________________ ⇨What do you mean by "public"? ______________________________________
"I belong to no one. We'll keep it that way." ∥
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Posted: Thu Dec 02, 2010 1:39 pm
Are you just a submissive just in the sheets, or other places as well? Eh, like do you wait on your friends/domis? Things like that.
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Posted: Thu Dec 02, 2010 2:10 pm
∥Ｓ ubby-san writes ▼ ▼ ▼ ______________________________________ ⇨Well, if I had a Dom, I think that I would be willing to serve in both areas of our lives. However, I don't have One and I am in a learning phase more or less at this point in my life, anyway. I am passive so sometimes I do things for people that are "out of the way" but that is different. ______________________________________
"I belong to no one. We'll keep it that way." ∥
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Posted: Thu Dec 02, 2010 2:17 pm
You'd be surprised at what you'd be willing to do for your domi. How come you don't have one?
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Posted: Thu Dec 02, 2010 2:30 pm
∥Ｓ ubby-san writes ▼ ▼ ▼ ______________________________________ ⇨I don't want One right now. Like I said, I am in a learning phase: I'm reading a lot and trying figure out as much as I can before making such a committment. Besides, it would take time to formulate an actual relationship before adding in the D/s part of it. However, there is no rush.
Edit: I don't think that I would be surprised. ______________________________________
"I belong to no one. We'll keep it that way." ∥
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Posted: Thu Dec 02, 2010 2:58 pm
A dom/sub relationship doesn't require having a personal attachment in order to function like a well oiled machine. Mine didn't, at first; it came much later. Do you have any potential candidates for your domi? Or do you like gut instinct best?
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Posted: Thu Dec 02, 2010 3:15 pm
∥Ｓ ubby-san writes ▼ ▼ ▼ ______________________________________ ⇨I can't see myself starting out with the D/s first. I need that trust foundation solid as a rock. As for if I have any persons in mind, I do but since I am looking for a relationship before the power exchange, things are moving pretty slowly. I didn't know that you were in a D/s relationship. How was it and how did it develop for you? ______________________________________
"I belong to no one. We'll keep it that way." ∥
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Posted: Thu Dec 02, 2010 6:47 pm
I find that trust only needs to come into play when you're in the bedroom; my domi wasn't like that at all. I trusted him, of course (later on) but it didn't start there. And anyway, our relationship was never about the sex, but the power exchange.
I found that the whole experience (stopped now, because of my husband) was...gratifying. I needed it at that point in my life, and it exactly fulfilled that void in me: no more, no less.
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Posted: Fri Dec 03, 2010 8:10 am
∥Ｓ ubby-san writes ▼ ▼ ▼ ______________________________________ ⇨I need that trust for both in and out of the bedroom since the power exchange would be that way for me, anyway. I'm glad that it left a feeling of fulfillment for you. Where did it start if not from your degree of trust in him? I don't mean to say it like "I trust this person so I want him to be my Dom". I know that there will be other factors to take into consideration such as compatibility and whatnot. It is just that I have already made up my mind that how much I know that I can trust him will be the deciding vote. Or did I misinterpret the line "I trusted him, of course (later on) but it didn't start there". I was just wondering where it did start. ______________________________________
"I belong to no one. We'll keep it that way." ∥
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