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 Posted: Mon Dec 13, 2010 8:49 pm
Maybe more than weird looks. Someone might get really mad. lol
Oh well indeed.~
Getting away with things? xD You ever been swatted with a wooden paddle before? I didn't get away with THAT much. LOL I think I get away with more now than I did back then.
I keep telling kids to slow down, but noooooooooo~
Yeah, it is. Hopefully it lasts.
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Posted: Tue Dec 14, 2010 4:46 am
lolz yeeeah your probably right
uhhh nvm then XD but then hey I guess your parents definitly did their job and taught you a lesson! Whatever works lolz
Yeah good luck with that! Don't think it will really happen
Hope so too!!
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Posted: Tue Dec 14, 2010 7:21 am
Probably. Just think of it from their point of view. If you were a mother pushing around your daughter or walking with her in your hand and you suddenly saw a group of guys point to your daughter and then joke about something like that with their friend, wouldn't you be mad?
Yup! Sometimes you need to be a little physical for things to work. :3 I'm not saying punch the ever living daylights out of your child, but a good swat to keep 'em in line sometimes is what it takes~ Not all children will learn from having a stern talking to or being grounded.
Probably not. But it's going to be an issue for them when they're trying to make it in the real world. Because it's a harsh reality when you step out on your own!
If not, then I'm stuck again. xD
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Posted: Tue Dec 14, 2010 11:48 am
Yeah I guess your right, I would probably walk away and think there creepers XD
Yeah your definitly right! It does keep kids well disciplined but its like now-a-days you can get your kids tooken away. Like my mom use to do that when we were bad but now shes kinda afraid too cause this one women we knew had her kids taken when she hit them for bein bad
It really is! Its like they don't realize how hard it is till they experience it too
XD well I wish the best of luck for you 2 ^-^
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Posted: Tue Dec 14, 2010 8:38 pm
xD Exactly. You know it and I know it that I'm not really like that. But the mom may not be so understanding. LOL
That's because people are getting way too over protective these days and need to mind their own business when it comes to raising a child. If you're flat out beating your child to death, that's one thing. But a good pop is good for them sometimes. That's the generation before mine too. Most of my generation is pretty okay with giving the child a little spanking if they need it.
Yeah, this is definitely true. The real world is not easy... Not at all... lol
Yeah... It's over. She broke up with me today. She didn't want to do the long distance thing.
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Posted: Wed Dec 15, 2010 2:07 pm
Yeeeah I guess maybe I should of looked at it that way lolz I see what ya mean now
They are! But then again you have to be more protective over your kids then back then. Also depending on where your living too. But yeah a spanking definitly does help control them a lot and I disagree with some of the daycares around here how at some of them, your not even allowed to say the word 'no' to them when they do something wrong. I don't get that at all =/ How they suppose to teach them from whats wrong and whats right?
Yeah so its good to definitly make sure your are ready when you move out lolz
for real? awwww I'm really srry =/ I know how the distant thing can affect relationships sometimes but still, eventually you both could of met
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Posted: Wed Dec 15, 2010 3:38 pm
But if you do it in private, like if we're driving down the road together, then that's fine. I'm never offended by those kinds of jokes~
Wait wait wait... You can't say "no" to your kids at some daycares? That's just weird. Well yeah, but there's a line that most parents cross. I'm sorry, I grew up with video games and violence, there's absolutely nothing wrong with me. My dad and mom both raised me well and taught me well. And who are you (you being some person that's not you) to judge how I raise my children? If they're not bruised and battered and all beat up, what is the real issue? Kids will do much worse things to themselves than I ever will.
It is a good thing to make sure of, but most kids, myself included, don't. xD
Yeah, it's fine. I wasn't that attached anyway.
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Posted: Wed Dec 15, 2010 8:05 pm
Yeah sort of reminds me of my mom, shes always saying jokes about me all the time XD sometimes she will even say things out loud just to embarrass us lolz but oh well, I don't mind
Yeah its true, its something that they started doin pretty recently. I agree with you though, I don't think its right for anyone to tell you how to raise your kids. Its for the parents and as long as its doin the job and the kid isn't bein abused then there should be nothin to worry about. I don't get why they are doin that cause now its making kids a lot worse, they are not bein disciplined right. I hope that when I work in a daycare though that I will be able to atleast say no XD thats gonna be like really hard for me
lolz true true! atleast you are successful bein on your own though, there are some that really struggle when they do that. Like my older sister for example who wanted out soo badly and she went through $2000 in 2 weeks and now shes like broke, that money my mom made her save so that she can have a place to stay but now idk who knows where she is
Well I guess she wasn't the one for you, hopefully someone else will come your way again
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Posted: Thu Dec 16, 2010 7:15 am
I don't mind people trying to embarrass me in public. xD I mind it if it means a mother might assault me or try to have me arrested though. LOL
I know what they're trying to do, get nothing but positive reinforcement. "Instead of doing this, try doing this instead? See? Better!" But they're treating "No" as if it were a taboo word. I really hate parents who let their kids be in daycare and then not like the discipline that the daycare offers. Or stuff like that. Yeah, not being raised right at all...
Whoa! TWO WEEKS?! I make that much money in a month! Sometimes a little more... But still! That's ridiculous! >.<
Yup, that's how I see it. :3 I'll keep looking for another girl going down the road.
Oh but speaking of which, I was trying to offer a girl some helpful advice about the way she treats guys. She was whining and getting upset at her boyfriend for watching tv and not sending her a message in 3 1/2 hours! THREE AND A HALF HOURS! I told her that being THAT clingy is a good way to drive men away. And she got pissed at me for offering that advice. Bleh.
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Posted: Thu Dec 16, 2010 7:54 am
haha yeah then you got some trouble if that happens!
Yeah exactly and I don't think its working at all. I know parents want the best for their kids but still, they can't just let their kid go crazy and do whatever. I asked my mom what they do instead of saying no in daycares and when there doin something bad thent hey take the kid and put them somewhere else and try to get them interested into something else but thats not teaching them that what they did was wrong.
yeah I ain't kidding either! Shes a big spender, it is ridiculous. Plus she makes less then you, actrually I think right now she is unemployed so idk how shes living right now cause she also smokes so idk how shes affording to buy ciggarettes unless someone else is paying for everything for now.
Thats good! 3nodding
3 1/2 hours?!?!?! daang! She is definitly waaay to clingy, but she shouldn't be getting mad at you for giving her advice. You gave her good advice and tried to help her out =/
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Posted: Thu Dec 16, 2010 12:44 pm
Yup! Big trouble! Even if there's a girl with me there, like you, it'd still be hard to explain, ya know? lol
Yes, this is entirely true. You can teach a child what's right all day long, but that doesn't tell them what's wrong. You have to teach both right AND wrong for it to be effective.
Wow.... That sucks... I'm sorry for you. I'm sure you care about your sister, but wow...
Yeah totally! There's another better girl out there for me. x3
Yeah, I was... She was very bitter towards me because I broke up with her friend and hurt her. And it's like, really? She's going to hold a grudge on me because I hurt her friend over a past relationship that didn't work out. She was yelling at me that she's like that, he understands her, and she him, and that I need to mind my own business and blah blah blah.
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Posted: Thu Dec 16, 2010 2:38 pm
Yeah I think its a lot better to just not get into those situations! lolz
But I wish others thought the same way, your right and all and I definitly agree with you buut theres a lot of ppl against that
Nah its fine, yeah shes my sister but shes done so much that it doesn't bother me at all what she does. Recently she made a cop come to our house cause she was too afraid too, the cop said it was a waste of time but since she probably made him he did it anyways
Thats the way to think! My friend just had a problem with this girl and he took it really hard so yesterday I was trying my best to cheer him up
Its not like you hurt her though, I know how it might bother her but still she shouldn't treat you badly like that. Maybe its best to let her think what she wants instead of trying to give her good advice
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Posted: Fri Dec 17, 2010 7:02 am
Like I said, if we're alone, or if you do it quietly enough, it doesn't matter. xD
I know there are, but it's more or less the stupid generation that's before me. They're all peace loving, but they love it too much. Most of my friends and my generation know that saying "No" is perfectly fine to kids. So I don't care what they say, if I want to tell my child "No", I'm going to. lol
Well that's just plain odd. We have someone in our family that we're not too proud of ourselves.
Haha. Yush! And yeah, a broken heart can be tough for either gender.
Oh I'm not friends with her anymore. She wants to be a b*tch (excuse my language), then I don't need her around me at all. She can learn lessons the hard way.
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Posted: Sat Dec 18, 2010 10:45 am
Yes XD
Yeah I don't think I could raise a kid without saying 'no' so I know I'll be using that for my kids! Plus people shouldn't be telling other people how to raise their kids
It is, aww sorry. I think many families will have atleast 1 person they are not always proud of, not all families but maybe most.
True true! Wonder how I will take my 1st broken heart XD
Thats good, she don't seem like a very good friend. Don't worry for cursing lolz I'm use to it. She does seem to act like one
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Posted: Mon Dec 20, 2010 6:52 am
Hehe. ^^
Yeah, me neither. I've gotta be able to say "no". The problem comes when parents start threatening to call child services on you. Then it's like, "Really? Just because you don't like how my child's being raised you're threatening to take her/him away from me?" It just bothers me that people are really willing to do that much when they don't know anything about me or my family. Or if my child is truly unhappy or if she / he is just unhappy for that one moment because I told her / him "No". >.<
Nah, it's all right. She's my cousin anyway. In her 40s and doesn't even know how to use a can opener. She's a real winner. >.<
I dunno. If you're like most girls it's going to hurt... really really badly. But your mom and brothers will be there for you. And even though I can't really do anything, I'm here for you too if and when it ever happens.
She's not. She used to be a good friend, but she's changed. She's changed a whole lot.
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