*huggles Lamb* I kind of know the feeling.. from loosing so many family members over the past few years.. my grandmother passed away 2years ago.. the day after Turkey Day..
I guess it's just all in how you handle it though. I try to just enjoy spending time with the family as well. For Thanksgiving we'll all be gathering at my mom's as usual. And I'll be mashing up massive amounts of potatoes as usual lol, I've never been the Turkey (or ham) cooker.
For Christmas, we are considering a trip to WI to visit my sister and the rest of my mom and dad's family.. so that should be interesting if it happens..
eek rofl gonk heart stressed xd scream