thistle7
Exxos... if your life is to be shortened, doesn't it make sense that we make more of an effort to be closer, so your friends can actually BE there to give you the love and support they all have for you, albeit mostly virtual still these days?
It feels weird to be called Exxos again, got used to Brandon even though I loath my name, heh. True. I probably should just give up on this farce of trying to get a life together and focus on what I have in my friends. I need the love and support more than trying to keep up the face.
thistle7
What can I do to help? Ummm, besides any killing of any family members and/or sending you a ginormous box of cash?
Nah, if you had a ginormous box of cash, I would tell you to put it in a ginormous college fund for the man-cub. But all I dare ask is that my friends stay my friends. I'm actually simple in that regard.
thistle7
How long are you going to be in the hospital? Need visitors? Need fluffy little hand crocheted buddies?
Thankfully, it should be outpatient. Go in early and should be released by late afternoon. If complications arise, I would probably just be in overnight at the most. It is a laparoscopic procedure. Reinforcing, exploring, and taking a few biopsies, so it should only keep me down for a day – though my mother will probably want me working on things straight from the hospital.
gonk JoeEuphonium
Indeed Shar is right. I do a more optimistic view point and think of you as incredibly resilient despite your circumstances and life and I have faith that the tests will come back saying that Brandon has many years in him still.
Shar is always right. Except when she's wrong, but we'll sooner warp the world to make her right than admit that she was wrong.
And yes, I am resilient. The joke is that death oft aims for me, but cannot manage the windage and takes out those around me.
razz You don't live through what I have without an exceedingly sturdy lifethread. So I will probably surprise everybody. Though my biggest problem is pain and depression, just because I am tonka tough enough to live through it, does not mean the accumulated distress is something I can live with. My body can live through anything, it is the mind and soul that have given up.
Camwen
Hey what happened to all the girls in the girls vs guys game? The guys are completely overrunning the place!
wahmbulance We had to put you in your place.
-Walking on Glass-
Hello guys and gals... a familiar face here.. just with a new name... The crazed Lamb is back!
So with that said.. Have a great day!
Just been dealing with alot of RL stuff.. Lawyers, Family, and all that other stuff still from Gpa's death in December. As well as slowly getting my life in line. Its heck I can tell you that... but it is all almost over whew.
Oi! Lawyers + family + death = a mountain of woe. Nothing like vultures picking over the carcass to rip open the old wounds and throw the lemon juice of familial angers in there. Stay strong, I might kid and razz you now and then, but I have faith that you can not only get through all of this but come out relatively on top or in the general vicinity of it.
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