BariTengineer
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- Posted: Sat, 30 Jun 2007 00:56:10 +0000
Okay so you want to have a better relationship. The best way that you want to do this is to lead by example but do it gradualy to gain long lasting effect. So when you get into a fight just make sure to calm yourself down and let her talk. You're confused by what you really need to do and you need to get your prioriteis straight before you can move forward. You have more power in the situation than you think and you have to use it to help all involved. To have a better relationship you need to know who you are first so you can see everything with a clearer head. You need to remember that you are differant from her and you need to accept those differances. You need to remember to also listen to you intuition. It is what you need to listen to and always take your gut feeling into consideration. You are injecting reason but it isn't always effective. She may just be trying to do something that will show something she can do and you need to let her do that. You're affraid of loosing the friendship but you need to give eachother some room. Let nature take it's course. All in all everything will work out for the best and it's really up to you.
Oh and if you want to add that to examples that'd be awesome.
EDIT: Possibly. You aren't the first person to have that happen to them when I'm reading them.
Oh and if you want to add that to examples that'd be awesome.
EDIT: Possibly. You aren't the first person to have that happen to them when I'm reading them.