Delethisplz
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- Posted: Wed, 02 Jan 2013 23:30:21 +0000
Jezabel_Clearwater
Janna565
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My best friend as Asperger's Syndrome. It's a very mild form, but he has it.
Sometimes its hard to express feelings for him, and he is very "relationship stupid". The thing is, their brains just don't put the same things together that ours do. I suggest using your internet connection to look up and research all you can about the syndrome, and also be clear and concise when you talk to him.
It took me almost three years to be able to talk to my best friend without a lot of miscommunication, and occasionally I'll say something that hurts his feelings, without even realizing it!
sad
He is just like any other person in that he has needs, and wants companionship, it's just that someone with this particular syndrome has troubles communicating.
It is however, highly worth it to have an "intimate" relationship if you really and truly like the guy.
I can't imagine myself being best friends with anyone else. smile
It'll be tough, but it is definitely worth it.
Sometimes its hard to express feelings for him, and he is very "relationship stupid". The thing is, their brains just don't put the same things together that ours do. I suggest using your internet connection to look up and research all you can about the syndrome, and also be clear and concise when you talk to him.
It took me almost three years to be able to talk to my best friend without a lot of miscommunication, and occasionally I'll say something that hurts his feelings, without even realizing it!
sad
He is just like any other person in that he has needs, and wants companionship, it's just that someone with this particular syndrome has troubles communicating.
It is however, highly worth it to have an "intimate" relationship if you really and truly like the guy.
I can't imagine myself being best friends with anyone else. smile
It'll be tough, but it is definitely worth it.
Thanks so much this made me feel better! Yes I have already researched a lot I think he thinks too much we are the complete opposites actually but I don't want to give up whee
Hey sometimes opposites tend to get along better than people who are the same. Opposites attract smile
Haha he said that to me too a several times when we were teenagers