CSI MADE ME LOSE MY GIRLFRIEND!!!

[Technomaru]

hello everyone,

I was wondering if this is right,

ok, one day I was at school in Job Corps and I had 2 quarters left, so I saved them so I can talk to my then girlfriend, anyway I called her and she tells me that CSI was on at the time and it seems that she would rather watch CSI than talk to me, she seemed to be very ungrateful and inconsiderate that I used the last 2 quarters I used on a payphone to talk to her. It also tells me that her TV viewing is more important to me and she says everyone does that and that's normal. so we broke up after one big emotional fight. she should've skipped CSI for one night because that night was the night I leave Job Corps.

because of this I totally despise CSI and I got to know if it was right for her to do that to me because my family says no but my ex and her family says yes. Please respond

Update: I saw my ex at Wonder-con and she straight forward embarassed me by yelling and bringing up the fight. this kinda tells me something. Also she is Bi-polar and violent.

[Zakamaga]

Sounds like you got out when the getting was good. Good riddance, I say.

[Minstrelsy]

Thats so stupid.

If my GF called me with her last two quaters, I would definately sit there and talk to her.

Or I would have been an a**, and called her back collect.

Just ignore that stupid b***h, she doesn't deserve a guy as nice as you. Find a better girl who's worth your last two quaters -^^-

[I sorrwy]

... i like csi... dont blame csi... blame the tramp that was watching csi.....>.> a**

[Mikado ~King of the Light]

Really its her to balme for this, as you just showed she ment alot to you by using your last quaters and all to call her and she decides to watch TV instead of talking to you. I watch CSI at times and sure its a good show but there is something called rerunns if she isnt fammilure to the words? I mean if my boyfriend called me 4am just to talk I would be psyked heart

[dimesdimesdimes]

It was wrong of her to do that. If a tv show is more important to her than you, then she obviously doesn't value you much. She could've taped it for crying out loud.

[purfectlyflawed]

You are retarded. Thats no reason to break up with a girl. You should have told her that u didnt appreciate it and if it happened again then perhaps then it would have been appropriate to break up becos.

[GrunnyLover]

You didn't lose your GF due to CSI. You lost her because you expected her to drop everything she was doing right away and pay attention to you just because you'd called her.

Life doesn't work like that, honey. I'm married, and I'll still tell my hubby to shut the ******** up if I'm trying to listen to something else while he's trying to talk to me. And he's hung up on me because he was doing something else when I called. Because we do not live at each other's beck and call like slaves. We have lives.

The proper response in a situation like this is, "Oh, I'm sorry I interrupted your show. When would be a good time to call back, or would you like to call me back when you're done?"

[purfectlyflawed]

GrunnyLover

You didn't lose your GF due to CSI. You lost her because you expected her to drop everything she was doing right away and pay attention to you just because you'd called her.

Life doesn't work like that, honey. I'm married, and I'll still tell my hubby to shut the ******** up if I'm trying to listen to something else while he's trying to talk to me. And he's hung up on me because he was doing something else when I called. Because we do not live at each other's beck and call like slaves. We have lives.

The proper response in a situation like this is, "Oh, I'm sorry I interrupted your show. When would be a good time to call back, or would you like to call me back when you're done?"

Yup i couldnt agree more.

[For You Alone]

Well to me the way I hear it sounds like this only happened once. Maybe she would have talked to you after the show. Couldn't it have waited a little? confused

[rya_chick]

yer EX is a fukkin b***h..well u no what that was WAY wronge and no girl should act like that even if she is bipolar.i love CSI also but i dont tell my bf well i dont like to talk im watching csi..well maby once kuz it was a season finally but he was in my house when i told him no talkin and we were watchin csi together so u no>>(im only 12 nottin happened u perverts who think nasty stuff)

[MightySnuffles]

To me it sounds like you feel guilty, because you're now on the gaia forums seeking validation for your actions. On the phone, I'm guessing you were the one that started all of the arguing. She had a life outside you, but you didn't seem to like that. Anyway, yes, you were in the wrong. Her life doesn't have to revolve around you. Just because she wants to watch a tv show that you don't like instead of talking to you in one instance doesn't mean she chooses it over you. It means she likes the show. I think you over reacted, and you owe her an apology.

Next embarrassing you at a con. Really, its what exes do. They normally don't get along and try to make the other as miserable as possible for hurting them. Because you broke up for a really bad reason, I can understand her being a little upset.

[Jen_wow]

GrunnyLover

You didn't lose your GF due to CSI. You lost her because you expected her to drop everything she was doing right away and pay attention to you just because you'd called her.

Life doesn't work like that, honey. I'm married, and I'll still tell my hubby to shut the ******** up if I'm trying to listen to something else while he's trying to talk to me. And he's hung up on me because he was doing something else when I called. Because we do not live at each other's beck and call like slaves. We have lives.

The proper response in a situation like this is, "Oh, I'm sorry I interrupted your show. When would be a good time to call back, or would you like to call me back when you're done?"

true i mean ok you used the last of your money but shes not gonna drown everything because u called,shes right its normal i do it to my bf when theres something good.

[Bronze_Fox]

rya_chick

yer EX is a fukkin b***h..well u no what that was WAY wronge and no girl should act like that even if she is bipolar.i love CSI also but i dont tell my bf well i dont like to talk im watching csi..well maby once kuz it was a season finally but he was in my house when i told him no talkin and we were watchin csi together so u no>>(im only 12 nottin happened u perverts who think nasty stuff)

You're dating at the age of twelve...? eek

I think breaking up with her was rather extreme. I understand why you were mad but couldn't you have asked her to phone you later?

[`G L A M . R O C K]

Maybe Breaking Up was a Rash Decision
If you feel guilty about it

NeoPirate

I was wondering if this is right,

I understand your Point Of View...
But Maybe let your Anger Simmer...

Then Call her up again.
Or rather find a way to communicate with each other.
Many couples have their Rough Times.
One thing's for Sure, CSI's not to Blame. v_v"
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