CSI MADE ME LOSE MY GIRLFRIEND!!!

[Fruitling]

NeoPirateX

hello everyone,

I was wondering if this is right,

ok, one day I was at school in Job Corps and I had 2 quarters left, so I saved them so I can talk to my then girlfriend, anyway I called her and she tells me that CSI was on at the time and it seems that she would rather watch CSI than talk to me, she seemed to be very ungrateful and inconsiderate that I used the last 2 quarters I used on a payphone to talk to her. It also tells me that her TV viewing is more important to me and she says everyone does that and that's normal. so we broke up after one big emotional fight. she should've skipped CSI for one night because that night was the night I leave Job Corps.

because of this I totally despise CSI and I got to know if it was right for her to do that to me because my family says no but my ex and her family says yes. Please respond

Update: I saw my ex at Wonder-con and she straight forward embarassed me by yelling and bringing up the fight. this kinda tells me something. Also she is Bi-polar and violent.

This Chick=Wonder-b***h lol

[gaara_of_the_dunes]

lulz p***s in my mouth

[gaara_of_the_dunes]

Lol my fridns raped myaccount.

[gaara_of_the_dunes]

lol dude that blows hard your gf should at least watch less csi( taht show is pimp tho lol)

[Kokoro_Densetsu]

NeoPirateX

now the hard part moving on is how do I find a single woman in California? being single sucks and no one should be alone, also is life worth living is you can't be loved?

Dude, you need to be able to be independant enough to stay single and fend for yourself. There's nothing wrong with it, you don't NEED partner to make you happy. Yes, it's a major plus to have someone, but seriously. Single people aren't losers. I know a few who would rather be single and die happy without a significant other.

You can be loved. Just because you're single for some time period DOESN'T MEAN there's not someone else out there to be with later. There's always chances and oppurtunities. You make it sound like you have no future ahead of you if you don't have a gf right away.

[surfergurl98239]

U DID THE RIGHT THING BY BREAKIN' UP! if she was that inconsiderate, ask urself this: what do u see in a person that values a tv show more than u?

[Emma Iveli]

For those who keep calling me a b***h and didn't listen to my side of the story... here's a little link for you... http://www.gaiaonline.com/forum/viewtopic.php?t=24726891

[xhe loved an a n g e l]

GrunnyLover

You didn't lose your GF due to CSI. You lost her because you expected her to drop everything she was doing right away and pay attention to you just because you'd called her.

Life doesn't work like that, honey. I'm married, and I'll still tell my hubby to shut the ******** up if I'm trying to listen to something else while he's trying to talk to me. And he's hung up on me because he was doing something else when I called. Because we do not live at each other's beck and call like slaves. We have lives.

The proper response in a situation like this is, "Oh, I'm sorry I interrupted your show. When would be a good time to call back, or would you like to call me back when you're done?"

[Krisserskates]

You were right and you shouldn't feel bad.

[Skylanna]

Ok so i've gone through read all the opinions and read both sides of the story and here is my conclusion. First off if something as simple as this was a reason to break up then its probably for the best..you weren't meant to be. In a relationship sometimes you have to make sacrifices whether it be two quarters and a tv show or something you want to do over something else. Both partners need to be willing to move slightly and not be rigid. Being in a relationship is about giving and taking and both need to do this for it work.

My suggestion for you both of you is to put your anger aside (BOTH OF YOU) and sit down and talk and I mean both taking your turns to talk about why your angry and the other listens. Then try to understand how they feel. Then you both need to decide whether its worth it to give it another chance or whether you both should just move on. Either way you need to talk to each other and be civil.

And if you decide it won't work don't worry about being single your not a loser if you are single, it just means you haven't found the right person yet.

[Technomaru]

Emma Iveli

Well it's his ex... time to hear my half of the story.

Now at first I thought it was okay, I told him I was going to e-mail him after CSI... when I did he kept going on and on about loosing his quarter's... we kept fighting on line for hours with him threatening to commit suicide and me begging him not to... the night ended with me breaking down down crying, waking up my parents and them calling the cops to prevent him from committing suicide...

The next day I made a special appointment to my shrink and I went with my dad, where both of them told me I should break up with him...

Two days later I tried to to patch things up, but he kept going on and on about his quarters that I broke up with him.

We tried to become friend... then 2 weeks later...

HE SAID HE WAS DEGRADED FOR BEING DUMPED BY A DISABLED PERSON.

I'm physically disabled by the way...

So if you took his side before hearing the full story now reconsider... who's side do you take?

Well she lied to me about trying to be friends with me because she never even made an attempt, plus she told me that it makes her feel unconfortable when she talks to me on the phone so that means she never intended to be my friend. I also realized that if I did stay with her, she would still choose TV over being with me and her family, all she did during Thanksgiving was watch TV instead of being with her family. I hope my next gf doesn't do stuff like that, isn't bi-polar, and knows better...

I also got to know is it right for me to warn her next bf what he's in for if he does start dating her? my fate kinda sucks and it would suck more for the next person.

[Echo-of-cheese]

come on! you could have just reverse charge called her an hour later when CSI was over, i have ended calls with my friends who were in emotional turmoil for CSI multiple times, most of them end up saying "ohh CSI call you back in an hour so we can discuss its godlyness then finish the convo" the rest just say "ok call me back when you finish" thats all it needs

[kuso_hitsu]

NeoPirateX

hello everyone,

I was wondering if this is right,

ok, one day I was at school in Job Corps and I had 2 quarters left, so I saved them so I can talk to my then girlfriend, anyway I called her and she tells me that CSI was on at the time and it seems that she would rather watch CSI than talk to me, she seemed to be very ungrateful and inconsiderate that I used the last 2 quarters I used on a payphone to talk to her. It also tells me that her TV viewing is more important to me and she says everyone does that and that's normal. so we broke up after one big emotional fight. she should've skipped CSI for one night because that night was the night I leave Job Corps.

because of this I totally despise CSI and I got to know if it was right for her to do that to me because my family says no but my ex and her family says yes. Please respond

Update: I saw my ex at Wonder-con and she straight forward embarassed me by yelling and bringing up the fight. this kinda tells me something. Also she is Bi-polar and violent.

your hair makes me sick.

[Technomaru]

Oh and I forgot to tell you guys this but she once said that if I go through a few days without calling her, she will break up with me. That's why I call her everyday. Plus when I called her on the night she was watching CSI, I swear I can hear her laugh at me.

[Technomaru]

Is this forum dead? I mean I'm still furious at that backstabbing liar! I even did a follow-up post right here! http://gaiaonline.com/forum/viewtopic.php?t=24870253&

and I still want my Death Note back!