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smack a ho? talk2hand thats wut u get for showin emotions towards women..theyll only end up hurtin u...cant get attachd to em
I think that was bitchy of her to want to watch a tv show instead of talking to you. I would have gotten pissed too.
For You Alone
Well to me the way I hear it sounds like this only happened once. Maybe she would have talked to you after the show. Couldn't it have waited a little? confused


Actually she's done this to me alot, even during her anime shows and reruns of "Malcom in the middle" but what she did to me involving CSI was thel ast straw. It looks like she chooses TV over life, real-life friendship, and real-life in general.

I hope if I start dating this doesn't happen again, well that and I hope I can meet someone who enjoys life and the outdoors. oh that and Scary movies and shows at night and fresh breezes by a meadow at day.

I mean I would choose family, friends and exporing with my bike over TV.
NeoPirateX
hello everyone,

I was wondering if this is right,

ok, one day I was at school in Job Corps and I had 2 quarters left, so I saved them so I can talk to my then girlfriend, anyway I called her and she tells me that CSI was on at the time and it seems that she would rather watch CSI than talk to me, she seemed to be very ungrateful and inconsiderate that I used the last 2 quarters I used on a payphone to talk to her. It also tells me that her TV viewing is more important to me and she says everyone does that and that's normal. so we broke up after one big emotional fight. she should've skipped CSI for one night because that night was the night I leave Job Corps.

because of this I totally despise CSI and I got to know if it was right for her to do that to me because my family says no but my ex and her family says yes. Please respond

Update: I saw my ex at Wonder-con and she straight forward embarassed me by yelling and bringing up the fight. this kinda tells me something. Also she is Bi-polar and violent.

Paying attention to something else instead of one's other half is a common problem. There is no straight up right or wrong, but if you told her that you had limited time and your particular circumstances, and yet she still didnt take it into consideration, it was wrong. If you didnt make your situation clear, and tell her it hurts you for her not to pay attention to you, then its your own fault. My girlfriend plays resident evil 4 alot and whenever i talk to her on the phone, she is more than likely to be on it. It might bother me a little, but we hardly talk when we're on the phone anyway. I figured since she likes the game, that id get the game on my computer and play it too (since im for mouse aiming) and have something to talk about. Maybe you should have taken up watching CSI. Choosing activities to either do together even when not together would have increased your relationship's status, moreso than not.
NeoPirateX
hello everyone,

I was wondering if this is right,

ok, one day I was at school in Job Corps and I had 2 quarters left, so I saved them so I can talk to my then girlfriend, anyway I called her and she tells me that CSI was on at the time and it seems that she would rather watch CSI than talk to me, she seemed to be very ungrateful and inconsiderate that I used the last 2 quarters I used on a payphone to talk to her. It also tells me that her TV viewing is more important to me and she says everyone does that and that's normal. so we broke up after one big emotional fight. she should've skipped CSI for one night because that night was the night I leave Job Corps.

because of this I totally despise CSI and I got to know if it was right for her to do that to me because my family says no but my ex and her family says yes. Please respond

Update: I saw my ex at Wonder-con and she straight forward embarassed me by yelling and bringing up the fight. this kinda tells me something. Also she is Bi-polar and violent.


Uh. your both kinda immature. first off; Its just a quarter.. second.. Yeah its a tv show she could always watch it again CSI is on like ALL DAY.
CSI more important than a bf/gf... hmm I could see that. No I kid, no TV show is more important than a person you're supposed to care about.
Leave her be, let her rot her brain all she wants, you've got better things to do right?

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Well it's his ex... time to hear my half of the story.

Now at first I thought it was okay, I told him I was going to e-mail him after CSI... when I did he kept going on and on about loosing his quarter's... we kept fighting on line for hours with him threatening to commit suicide and me begging him not to... the night ended with me breaking down down crying, waking up my parents and them calling the cops to prevent him from committing suicide...

The next day I made a special appointment to my shrink and I went with my dad, where both of them told me I should break up with him...

Two days later I tried to to patch things up, but he kept going on and on about his quarters that I broke up with him.

We tried to become friend... then 2 weeks later...

HE SAID HE WAS DEGRADED FOR BEING DUMPED BY A DISABLED PERSON.

I'm physically disabled by the way...

So if you took his side before hearing the full story now reconsider... who's side do you take?
she sounds like a stupid b***h
you're better off without her
ok y do u need some dumb b***h like her as ur gf. dump her a** and move on to someone who has some common sense and respect.
Now this is getting to the point where I believe this is a staged "Troll fight"

But, whatever.
You two need to KNOCK IT OFF.

Original poaster-it was two ******** quarters, GET OVER IT.

Ex girlfriend-In the future ask if it is ok with him if you watch your favorite TV show before you simply say that you are going to watch it, hands down, no arguments. That way yo uwill know if he will get his feelings hurt or not.

ADVICE FOR THE TWO OF YOU:
Being in a relationship means making sacrifices for one-another, whether it be two quarters, or a Tv show that will be repeated in a couple of weeks anyways.

And when you DO sacrifice something for the other person, you do not hang it over their heads especially if it is a couple of lousy quarters.
Not to mention, you only get about 10 minutes on a pay phone anyways, and missing 10 minutes out of a show is not a big deal, but neither is using two quarters either.

Your both immature idiots who shouldn't date anybody else until you can stop acting like brats.
shes not right for you.
I <3 CSI so I don't care xP But you shouldn't have gotten into such a big fight over it. Get over it, it was one time and maybe there is something you could do so she isn't so into the program?
Ok everyone, I guess I'll wake your words for it. she isn't right for me, she never sacrificed anything in order to continue the friendship, she's violent, crass, rude, bi-polar, our relationship mirrored that of my dad and my step-mother's (he should learn from my mistake), doesn't seem to enjoy human contact, and she hates using phones.

when she "tried" to be my friend she told me that it makes her feel unconfortable when she talks to me on the phone, so that ruined it right there. also she angered me by telling me that I don't need a girlfriend. dude, I was told that people who are single are losers... otherwise they wouldn't be single nor losers... then again she did break up with me so she set herself up!

Yeah I should move on and forget about her and let her be a friendless recluse for all I care. She doesn't seem to be interested in friendship anyway...

now the hard part moving on is how do I find a single woman in California? being single sucks and no one should be alone, also is life worth living is you can't be loved?

Oh and after what she pulled on me at Wondercon I now carry a Bokken in case she does that again and to look cool with.
Sounds like you two had a wonderful relationship going on there.

Seriously, it's good that you got out of it becuase she would probably keep ditching you for the tv show. Plus, now you have a crazy ex story! Everyone loves those!

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