"Neziar"
Enjoy the items and play dress up w my avi, which is a great way to de-stress for me. Love looking at others' avis too and see if I can recognize as many items as I can at a glance.
Lately, there's also a sense of connection. Even just lurking on threads to read how ppl's days are going, it's a change of pace from my hectic real life. I met new close friends because of gaia, and bonding over avies and new releases improves my mood for the day.
And for the most extremely selfish reason: fast validation. An unprompted outfit fave? Burst of serotonin. Compliments? Giddy all day. Gifts from friends? No matter how bad my day had been, gaia can turn it around w these interactions w the community. I take any chance to find little happy moments and by george if there are crumbs of joy I can pull from this old site, I'm yanking it hard with my grubby cluttered hands.
UnderworldTorrent
These days, it seems to be only to make avatars and reminisce about days gone by. This site got me through some lonely years, and for the most part I still keep in touch with my friends in other places.
There are some though that I just...never talked to again one day. People I used to rush home to get online and spend time with, people I would spend hours on MSN nudging and video chatting. I don't have those logs, but I have our guild chats. Re-reading drama that seemed to important at the time, and so small now.
Every once and while I stumble back into the "active" forums, keeping an eye for familiar names and posting in threads that let me ramble...like this one
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Pffft eheh. When a former community I'm in shut down, losing contact with friends in the process, Gaia was one of the site that I remembered stumbling so I signed in.
I've never been active a lot in this community but I can say I feel the same in some aspects. This site helped me with imagination and writing during a lonely period in my life. And still do!
Thank for sharing your story, pals. Lots of hugs!
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