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Do you agree to the new rules of this thread and promise to uphold them if we are moved back? (Read first post, first page)

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I don't want to read them.	8.0%	[ 31 ]
Who cares?	2.6%	[ 10 ]
Gold.	16.2%	[ 63 ]
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[Tuah]

This post is...


EXACTLY 3000!!!!!!

[Lupin_Therian]

NightOceanGirl221

Lupin_Therian

NightOceanGirl221

Ugh I just want to call myself something. But I'd hate to be told "Oh you aren't really that because you aren't blah blah blah."

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-nods- Well, How do you feel about things? Explain a bit and maybe we can help send you in the right direction.

I just don't know. Im still confused. I was born a girl, but I feel like I'm not one. I'm definitely not a boy though. I feel like I have traits from both genders but I'm not either, somewhere in between. I do like to wear skirts though. razz I'm sorry if this post was confusing.

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Not confusing at all.
You seem to have already picked up terms relating to this.
"Queer" "Androgynous" "Genderqueer"

Where are you confused?

[Tuah]

NightOceanGirl221

Lupin_Therian

NightOceanGirl221

Ugh I just want to call myself something. But I'd hate to be told "Oh you aren't really that because you aren't blah blah blah."

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-nods- Well, How do you feel about things? Explain a bit and maybe we can help send you in the right direction.

I just don't know. Im still confused. I was born a girl, but I feel like I'm not one. I'm definitely not a boy though. I feel like I have traits from both genders but I'm not either, somewhere in between. I do like to wear skirts though. razz I'm sorry if this post was confusing.

I totally understand. I see myself more on the feminine side, but I don't think I'm really either definite gender.

But ironically that makes me cisgendered. rofl

[The Viscount]

Syndactyly

Lol.

Yeah, I tend to just call myself a guy, only clarifying that I'm FtM when it's relevant.

xD Yeah, same here. I'll probably save 'cuntboy' for the times when I'm talking with other transguys. *rolls*

(On a random note, I'm totally getting a bit pissed off at my fiance. He's still not home and it's 10PM. He went off to go play Warhammer at the store (it's a comic book place) with a friend. I called him and only got his voice mail and he still hasn't called me back. Wtf. He KNOWS I hate it when he does this. He left at about 3 in the afternoon so it's been a while. *facepalm* >_< )

[Syndactyly]

The Viscount

Syndactyly

Lol.

Yeah, I tend to just call myself a guy, only clarifying that I'm FtM when it's relevant.

xD Yeah, same here. I'll probably save 'cuntboy' for the times when I'm talking with other transguys. *rolls*

(On a random note, I'm totally getting a bit pissed off at my fiance. He's still not home and it's 10PM. He went off to go play Warhammer at the store (it's a comic book place) with a friend. I called him and only got his voice mail and he still hasn't called me back. Wtf. He KNOWS I hate it when he does this. He left at about 3 in the afternoon so it's been a while. *facepalm* >_< )

Lol, careful, some transguys get super offended by the term (of course, those are the same guys who get butthurt when we call the chesticles boobs)

It would have been nice if he at least told you he was going to stay out late. :/

[Labradorescence]

Lupin_Therian

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Not confusing at all.
You seem to have already picked up terms relating to this.
"Queer" "Androgynous" "Genderqueer"

Where are you confused?

I guess I just don't know which of them to call myself.

[Lupin_Therian]

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Oh so, I wanted to point out, the other day my little sister was messing around a playing "Switch peoples names" and my mom walked in and said "Leave your sister alone!" to which my sister replied "He's my brother!"
I got the nastiest glare from my mom followed by "What'd you say to her! I don't want her to be all confused!" I just kinda starred at her and said "I haven't said crap mom."
She turned to Ashlee, "No sweetie, she's your sister."
"Nuh uh! His name is Alex! He's my brother!" After she said that mom got it and continued to glare at me and said "Good, you'd better not say anything."

I was pissed that she got mad and assumed I had said something when I had already said I wasn't going to.

[Jeannette Willow]

Tuah

Weird, back when I was taking estrogen and spiro, whenever I'd miss a couple of days, my (stupid annoying >:U) libido would act up a bit. Then when I ran out of estrogen I just kept taking the spiro for about a month.

But now I've stopped taking that as well for the past week, but my libido is still just as low as it was with the estrogen and spiro. Maybe keeping my body from using testosterone jump-started production of estrogen and it's just continuing?

That depends, it could be that your testes are beginning to give up. How long were you on both, how old are you, and how much estro were you taking?

One cheap, effective and ... distasteful ... way to tell is look at the ejaculate. Sperm is what makes it milky white. The clearer it is, and less of it, the better off folks like us are.

[Lupin_Therian]

NightOceanGirl221

Lupin_Therian

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Not confusing at all.
You seem to have already picked up terms relating to this.
"Queer" "Androgynous" "Genderqueer"

Where are you confused?

I guess I just don't know which of them to call myself.

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Hmmm, Well just do a bit of research on each term and use the one you prefer / is best suited to you. I think you can bee Genderqueer and Androgynous, I however am Genderqueer and not Androgynous. I'm not a big expert on the subject of these terms so self research is the best option unless someone else here can explain them.

[Tuah]

Jeannette Willow

Tuah

Weird, back when I was taking estrogen and spiro, whenever I'd miss a couple of days, my (stupid annoying >:U) libido would act up a bit. Then when I ran out of estrogen I just kept taking the spiro for about a month.

But now I've stopped taking that as well for the past week, but my libido is still just as low as it was with the estrogen and spiro. Maybe keeping my body from using testosterone jump-started production of estrogen and it's just continuing?

That depends, it could be that your testes are beginning to give up. How long were you on both, how old are you, and how much estro were you taking?

One cheap, effective and ... distasteful ... way to tell is look at the ejaculate. Sperm is what makes it milky white. The clearer it is, and less of it, the better off folks like us are.

Uh, let's see... I'm 19, and been on estrogen for 6 months, spiro for 7. I'd take 4mg of estrogen, and 200mg of spiro every day-and-a-half. After I ran out of estrogen, it was the same amount of spiro.

And... I guess that means I've always been infertile. xD

[Labradorescence]

Trust me, I've done quite a bit of research. I spent all of yesterday researching this stuff. So far I kind of like the term genderqueer as it can mean a lot of things and none of the other terms seem to fit me perfectly. I'm not androgynous lol, I look like a girl.

[Lupin_Therian]

NightOceanGirl221

Trust me, I've done quite a bit of research. I spent all of yesterday researching this stuff. So far I kind of like the term genderqueer as it can mean a lot of things and none of the other terms seem to fit me perfectly. I'm not androgynous lol, I look like a girl.

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Lol, I meant you as a general term, not you specifically, sorry.
I know the researching spouts xD
It took me 3 months to fully accept myself as Genderqueer and even longer to accept myself as a Genderqueer Transman, and I only realized that was possible due to a once in a lifetime documentary. xD

[Labradorescence]

Lol for me it's only been a few days since I realized I'm not a normal girl. I mean it's been in the back of my mind for ages, but only very recently have I been ready to accept it and been seriously thinking about it.

[The Viscount]

Syndactyly

The Viscount

Syndactyly

Lol.

Yeah, I tend to just call myself a guy, only clarifying that I'm FtM when it's relevant.

xD Yeah, same here. I'll probably save 'cuntboy' for the times when I'm talking with other transguys. *rolls*

(On a random note, I'm totally getting a bit pissed off at my fiance. He's still not home and it's 10PM. He went off to go play Warhammer at the store (it's a comic book place) with a friend. I called him and only got his voice mail and he still hasn't called me back. Wtf. He KNOWS I hate it when he does this. He left at about 3 in the afternoon so it's been a while. *facepalm* >_< )

Lol, careful, some transguys get super offended by the term (of course, those are the same guys who get butthurt when we call the chesticles boobs)

It would have been nice if he at least told you he was going to stay out late. :/

xD You're right about that .. usually I use really basic terms until I get a 'feel' for the people in the group, and I wait to see what kind of terms they like.

T____T the boy still hasn't called me back. It's 11 at night now. I'm officially pissed off. I don't know what he's up to, but srsly, could it be so important he can't take one second and just phone me back saying he's still alive? :`[

*sigh* I don't know if I should call again. I don't want to be that stereotypical nagging mate, but jeez ..

[Syndactyly]

MY p***s IS CONFUSED!
People are talking about c** but they're talking about MtF c** so I don't wanna be turned on by that because I know I shouldn't be! scream