What exactly is wrong with sex at a young age?

[logan the god of candy]

******** the law. no-one gets aids when there is proper use of a prophylactic. sex at a young age = more stupid mother ******** who make sex all about feeling good and whom think love has nothing to do with it. having sex at a young age because you like it is just like stabbing yourself in the eye because you like it. people need to learn why to have sex before they do it.

[Lord Setar]

[=Persephone=]

Lord Setar- Oh, honestly, that's ridiculous. The few things he has said in defense of his argument, he has not proved. Why is it okay for him not to prove his argument? I do not feel like I am in a debate with him when he is talking to me like a teacher.

Elf has never made any assertions of fact. You have.

Furthermore, a few of your sources seem biased. Birthcontrolisharmful.com? Yeah, no way there's an agenda there. Just like StormFront has no agenda towards white supremacy...

[MissToxicity]

Assuming that a teenager is practicing safe sex (which is admittedly difficult, considering that most American programs aim for abstinence and denial rather than safety and openness) then the only arguments there can be are based on personal morals and experience.
The issue of maturity doesn't really apply here, because it is up to an individual to determine that they are mature enough. Just because you weren't mature enough when you were a teenager doesn't mean there aren't teenagers ready to handle sex.
Also, many people associate love with sex, and also wrongly assume that no teenager can comprehend love. Some teenagers and adults view sex casually and put have no connection with love and sex, which is also fine.
Moral of the story? People need to be able to have their own experiences and learn their own mistakes. Shock and disapproval comes from one wanting to push their own values and opinions on another.
As long as you are safe, you should have the right to do with your body as you wish, at any age.

[MelziGurl]

I don't have a problem with it unless your under the age of 16. Younger than 16 to me is too young, at 16 I'm pretty sure they don't class you as a minor. Just so long as you are doing the right thing to keep out of trouble, a lady I know has her 14 year old daughter on the pill which is also a great way to prevent rape victims getting pregnant accidently. Rape can be common in teens as well, some girls are curious and consent but later change their minds due to being uncomfortable with the circumstances and yada yada.

No I don't see a problem with sex at 16+ so long as you are being responsible about it.

[Lord Setar]

MelziGurl

I don't have a problem with it unless your under the age of 16. Younger than 16 to me is too young, at 16 I'm pretty sure they don't class you as a minor. Just so long as you are doing the right thing to keep out of trouble, a lady I know has her 14 year old daughter on the pill which is also a great way to prevent rape victims getting pregnant accidently. Rape can be common in teens as well, some girls are curious and consent but later change their minds due to being uncomfortable with the circumstances and yada yada.

No I don't see a problem with sex at 16+ so long as you are being responsible about it.

What makes a 16 year old magically different from someone who is 15 years and 364/365 days old?

[MissToxicity]

logan the god of ******** the law. no-one gets aids when there is proper use of a prophylactic. sex at a young age = more stupid mother ******** who make sex all about feeling good and whom think love has nothing to do with it. having sex at a young age because you like it is just like stabbing yourself in the eye because you like it. people need to learn why to have sex before they do it.[/quote]
Your argument...
Contradicts itself and is generally just a mess of broken, bleeding grammar and an illogical path of ideas.
Just because YOU connect love to sex, doesn't mean that everyone has to or that there IS a connection. A teenager may not connect love to sex, but they may, and even if they do not then that doesn't mean its simply because he or she is a teenager.
I know MANY adults who view sex casually, and it's not your place to shove YOUR morals and YOUR opinions down their gul

ald5i488:0="logan the god of ******** the law. no-one gets aids when there is proper use of a prophylactic. sex at a young age = more stupid mother ******** who make sex all about feeling good and whom think love has nothing to do with it. having sex at a young age because you like it is just like stabbing yourself in the eye because you like it. people need to learn why to have sex before they do it.[/quote]
Your argument...
Contradicts itself and is generally just a mess of broken, bleeding grammar and an illogical path of ideas.
Just because YOU connect love to sex, doesn't mean that everyone has to or that there IS a connection. A teenager may not connect love to sex, but they may, and even if they do not then that doesn't mean its simply because he or she is a teenager.
I know MANY adults who view sex casually, and it's not your place to shove YOUR morals and YOUR opinions down their gullets.

[deftinwulf]

its wrong because you have stupid morons who have kids then arnt responsible enough to take care of them. People that this stupid girl my mom is watching right now. In fact now she don't want anything to do with it. Mom runs a daycare and i knew as soon as i heard that she was going to be getting a 18 year olds kid that she would have problems. She don't have the money to pay for it, then she isn't smart enough to send its health insurance papers in so now the doctor wont give him his shots. Makes me sick the kid deserves more than her someone who will care for him and get him what he needs.

You need to be prepared for the consequences of what having sex can bring, and god if you are going to have sex please use a condom so we wont have anymore stupid young parents who don't know how to raise a kid.

[Lord Setar]

darkdragun05

its wrong because you have stupid morons who have kids then arnt responsible enough to take care of them. People that this stupid girl my mom is watching right now. In fact now she don't want anything to do with it. Mom runs a daycare and i knew as soon as i heard that she was going to be getting a 18 year olds kid that she would have problems. She don't have the money to pay for it, then she isn't smart enough to send its health insurance papers in so now the doctor wont give him his shots. Makes me sick the kid deserves more than her someone who will care for him and get him what he needs.

You need to be prepared for the consequences of what having sex can bring, and god if you are going to have sex please use a condom so we wont have anymore stupid young parents who don't know how to raise a kid.

Contraceptives fail, you do know that?

[[=Persephone=]]

Lord Setar

[=Persephone=]

Lord Setar- Oh, honestly, that's ridiculous. The few things he has said in defense of his argument, he has not proved. Why is it okay for him not to prove his argument? I do not feel like I am in a debate with him when he is talking to me like a teacher.

Elf has never made any assertions of fact. You have.

Furthermore, a few of your sources seem biased. Birthcontrolisharmful.com? Yeah, no way there's an agenda there. Just like StormFront has no agenda towards white supremacy...

I admit that that was one of my weaker sites, I considered not using it. However, that does not mean it is not valid. There are statistics that they use that come from reliable sources. I do not know why you believe that my other sources are unreliable though. In any case, they are only a handful of representative sites that I used for the many that I browsed through.

Is that your only response? To criticize me once again?

[El_Mango]

Sex w/out love =bad. Love w/out sex=extremely possible. That and a girls v****a isn't able to properly fight off infection until she is in her 18-10's. It doesn't have the right PH levels

[Miss ShadowFox]

A good bit of the youngsters don't bother with Condoms or birth control, so their popping out babies at the age of 13 and 14. Dx

[MissToxicity]

El_Mango

Sex w/out love =bad. Love w/out sex=extremely possible. That and a girls v****a isn't able to properly fight off infection until she is in her 18-10's. It doesn't have the right PH levels

Contraceptives. smile
It wouldn't make a difference if the condom broke with a fourteen year old or a twenty year old, so long as the sex partner had an STD.

Also: provide evidence that sex without love is a negative thing without using your personal opinion or religion, and perhaps, perhaps, you will have something that resembles an argument.:/

[LadyMella]

I think, in my opinion, that kids that young
just want to try it out, and maybe even "show off"
that they don't have their virginity anymore.
Probably peer pressure, probably to be "cool",
they're definitely not in it for the love...

Whatever the reason is, that's just how I see it.
And personally, I think it's retarded.
But whatever, kids like to ******** themselves over,
and it's obviously not my problem
if they get hurt or get a disease in the end.

[Lord Setar]

El_Mango

Sex w/out love =bad.(1) Love w/out sex=extremely possible. That and a girls v****a isn't able to properly fight off infection until she is in her 18-10's.(2) It doesn't have the right PH levels

1. Proof please.

2. Proof.

[I c e y B u b b l e s]

There is nothing wrong as long as he/she uses protection and is responsible enough for certain conditions. But also, in my opinion, I think the parents should know about it too (young teens, lol)