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☆~ About choice and responsibility- Shouldn't the choice be made before becoming pregnant? Like I said, I'm not trying to take the choice away, I'm just hoping that other women will think about the possible consequences of having sexual intercourse before having it.

Also, about costs- If they feel too ashamed to tell anyone that they need help and money, they shouldn't have gotten pregnant to begin with. Otherwise, friends and family, as well as certain organizations will help a pregnant woman pay for birth, and they will also help put the child up for adoption.

The only thing that I can see as a legal excuse is rape, since they had no choice to begin with. But there is the day after pill. It's still better to see it through. If a woman has a condition that wouldn't allow for a healthy childbirth that they knew of, they should have prevented the pregnancy. But, if they didn't know that they had a condition, that would be a different story.

Oh, and by the way, get those sticks out of your butts for once.~☆

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Vhe
☆~ About choice and responsibility- Shouldn't the choice be made before becoming pregnant? Like I said, I'm not trying to take the choice away, I'm just hoping that other women will think about the possible consequences of having sexual intercourse before having it.

Also, about costs- If they feel too ashamed to tell anyone that they need help and money, they shouldn't have gotten pregnant to begin with. Otherwise, friends and family, as well as certain organizations will help a pregnant woman pay for birth, and they will also help put the child up for adoption.

The only thing that I can see as a legal excuse is rape, since they had no choice to begin with. If a woman has a condition that wouldn't allow for a healthy childbirth that they knew of, they should have prevented the pregnancy. But, if they didn't know that they had a condition, that would be a different story.~☆
what part of contraceptives fails, even when used correctly, do you not comprehend? from sources quoted before in this thread, aprox 54% of abortions are perfomed on women who's contraceptive failed. these women were thinking about the possible consequences, and taking measures, yet became pregnant anyway.

even if money wasn't an issue, there are a lot of changes a woman's body and mind undergo while pregnant. many of them are permanent.
Vhe
☆~ About choice and responsibility- Shouldn't the choice be made before becoming pregnant? Like I said, I'm not trying to take the choice away, I'm just hoping that other women will think about the possible consequences of having sexual intercourse before having it.

Also, about costs- If they feel too ashamed to tell anyone that they need help and money, they shouldn't have gotten pregnant to begin with. Otherwise, friends and family, as well as certain organizations will help a pregnant woman pay for birth, and they will also help put the child up for adoption.

The only thing that I can see as a legal excuse is rape, since they had no choice to begin with. If a woman has a condition that wouldn't allow for a healthy childbirth that they knew of, they should have prevented the pregnancy. But, if they didn't know that they had a condition, that would be a different story.~☆


How is consent to sex, and as such consent to the risk of pregnancy, irrevocable consent to carrying any resulting pregnancy to term?

What is the difference between a fetus conceived of rape and one conceived of consentual sex? If I gave you two fetuses, and asked you to point to which one was conceived of rape, would you be able to do so correctly?

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Really I would have hoped this debate would have been solves by now. But seeing as how it has clearly NOT been solved, let me at least add this to it. Let's take a step back mess of a debater we have here concerning morality, and look at this from a legal perspective. Whether or not outlawing abortion is moral or not is ultimately of no significance if the law is unconstitutional. So let's look at this now:

14th Amendment
Section 1. All persons born or naturalized in the United States, and subject to the jurisdiction thereof, are citizens of the United States and of the state wherein they reside. No state shall make or enforce any law which shall abridge the privileges or immunities of citizens of the United States; nor shall any state deprive any person of life, liberty, or property, without due process of law; nor deny to any person within its jurisdiction the equal protection of the laws.


Now as a fetus has obviously not been born yet, whether it is living or not, it is still not protected by United States law. AND as a person has a right to bodily domain, destroying a fetus that is essentially living off of them is fully within the bound of constitutionality. What other implications does this have? Well there is one obvious one, and that is under the United States current system of laws, as it is defined in the constitution, a person is defined someone who has been born, whether YOU think so or not. Now people please, give it a rest already, because even if you argue until you are blue in the face, under the law it doesn't make a bit of difference. And it shouldn't take 6370 pages for you guys to figure all this out.


There I am afraid you are QUITE wrong. Many states DO have laws about unborn children.
http://www.nrlc.org/Unborn_victims/Statehomicidelaws092302.html
They are still forced to make exceptions, for the moment, for abortion, which makes no sense whatsoever. If Roe vs. Wade is ever overturned for being the unconstitutional piece of crap that it is, that will hopefully change.



Well good for those states, they have been able to pass unconstitutional laws and not been sued yet. However, you are in fact wrong about this my friend. The constitution is the supreme law of the land, and thus takes precedence over any state laws that come into being. That is why state laws take a back seat to federal laws, which in tn take second chair to constitutional laws. If taken to the supreme court, if a state law conflicts with constitutional law, it id deemed unconstitutional and is revoked.
In addition, you can name all the unconstitutional laws in the wold which have passed. That does not make outlawing abortion any more constitutional that it wasn't. Thus my argument still stands, and your morality is irrelevant.
Vhe
☆~ About choice and responsibility- Shouldn't the choice be made before becoming pregnant? Like I said, I'm not trying to take the choice away, I'm just hoping that other women will think about the possible consequences of having sexual intercourse before having it.

The only thing that I can see as a legal excuse is rape, since they had no choice to begin with. If a woman has a condition that wouldn't allow for a healthy childbirth that they knew of, they should have prevented the pregnancy. But, if they didn't know that they had a condition, that would be a different story.~☆


Choices can be made at anytime and what you're refering to doesn't apply to this. Abortion is a possible consequence and 25% of women who abort used birth control correctly. Just because you have sex doesn't mean you want to get pregnant nor didn't think about pregnancy. I am not going to restrict myself of sex of the extreamly small chance of getting pregnant while using multiple forms of birthcontrol.

WTF does choice have to do with anything? By excussing rape, you show that you don't give a s**t about the life of a fetus and you just hate women who have sex for other purposes besides procreation. It shows you have no logical reason to be against abortion and just want to control and suck the fun and pleasure out of people's lives which makes you what I define as a b***h. Preventing the pregnancy is abortion and 25% of women used birthcontrol correctly. Birth control is not 100% efficent.
Vhe
About choice and responsibility- Shouldn't the choice be made before becoming pregnant?


What makes you think it isn't?

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Like I said, I'm not trying to take the choice away,


Judging from how your post started, I have serious doubts about that.

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I'm just hoping that other women will think about the possible consequences of having sexual intercourse before having it.


What makes you think they didn't? Sure, there are those won't think before sexing it up, but what makes you think all women do that?

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Also, about costs- If they feel too ashamed to tell anyone that they need help and money, they shouldn't have gotten pregnant to begin with.


Costs of what? Pregnancy? Abortion?

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Otherwise, friends and family, as well as certain organizations will help a pregnant woman pay for birth, and they will also help put the child up for adoption.

Costs of pregnancy, then. Couple of problems:

1. Adoption does not solve an unwanted pregnancy.

2. This may be wrong, but it's supposedly more costly to have the pregnancy than to abort, if I'm not mistaken.

To the regulars of the thread: Is this fact true?

3. Women should not have to become incubators of babies for other couples or anyone else.

4. The adoption system, as other pro-choicers who regulate the thread will expand on, is a highly racist, ageist system.


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The only thing that I can see as a legal excuse is rape, since they had no choice to begin with.


So you believe that pregnancy and/or parenthood should constitute as punishment to women who consensually participate in a healthy, pleasing aspect. How nice.

What of the men? What makes them get off free?


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If a woman has a condition that wouldn't allow for a healthy childbirth that they knew of, they should have prevented the pregnancy.


Why does healthiness have to be a determinent factor of whether a fetus should live or not?

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But, if they didn't know that they had a condition, that would be a different story.


Why?
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2. This may be wrong, but it's supposedly more costly to have the pregnancy than to abort, if I'm not mistaken.

To the regulars of the thread: Is this fact true?


$3000 is so much less than $500...>_>

Also, Vhe fails to factor in families that disown their daughters for daring to have extramarital sex. Naive, perhaps?
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2. This may be wrong, but it's supposedly more costly to have the pregnancy than to abort, if I'm not mistaken.

To the regulars of the thread: Is this fact true?


$3000 is so much less than $500...>_>

Also, Vhe fails to factor in families that disown their daughters for daring to have extramarital sex. Naive, perhaps?

Silly Setar. No parents disown their child for having premarital sex. That's preposterous. Mom's and Dad's can't disown their children, that's silly. Who else would pay for college tuition, food, clothes, etc? razz

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Vhe
☆~ About choice and responsibility- Shouldn't the choice be made before becoming pregnant? Like I said, I'm not trying to take the choice away, I'm just hoping that other women will think about the possible consequences of having sexual intercourse before having it.

Also, about costs- If they feel too ashamed to tell anyone that they need help and money, they shouldn't have gotten pregnant to begin with. Otherwise, friends and family, as well as certain organizations will help a pregnant woman pay for birth, and they will also help put the child up for adoption.

The only thing that I can see as a legal excuse is rape, since they had no choice to begin with. If a woman has a condition that wouldn't allow for a healthy childbirth that they knew of, they should have prevented the pregnancy. But, if they didn't know that they had a condition, that would be a different story.~☆


Yeah, "you should have thought of that beforehand!" is really useless. You're pregnant now. You have to deal with it. "Should have" means nothing.
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We're asking for choice. Not "HOMGZ KEEL UR BABEEZ CUZ IT FUNNEE!!11ONEone xd xp wink lol mrgreen rofl "




"But Zin, you silly girl, a week-old fetus doesn't even have lungs!"


"Third trimester abortions aren't legal!"

Uh huh. But if NARAL had their way, they would be.

Consider why women have abortions, and you have to agree that in an ideal world, those reasons would not exist.




There is no such thing as a week-old fetus. A fetus is from 8 weeks to birth.

Third Trimester abortions are done for a variety of reasons and if it was legal under all circumstances individual doctors could draw the line. Third trimester abortions are rare, abortion is something people normally want to get over with. Most third-trimester abortions would be done for medical reasons.
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lymelady
1. By your logic of "It can't feel anything" (which isn't entirely true depending on when in the pregnancy abortion is done. If you support pregnancy for bodily domain, usually it makes sense to support abortion all throughout pregnancy, including the 3rd trimester. It's also not even conclusively true, you're just assuming it is. By the same token I wouldn't assume a fetus feels pain given the lack of scientific evidence and the fact that doctors debate it both ways, I wouldn't assume a fetus doesn't feel pain, but feel free to stick to whichever one helps you sleep at night. The assumption that it can't experience anything is entirely untrue. It cannot experience things the way an adult can, but that can be said about other human stages of development as well.) I can kill a sleeping person in a painless manner and that wouldn't be cruel.

Difference: The sleeping person is not attached to your body, violating your rights as a person, and it'd be considered a form of homocide due to being a born person with thoughts, feelings, and social impact to others.

The fetus is the opposite. You're not following my logic, you're making StrawMan arguments.

Further, it's been proven that the fetus CANNOT feel pain. Here's a snip for you:


Amerian Pain Society
Pain experience is now widely seen as a consequence of an amalgam of cognition, sensation, and affective processes, commonly described under the rubric of the biopsychosocial model of pain. Pain is no longer regarded as merely a physical sensation of noxious stimulus and disease, but is seen as a conscious experience that may be modulated by mental, emotional, and sensory mechanisms with sensory and emotional components. The biopsychosocial concept emphasizes the multidimensional nature of illness, injury, and pain, rather than emphasizing pain as a purely physical fact of illness or injury. Pain has been described as a multidimensional phenomena for some time, and this understanding is reflected in the current IASP definition of pain as “an unpleasant sensory and emotional experience associated with actual or potential tissue damage, or described in terms of such damage”.

A further reason to doubt the viability of fetal pain post-26 weeks’ gestation is the development of the fetal cortex. Although the thalamocortical fibers penetrate the cortical plate at approximately 26 weeks’ gestation, the cortical regions that have been identified as important in processing the various components of pain do not become fully responsive until after birth.

lymelady
2. Saying that something is degrading is first of all, opinion based,

Again, I disagree, nullifying your argument.

lymelady
secondly, yes, it's an appeal to emotion to try and make people who disagree with you look like they're out to degrade women, just as much as it's an appeal to emotion to use words that make pro-choice people look like they're out to kill fetuses.

I haven't though. I just told you why and how I didn't. Statements by themselves are fallacious as it would serve no other purpose than to strike emotion. However, I backed it with HOW and WHY it's degrading.

lymelady
3. Degrading is an opinion. It's quite possible I find it degrading that you feel women need to be able to kill their children in order to be equal to men, but I somehow feel that you don't share that opinion.

There are no children involved in abortion, so Infanticide is out. Further, I never mentioned anything about being equal to men, I just said women would be second-class citizens. In this case, she'd be second-class to the fetus (regardless of gender) due to having less rights than the fetus AND to men, who can still protect their own bodily integrity from rape and forced organ donation. Women are forced to donate her uterus to a fetus, and cannot remove it despite not consenting to it. She's a second-class citizen, thus degraded in society. Following this logic, wanting women to be that way simply by forcing pregnancy is degrading.

Now, how is this all opinion?


lymelady
Likewise, I don't share you opinion that it is degrading to say women can't kill their offspring for any reason whatsoever as long as that offspring is at a certain stage of development. Please back your statement that it is degrading without using emotions or opinions. You could fall back on appeal to authority, that would be entertaining.

I did, above. Please prove to me it's an appeal to emotion, and not just a statement involving emotional reaction, now.

lymelady
You dream of reflection arguments? That's quite interesting.

Ad hom.
1. you argued that it isn't cruel because a fetus can't feel or experience anything (which is again, false. A fetus can experience things. Not at the same level as an adult or infant. An infant can't experience things on nearly the same scale as an adult. Should we say infants are worth less based on how much they can experience things? Some people argue that, and at least they're consistent). I followed your logic. If you'd like to keep going in circles, please do so, but I don't have time.

Also, I disagree with an organization declaring organic pain to not be considered pain, considering how important it is in scientific study, medical treatment, and survival. I will commend you on your fine Wiki skills. It takes a lot of effort to type in "pain" in the searchbar after going to en.wikipedia.org, I'm sure.

2. No it doesn't. You haven't been able to prove to me that it's an objective fact. If you can, please, do. Otherwise, it's an opinion. Unless I can start using my opinions, backed with arguments that you don't agree with, and calling them facts just because I say so, which seems to be the route you're taking.

You did not back it with how and why it's degrading. You backed it with how and why YOU FEEL it's degrading. I'm still waiting. Please, give me facts, not opinions.

And as I said, no, you didn't, you used opinions.


3. There are children involved in abortion in the sense that all fetuses are offspring. I said nothing of infanticide. Ah, I'm mistaken, you think women need to have abortion available in order to be something other than second class citizens to men and fetuses (thus, they aren't equal to men or fetuses without abortion being available. My mistake, I only included men), which is much less degrading, let me assure you. I'm glad to know I can't be anything but a second class citizen if I don't have the legal option to kill my offspring, thanks for the vote of confidence. You're assuming a lot about who would have more rights, especially since you don't take into consideration current provisions in our laws that give children more "rights" than adults.

4. It's an ad hom? You said reflection argument when I wished you pleasant dreams. I had no idea that it's an ad hominem, especially since I wasn't addressing an argument or attacking your personality in any way shape or form. This is, again, quite interesting.
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Who here is arguing for 3rd trimester abortion?


I argue for abortion to be legal throughout the pregnancy. When to have an abortion should be decided by her and a medical professional and none of us.
I have a question for anyone who is pro-choice based on bodily integrity.

Why NOT support third trimester abortions being legal? I've seen some people say no one's arguing for it. Well, why not? Why is it that the day the second trimester ends and the third trimester begins, a fetus is suddenly not invading a woman's bodily domain? It's still in her body. It's still using her resources. What if she decides she doesn't want it, or doesn't want to go through birth, why should anyone stop her? It's her body, so shouldn't it be her choice until the fetus is out?

I don't understand why it's not okay to ask a woman to wait 6 months or 9 months, but it is okay to ask them to wait 3 months.

I've been told before that a fetus is viable then, but so what? That doesn't mean that a woman wants to go through birth, and it doesn't mean that you'll be able to find a doctor willing to induce labor that early anyway. If it's truly about bodily domain, shouldn't a woman have the choice to abort if it's the fastest way to remove the fetus from her body?

Edit: This question isn't directed at people who do support abortion throughout the entire pregnancy, but I would like their input as well.

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