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My partner is homosexual (pretty much a 6), and I identify as pansexual (so either outside the scale or a solid 3 depending on how you look at it).



arrow Here are some issues with the Kinsey Scale.

Also, according to this article (mind you, it's Wikipedia) the research was a bit skewed and a bit problematic (look at controversial aspects).
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Science STILL hasnt found a 'gay' gene

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My partner is homosexual (pretty much a 6), and I identify as pansexual (so either outside the scale or a solid 3 depending on how you look at it).



arrow Here are some issues with the Kinsey Scale.

Also, according to this article (mind you, it's Wikipedia) the research was a bit skewed and a bit problematic (look at controversial aspects).

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While it is useful to have a scale to describe preference it is not the Kinsey scale, which describes experience.
Personally, I prefer the Klein grid. Same numbers, slightly better approach.


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Generally I don't use the Kinsey scale either - earlier I stated very clearly that sexuality is a spectrum, and I personally feel that the Kinsey scale is far too simplistic (and as I identify as something off the Kinsey scale, I feel that the fact I find it problematic should be obvious). However, the person I replied to (who you both cut out of the quote tree) referenced it and I did the same for relatablity.

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If it was everyone would chose to be straight


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It's like if there was a choice between being queer or not, why would I choose to be other than what I am and be a heterosexual? Ew.


Personally I would prefer to just be the way I am now too, but I know some people who, if they could, would change their sexuality.

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Generally I don't use the Kinsey scale either - earlier I stated very clearly that sexuality is a spectrum, and I personally feel that the Kinsey scale is far too simplistic (and as I identify as something off the Kinsey scale, I feel that the fact I find it problematic should be obvious). However, the person I replied to (who you both cut out of the quote tree) referenced it and I did the same for relatablity.


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Personally I would prefer to just be the way I am now too, but I know some people who, if they could, would change their sexuality.


I'm sure there are people who feel that way. I know one. And he loathes himself for being queer and bashes other queers.

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Generally I don't use the Kinsey scale either - earlier I stated very clearly that sexuality is a spectrum, and I personally feel that the Kinsey scale is far too simplistic (and as I identify as something off the Kinsey scale, I feel that the fact I find it problematic should be obvious). However, the person I replied to (who you both cut out of the quote tree) referenced it and I did the same for relatablity.


Gotcha.
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Personally I would prefer to just be the way I am now too, but I know some people who, if they could, would change their sexuality.


I'm sure there are people who feel that way. I know one. And he loathes himself for being queer and bashes other queers.


I too know someone in this situation... Religion is unfortunately a factor.
I've always felt that this debate is framed in the wrong way. Why would it matter if homosexuality is a choice, unless you already thought it was immoral and needed to justify it based on some backwards concept of free agency? Or if you wanted to pass a law against it? If killing someone wasn't a choice, would the act of murder become less wrong? Homosexual activity is a choice, but homosexual orientation probably isn't, unless you want to also claim that gay people are masochists who just want conservatives to hate them.

If it's not a choice, then there's no hope in trying to "convert" people to adopt heterosexual practices. And nobody wants their business to go under... do they? It's a pretty normal thing. About 10% of people identify themselves as gay, whereas about 2% have red hair. And where's the ginger-bashing movement? Is being ginger a choice? Who gives a steaming s**t? And if gays make up 10% of the population, aren't the straight people 90% of the problem?

I feel that the politicizing of homosexuality is leading people to take on that trait as an all-embracing facet of their personality. I've noticed a distinct silence on the part of the "straight" community recently. And from the conservatives who want to "strengthen the family" and do nothing to abolish child support.

The issue does, however, keep those pesky voters busy. You bang the drum, you whip up controversy, you gather campaign contributions. You'll do well to remember that while Obama was coming out in favor of gay marriage, American planes were bombing Yemen.

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The Kinsey scale is probably the best way to describe sexual identities.
At least it's not as black and white as "YOU'RE EITHER STRAIGHT OR YOU'RE GAY"
Of course it's a choice.

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Of course it's a choice.


According to what research again?

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The Kinsey scale is probably the best way to describe sexual identities.
At least it's not as black and white as "YOU'RE EITHER STRAIGHT OR YOU'RE GAY"


So would a bisexual person be a 3 on the list?

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Of course it's a choice.


Then how come I didn't choose to be gay? Did you choose to be straight?
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Of course it's a choice.


At what age does one assume full control of their autonomic nervous system to do so then? Sexual arousal, after all, is dictated by that system.
Bullshit it isn't a choice. If I knew a gay guy irl I'd prove it to you.

Edit: Well I suppose a bisexual would work too.

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