Master/slave Dom/sub conversations

Do you live D/s as a lifestyle or as strictly bedroom addition?

I'm in it for the long haul! 24/7!	16.7%	[ 2 ]
I don't see how it's even possible to do it outside the bedroom...	25.0%	[ 3 ]
It's who I am, and I'm me 24/7	33.3%	[ 4 ]
I really just like the thought of livening up my sex life	0.0%	[ 0 ]
Neither, this whole thing seems silly. Why would anyone want to give up control!	0.0%	[ 0 ]
~hip thrust and a little shimmy~ (Pole whore)	25.0%	[ 3 ]
Total Votes:			[ 12 ]

[yellerSumner]

*tries to take a deep breath*

Demon Lord Kaos

Slasher, darling... I know you like to get inside peoples heads... But you need to stay out of mine... It's big, dark, and pretty empty, don't want you to get lost now do we?

*perks up*

*takes a few deep breaths to ward off ideas of grabbing a sword, torch, backpack full of adventuring gear and seeing if there's any treasure in there*

deep breaths... deep breaths...



Oh, Dunno if you wanna field this one, Kaos. I actually found this thread by checking your other posts after seeing your advice in that other thread.

[SinObsidian]

Wow... Thanks for bringing that to my attention Sumner. I just sent her an email giving her some support and extending an invitation to come join us at least to talk for a bit. But this situation is exactly the kind of thing I've meant when I talk about abusing a sub's trust.

[yellerSumner]

Yeah. I'll try to keep an eye out for topics like those whenever I browse through Life Issues and send them your way.

[Slasher Girl]

Sorry about that long silence from me. Had a friend come in to talk with me about some issues he's been having.

Oh man, that is such a scary thought. I hope she does come to talk with us, I can't even begin to imagine how awful it would be to have that happen and have no where to turn to.

[yellerSumner]

Are there any warning signs to look for before getting to that point?

[SinObsidian]

That would be fantastic Sumner. You are without a doubt a great asset to the community already my friend. We are all better off having you around and I once again thank you for your diligence, support and hard work! Just reading her account nearly broke my heart and infuriated me at the same time. Please to any and all that come through here, be you Dom/me, switch, or sub. Do not repeat her mistake. NO MEANS NO! Respect eachother, respect the limits and safewords/gestures set down, and most of all watch out for one another. I was however very happy to see just how much support she has been given just in public, not to mention all the pm's she said she received. That is one of the things that make me proud to be who I am, and to accept myself and participate within the D/sBDS&M community.

[SinObsidian]

Yes Sumner, Slutty_Eddie's post at the top of page 2. It's the first post on the page.

[band_geek3000]

Interesting thread you have here.

[SinObsidian]

Thank you band geek. If you haven't already, please refer to page 1 for our rules of etiquette and criteria for activity within the thread.

[SinObsidian]

Yes October it is true that people in vanilla relationships use BDS&M to 'spice up' their sex lives. However this thread is focused towards people that are interested in learning about how 24/7 D/s relationships work. Please refer to page 1 for rules of etiquette and criteria.

[band_geek3000]

Yes I've seen it. Unless I missed something...and from the way you phrased that it sounds like I have...or maybe that's just the lack of sleep talking.

[Slasher Girl]

Thank you for finding interest in our little D/s Support Group, band geek. We really appreciate it, and welcome you to our thread.

[SinObsidian]

Sorry band_geek. Was just making sure that you had. It's hard to remember that some people actually look through a thread before posting. My apologies.

[band_geek3000]

Ah. I am not one of those people. I was reading a few pages, but I should be off soon so I thought I'd post randomly to say hi. I'll be back tho because I'd love to discuss some things.