Master/slave Dom/sub conversations

Do you live D/s as a lifestyle or as strictly bedroom addition?

I'm in it for the long haul! 24/7!	16.7%	[ 2 ]
I don't see how it's even possible to do it outside the bedroom...	25.0%	[ 3 ]
It's who I am, and I'm me 24/7	33.3%	[ 4 ]
I really just like the thought of livening up my sex life	0.0%	[ 0 ]
Neither, this whole thing seems silly. Why would anyone want to give up control!	0.0%	[ 0 ]
~hip thrust and a little shimmy~ (Pole whore)	25.0%	[ 3 ]
Total Votes:			[ 12 ]

[Slasher Girl]

Oh right, that one!

[Slasher Girl]

Demon Lord Kaos

Yes Sumner that is correct. Although it is possible for a Dom/me and sub to just get very lucky and meet under these circumstances. *pats Sumner on the back* "there are no such things as stupid questions... There are only stupid people in large groups." And where you fit in, well that is your own journey my friend, I can give you all the information that I have gathered from MY experiences, but YOU are the only person that can answer your questions and make your choices. I'm kinda like a roadmap, or a signpost.. You decide the destination, and the route you'll take to get there, I'm just here to go "watch out for that pot hole", "Road Closed", etc.

That is the most amazing analogy I've heard in a good long time! And so damn true!

[yellerSumner]

~Insert long period of whining about having to make own choices here.~

[SinObsidian]

It's pretty much hand in hand Slasher. What you enjoy will in turn be a basis for the amount of control you give to a Dom/me, and vice versa the amount of control you give a Dom/me will become the basis for how much you enjoy something. I hope that makes since, because it does in my head... It's easier to figure out how much control you are willing to give, and see what you like, what you are interested in, etc. Because once that is known, then it's much easier to put a name to it, as opposed to going through all the names and trying to find which best suits you.

[Berry Bunneh]

Slasher Girl

I'm a little worked up right now 'cause I have a friend in a panic and I can't get a hold of her. But besides that I'm doing quite well, how about yourself?

Oh no, sorry Smoothi, we are trying to help others, not hook them up. We're just here to answer questions people have about D/s relationships.

( Sorry I had to go for a bit my brothers wanted to watch some vids on my comp. stressed )


I see, I'm sorry to hear that.. I hope you're able to get a hold of her soon. I'm a bit upset at the moment, but I'll get over it in a while hopefully.

[SinObsidian]

Sumner, stop that whining immediately. You're a big girl, and you should act like one!

[Berry Bunneh]

-Sits in a chair and covers a yawn.- e.e Hmm.~

[Slasher Girl]

~nods~ That actually makes perfect sense to me. I'll keep the name thing in the back of my mind and just try and figure out what I need and want out of a relationship with a Dom/me first.

~hugs Bunneh~ I'm sorry honey, I hope everything gets better soon.

~giggles~ I just realized that the tables have turned. Instead of all Doms and one sub, we now have all subs and one Dom. That's entertaining to me.

[Berry Bunneh]

Slasher Girl

~nods~ That actually makes perfect sense to me. I'll keep the name thing in the back of my mind and just try and figure out what I need and want out of a relationship with a Dom/me first.

~hugs Bunneh~ I'm sorry honey, I hope everything gets better soon.

~giggles~ I just realized that the tables have turned. Instead of all Doms and one sub, we now have all subs and one Dom. That's entertaining to me.

-Hugs back.- Thanks.

[SinObsidian]

Feel free to share if you need to Bunneh. Won't push the issue any further, but my mailbox is always open if you don't want to post it here on the board.

[yellerSumner]

But I dun wannaaaaaaa...



I hope you feel better as well, Bunneh.

[Slasher Girl]

~giggles at Kaos' and Yeller's antics~

[Berry Bunneh]

Demon Lord Kaos

Feel free to share if you need to Bunneh. Won't push the issue any further, but my mailbox is always open if you don't want to post it here on the board.

Thank you, but at the moment I'd rather not talk about it.


Sumner: Thanks.



Um.. you guys can call me Eli if you want, it's short for Eliary, which is my name. sweatdrop

[SinObsidian]

*raises an eyebrow and fixes Sumner with an "I'm not amused" look* I wasn't asking Sumner...

[Berry Bunneh]

o- o; -Grabs some random sticks and plays with them.-