Master/slave Dom/sub conversations

Do you live D/s as a lifestyle or as strictly bedroom addition?

I'm in it for the long haul! 24/7!	16.7%	[ 2 ]
I don't see how it's even possible to do it outside the bedroom...	25.0%	[ 3 ]
It's who I am, and I'm me 24/7	33.3%	[ 4 ]
I really just like the thought of livening up my sex life	0.0%	[ 0 ]
Neither, this whole thing seems silly. Why would anyone want to give up control!	0.0%	[ 0 ]
~hip thrust and a little shimmy~ (Pole whore)	25.0%	[ 3 ]
Total Votes:			[ 12 ]

[yellerSumner]

((Well, Mudkip we're just talking about as a Pokemon. It's Pikachu that's the cake. And I'm trying to decide if I'm going to laugh at you for liking vanilla cake harder than I did for locking yourself out of your room or not.))


Yeah, I don't blame you for anything "dumb" done while you weren't sure of who you were. I'm not entirely sure who I am at times.

Do you think you would have come to the same conclusion if you hadn't been reading about D/s relationships previously? Don't think I asked that yet.

[SinObsidian]

I'm finally done with sewing!!! Yay!!! *hugs Slasher, nuzzles her neck and growls softly* I know exactly who I am, all the time Sumner. No you don't... I thought I told you to shut up!Sorry... No, not you... eek stare sweatdrop Ehehehe..... And I didn't even get exposed to the relationship side of this lifestyle until I was 19. Until then I thought I was some kind of oddity, never had met someone that was like me, or that was submissive enough to match me. Actually the first thing, and really the only thing, that I've ever read concerning D/s is a very very good book called "The Sharp Edge of Love" by Galen. I would suggest that you pick it up if you run across it, or find a copy online and get it. It's an essay form though, so I will warn you it reads slightly different from a novel, but it is an actual true story about a Dom and a few encounters he had with various types of subs. Very insightful into how a Dom/me's mind works, and how the relationships can pan out. Sorry to ruin it for you, but there's no happy ending.

[Slasher Girl]

I don't know really. I mean, there are things that I can look back at and say, 'how in the world did I not notice sooner?', but I think if I hadn't been reading those stories it would have taken me even longer, or it might have even taken a Dom/me to show me. But the end result would have been the same.

((Gotcha, Pikachu is the cake, Mudkip is just the pokemon. Yea, I'll take a Mudkip ^-^))

[Slasher Girl]

~whimpers back and tilts her head to the side~ Glad to see you have finished.

Well, I guess I now know what I should spend my christmas money on. -_-;; And yes, it is sad that it took until now for me to decide what I wanted. Slasher is going to pick herself up some educational books and maybe a video or two.

[yellerSumner]

Slasher Girl

I don't know really. I mean, there are things that I can look back at and say, 'how in the world did I not notice sooner?',

Oh, don't even get me started on my ex(es)... "Excuse me, could you stop punching yourself in the crotch for five minutes and kiss me!" rolleyes


((Yay Mudkipz! ^^ *will totally breed one and name it after you*))

[Slasher Girl]

(~claps~ Oh neat! A cute little Pokemon named after me!! That would rock!)

I've only had three past relationships, but I so know what you mean. You just look back and you're like, 'What in the world was I thinking!'...And now it has officially processed in my brain, crotch punching?

[Berry Bunneh]

-Thought of stopping by again and saying goodnight.- Goodnight everyone..

[yellerSumner]

Yeah. Exactly.

We'd be in his room and I'd be sitting on top of him because I was never bold enough to state "No, damnit, we're switching." We'd make out for a while, he'd get aroused, and then he'd politely sit up and push me aside so he could like punish the little guy for acting up.

I don't know if it was his Catholic upbringing (though, I tend to think ex-catholics ditch everything like that) or if he was a closet masochist or some combination of the two. As much as as I am for ripping (certain) guys apart at times (I'm with you on rapists, Kaos!), it was really a turnoff.



Aww, G'knite, Bunneh! Sleep well.

[Sassy Pocket Gay]

*slinks in from lurking and catching up*
Thank you for the explanation Kaos.
As a experiencer and a watcher of some of the not so lovely things you mentioned in your post, I can understand to a point where you are coming from. And a not so wonderful experience with a ***** myself I can really understand.
Though you're post scared me a bit, some of the things you said you were told about being mature and such are the same things I hear about me.
Only I'm not dominant ^.^;;
And it usually involves something about missing my childhood and needing depression medication... >.>
Oh and goodnight Bunneh!

[SinObsidian]

Night Bunneh. Heh, and here I thought I was the only person that had that problem. Good to know I'm in good company! *pets Slasher and pats Sumner on the back* And I think I know what he's talking about...

[Slasher Girl]

G'night Bunneh!!! ~eyes close and just sits and enjoys the petting~

[SinObsidian]

I think he's talking about this maybe??
No worries Sassy. I made a choice early in my life that I was going to be stronger than the people that did that to me, and that I would never allow anyone to ever do it to me again or to anyone else if I could help it. Unfortunately I was also a very very angry child until quite literally I thought to myself, "I'm not going to be angry any more." And that's when things finally clicked into place for me. I'm not saying that you went the other route from me, or anything like that. But all of the events in our lives affect us, the most traumatic ones unfortunately affect us the most. But personally I'm glad that everything that has happened to me did, because if even one thing had been different, then I wouldn't be who I am today. Make sense?

[yellerSumner]

Wait, what'd I do? Cause I wanna do it again.


Oh, and I know there are people who like to let others label themselves, like when it comes to sexual orientation and such. Should Dom/mes and subs be considered the same way, or are there people who are Dom/mes and subs who just don't know it or won't accept it, don't want to be part of the lifestyle, etc?

[vengeance012x]

Umm... I'd be willing to be a 'underling' to a girl. If anyone would want me...

[yellerSumner]

Okay, who gets to break it to Stormshadow that this is not a hook-up thread?