Master/slave Dom/sub conversations

Do you live D/s as a lifestyle or as strictly bedroom addition?

I'm in it for the long haul! 24/7!	16.7%	[ 2 ]
I don't see how it's even possible to do it outside the bedroom...	25.0%	[ 3 ]
It's who I am, and I'm me 24/7	33.3%	[ 4 ]
I really just like the thought of livening up my sex life	0.0%	[ 0 ]
Neither, this whole thing seems silly. Why would anyone want to give up control!	0.0%	[ 0 ]
~hip thrust and a little shimmy~ (Pole whore)	25.0%	[ 3 ]
Total Votes:			[ 12 ]

[yellerSumner]

I'm pretty new to Gaia, but how would we go about creating a guild as opposed to exhibit A? Would that be of interest to us?

*wanders around trying to find out more about guilds*

[Slasher Girl]

Demon Lord Kaos

Wow... Speak of the devil.... Ladies and Gentlemen of the Jury, exhibit A; Atma_Weapon_oni...

~snickers and then smiles sheepishly~ I actually already deleted his post from the board ~pouts~ Nobody is going to mess up our pretty little support group.

[Berry Bunneh]

Demon Lord Kaos

Ah, a Bettie Page fan I see.. Welcome Benny.
Bunneh, the support group is open for anyone that is truely interested in learning about or has had experience with D/s relationships as far as I'm concerned and that is my only criteria for others joining us, well that and being at least 17. I just can't bring myself to give this kind of advice to someone underage in good conscience. *scratches behind Slasher's ear while petting her* Unless my "other half" has anything else to add of course. The only thing I don't want to see here is alot of people thinking this is another rp thread or an easy way to hook up and cyber. But other than that, being a place for people to come and ask questions and share any and all TOS ok'ed info is what I would like the most for this group. Personally I'm 25, and have known of my Dominant nature for the past 13 years so it is something that I do take seriously and encourage others to do so as well.

Those are all very good Slasher. But why don't you make a bunch of them, and then people can choose which ever one fits them best?

I see, well after Slasher puts up all the pictures she wants to put there with the link, I'll put a link in my profile page. o- o And I'll most likely come back, I'm 20 so about my age I don't think there's anything to worry about, this is a very interesting topic to me, so I would like to learn all I can of it.

[yellerSumner]

Oh, age, right. I'm twenty-on- Oh! It's after midnight. I'm 22.

[Slasher Girl]

Well Shadow, First ~waves~ Hello and welcome to the board. Second, I really don't know what to tell you. As a sub myself, I just can't imagine Dominating, and I wouldn't know how to be in a relationship that someone asked me to dominate. I literally would not be able to and it probably wouldn't go past a close friendship.

[SinObsidian]

Hello Shados, and you've certainly come to the right place. I actually had an answer earlier concerning your exact problem. My suggestion to you, would be that either, one of you will have to step up and become the Dominant memeber of your relationship, or you could both try switching. I would suggest that you try Switching, taking turns as to who is Dominant and who is submissive. There is an old saying in the community that 'the best subs make the best Dom/mes", and this will be the easiest solution for you two to handle I think.

[ShadosShadow]

Now if I could just talk her into trying that switching idea... that actually makes the most sense. It's weird though, because this is just about the only part of our relationship that we really have a "problem" in, and I don't see us breaking up just because we can't decide who's going to be the dom. I'm definitely going to keep that switching idea in mind, thanks for all the help! mrgreen

Oh, and just to clear the air, I'm 18. blaugh

[Berry Bunneh]

yellerSumner

Oh, age, right. I'm twenty-on- Oh! It's after midnight. I'm 22.

Happy b-day? xP



Everyone: Well my luff went to bed, so I think it's time for me to get off the comp too, talk to you guys later if able to, goodnight. D;