Good Evening Shuttle Bus! ....uhh will open again SOMEDAY.

Good evening shuttle bus! Tell me where you are going to take us?

Some place that I have never been.	30.4%	[ 77 ]
To chilly sub-depth railways and weathered concrete stairways.	12.3%	[ 31 ]
Provide me with a way of getting home, if I ever leave.	15.8%	[ 40 ]
Off to Owl City.	41.5%	[ 105 ]
Total Votes:			[ 253 ]

[Darth Darkie]

Okie dokes. =OO~~ 3nodding Waiting on you.

[Salice IAI]

like a chipmunk on sugar high, reeuq?

[Shao Bei Bei]

● ● and she said,

*curls up in corner*
Shao is upset and needs hugs. :*(

[Salice IAI]

awww, why? :C *hugs*

[Shao Bei Bei]

● ● and she said,

I think I need to dump my best friend.



Posted a few minutes ago...

I am so ******** pissed right now. What gives a person the right to think that just because they had a bad day, they can just order somebody else to give up their free time to spend 20 dollars worth of gas and 40 dollars in spending money at the mall with them? Huh?
We were having a perfectly lovely phone conversation about hot guys and hilarious manga, and then she had to try and get me to go to the mall with her. When simple asking didn't work, she started telling me I was lazy and needed to get out more. And when that didn't work, she told me that she was getting ready to go to the mall and that if I was going to say no, I better not waste my breath because she had a bad day and was going to go no matter what.
It's not that I don't like her. She's been my best friend for years. But I wish she would realize that I am not the kind of person she can just order around.



She's been trying this tactic with me a lot - insulting me, guilting me. And it's really annoying. And I don't like to have serious talks with her, because she always says hurtful things and honestly, I like to keep out of drama. I think I need to distance myself from her, but it's hard because she's always calling.

[Salice IAI]

Awww. That's pretty selfish. Bad day or no, that doesn't give you an excuse to bitchfest and order people around.
but. IDK if she's been your best friend, would you really dump her rather than have a serious conversation and tell her how you feel?! gonk

I hope you work things out :C /hug

[Shao Bei Bei]

● ● and she said,

I've tried telling her how I feel before. She brushes it off or retaliates with hurtful, untrue things.
And besides, we've been getting more and more distant since we both switched schools last year. I think this is just the breaking point now.

*hugs back*
I have a great idea for your order so just wait and see! :'D

[So-naa]

Shao Bei Bei

● ● and she said,

I think I need to dump my best friend.



Posted a few minutes ago...

I am so ******** pissed right now. What gives a person the right to think that just because they had a bad day, they can just order somebody else to give up their free time to spend 20 dollars worth of gas and 40 dollars in spending money at the mall with them? Huh?
We were having a perfectly lovely phone conversation about hot guys and hilarious manga, and then she had to try and get me to go to the mall with her. When simple asking didn't work, she started telling me I was lazy and needed to get out more. And when that didn't work, she told me that she was getting ready to go to the mall and that if I was going to say no, I better not waste my breath because she had a bad day and was going to go no matter what.
It's not that I don't like her. She's been my best friend for years. But I wish she would realize that I am not the kind of person she can just order around.



She's been trying this tactic with me a lot - insulting me, guilting me. And it's really annoying. And I don't like to have serious talks with her, because she always says hurtful things and honestly, I like to keep out of drama. I think I need to distance myself from her, but it's hard because she's always calling.

Wow it sounds like a very emotionally abusive relationship!

Please make sure to read this because I think this would really give you the boost to say no or goodbye.

Emotional abuse

Check out this exerpt!

Quote:

Abusive Expectations

* The other person places unreasonable demands on you and wants you to put everything else aside to tend to their needs.
* It could be a demand for constant attention, or a requirement that you spend all your free time with the person.
* But no matter how much you give, it's never enough.
* You are subjected to constant criticism, and you are constantly berated because you don't fulfill all this person's needs.

[Shao Bei Bei]

● ● and she said,

Wow. That excerpt's...eerily fitted to my situation. I think I'm just going to let our friendship die off. *nod* I mean, I don't think it's really emotionally abusive or anything (well, certainly not the most serious situation) but I don't see the point in our friendship anymore.

Aargh, 3/5ths of my break is up! 8D

[Prince Kit]

ninja

[So-naa]

Shao Bei Bei

● ● and she said,

Wow. That excerpt's...eerily fitted to my situation. I think I'm just going to let our friendship die off. *nod* I mean, I don't think it's really emotionally abusive or anything (well, certainly not the most serious situation) but I don't see the point in our friendship anymore.

Aargh, 3/5ths of my break is up! 8D

Well that's the funny thing about emotional abuse. Some abusers don't know they are one and some of the abused don't know they are being abused. It was really hard to pick this out for a long time. I mean it didn't exist back in my day. You had to be tough or whatever.. Or people didn't notice it. Or they talked it down to 'not to bad.' Like I said, really hard to define. She probably is, but it's really hard for her to know because that's how she has grown up or something.. Anyways don't feel too bad. You are saying no to that situation and going on in your life. Good luck ok?? Don't be afraid to be a valued and beautiful human being with worthwhile opinions and views.. You know?

[So-naa]

*kills thread accidentally* oops

[Shao Bei Bei]

● ● and she said,

Ooh, nice avie So-naa O:
I never change mine so I can get lots of art for it 4laugh

[Sork Slade]

Salice is an Idiot

like a chipmunk on sugar high, reeuq?

LOOOOOL
rofl

[So-naa]

Shao Bei Bei

● ● and she said,

Ooh, nice avie So-naa O:
I never change mine so I can get lots of art for it 4laugh

Thanks!! It's like a fashion addiction or something!! o.o;;
I tried to keep the same 2 times but I just have such an urge to play dress up haha smile So I keep a few of my faves for avi art or have my oc done XD

Can you tell ? I'm the night sky hehe.