How to choose your prey: Limit your options. You might be into the super hot red-head with the golden skin and eyes as profound as the deepest ocean… but maybe he’s just not in your league. Be realistic. Work with what you know you can get.
(This is Liam’s current problem… who’s the top dog NOW?)
The Approach: When you walk up to that special someone, be casual but confident, show them you’re relaxed by talking about something interesting and use your sense of observation to see what they are into. People put their personality on themselves, find out what it is! Once you start to talk, those words are treasures for you to pick up on! Gather up only the most precious things in case you need to run out of the booby-trapped cave, Indiana Jones style.
The Tactic: Now you’ve chosen your game and set your location, time to cast out your bait! “The accidental stare” works every time. As they continue to converse, look deeply into their eyes. When they ask what you’re doing, pretend to pop out of your personal bubble in an obvious way and shyly stare in the opposite direction. Confidence is key, but a bit of vulnerability (like being caught doing something silly) shows them that you are not just an Adonis of physical perfection but a
“sensitive human being”.
The invitation: You’ve become a curious creature to your beloved. Your dual personality intrigues and delights your target. This is the part of the race where you have to get ready to turn your marathon into a 100m dash! Compliment them on their choice of location to be in, what they’re wearing and how you’d like to tak- ahem! Sorry, that’s a bit too advanced for you beginning types. After the compliment ask them where else they like to go and if you’d like to meet them there in a more personal setting. This is where your turn your confidence up and pump out the charm!
Setting the date: You’re almost there! This is the best time to sprint! When you book your date, don’t make it too soon. Decline half of their suggestions indicating that you are “busy”. That could possibly be a total LIE (and it probably is if you’re asking me for advice) but set up a bit of anticipation for that day... but do this quickly! Stay positive; be flirty and light-hearted about the date so they don’t end up changing their minds!
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If at first you don’t succeed, try, try again: Always have a plan B just in case that person is too dumb to understand what they're missing. If you were smart, you caught the locations and the names of a few of their friends during Step 2.
~~~~~~~~~~~~♥Good luck my young apprentices♥~~~~~~~~~~~~
Josh Watanabe
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