Now I think we all have seem the controlling relationships once or twice in our lives if not more. So I thought i'd talk about it. To this day, it baffles to want to understand why an individual would even consider being with someone who controls their life and their habits. I mean I know people have bad habits but, i've seen it so bad to the point where the controlling person puts down everything the other person does. I've also seen the controller who knows how to make the other feel so bad by threatening suicide and blaming them for their problems and not making them happy. Well folks my thought on this is simple. Don't be with someone who is going to put you through this. There are so many other great people who aren't controlling and honestly will not make you feel 100% responsible for the problems they might come across. Now I know there are people i've met that are in these relationships and think it's a way of expressing love. I don't understand where they get this logic but, the more I think about it the more it confuses me. A relationship is a bond between two individuals who can trust each other and tell each other everything. A relationship builds over time and is equal and not one sided if you know what I mean. Now they say love takes time and most people think oh well the problems will fade and it's only a phase. If this has been ongoing then chances are unless they put their foot down, this controlling person will never see there faults and mistakes. If there is no comprimise and a lack of communication why do these people continue to stay in these relationships? What are your personal thoughts on this topic?
 Secret Rendezvous · Sun Jan 03, 2010 @ 04:00pm · 1 Comments |
