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dirtdevilgrunt13

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Posted: Wed Jul 11, 2007 1:54 pm


	Brothers and Sisters I need help... You see, my girlfriend in going through a bad time... Shes losing faith and everything... She only can trust me... Since this is happening she is beginning to cut her self... Not to kill, but it calms her.... Please tell me what to do! God said to talk and comfort her, but its not working...

Posted: Wed Jul 11, 2007 2:10 pm


	First, you're right to follow God' will and talk to her and comfort her. Keep it up, you may not realize you're getting through a little more each time. Meanwhile, cutting is serious and you may need outside help. If not her parents, perhaps a mutual adult friend. Someone who can get more professional help. Good luck and God Bless.

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dirtdevilgrunt13

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Posted: Wed Jul 11, 2007 2:15 pm


	Thanks fairy... But she wont talk to anyone bout it but me..

Posted: Wed Jul 11, 2007 2:32 pm


	Keep talking to her. God is using you to work in her life. And if she won't talk to anyone but you, then maybe you should do the talking for her. Let whoever it is you tell know how she feels, so she can get the help she needs. And even if she doesn't want you to tell anyone, you still should. She'll thank you for it later.

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Posted: Fri Jul 13, 2007 2:08 pm


	dirtdevilgrunt13 Brothers and Sisters I need help... You see, my girlfriend in going through a bad time... Shes losing faith and everything... She only can trust me... Since this is happening she is beginning to cut her self... Not to kill, but it calms her.... Please tell me what to do! God said to talk and comfort her, but its not working... blueprints for the black market... ♥ It's her decision and what she's doing is completely horrible and wrong... But nobody can really /make/ her stop but Jesus. Just keep a strong foundation yourself and be a light to her. That's all I can really think of. And Pray. Constantly, all the time, no matter how good or bad things get, Pray pray pray pray pray. It's the most important thing we as Christians can do. Not just for ourselves but for the Spiritual war going on. ...anberlin Donate your extra tickets? Them's mighty appretiated!

Posted: Fri Jul 13, 2007 2:09 pm


	dirtdevilgrunt13 Brothers and Sisters I need help... You see, my girlfriend in going through a bad time... Shes losing faith and everything... She only can trust me... Since this is happening she is beginning to cut her self... Not to kill, but it calms her.... Please tell me what to do! God said to talk and comfort her, but its not working... blueprints for the black market... ♥ Oh, and by the way, She CAN'T only trust you. No person is absolutely reliable, No matter how much they care. Only God is. ...anberlin Donate your extra tickets? Them's mighty appretiated!

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Posted: Wed Jul 18, 2007 5:24 pm


	So far what everyone else is saying is right, and I don't think I can add much more to it. Just keep being there for her and pray about it. God will work through you or He'll come and do something extraordinary. Whatever is God's will. Hope this helped.

Posted: Wed Jul 18, 2007 9:21 pm


	I must provide three things of you, brother. 1. How old are you? 2. If she is walking in an awkward path, give her a guide to the straight path of God. 3. If she is really going through a tough time, try to help her to move forward. Staying in a place where you can do no good is not the place one needs to be.

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